Why Can't I Feel Love? - Kyle Cease

What if you’re not alone in this pain you’re feeling? What if the control is covering up something huge that could be released?

This video is the first episode of Hot Seat, Kyle’s new series on The Absolutely Everything Pass where you get to work with Kyle live on the call.

As you watch Kyle and Paola work together, you’ll notice that her lesson is for all of us.

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[digitalbrand]

“No love comes from the outside first…”

[fioliveira]

I love a podcast where you have "normal" people no writers, no stars, people like me, thank you

[loriwiseman]

Wow. Went thru a break up on Sunday, but i think it's because I need to feel love differently.. I'm feeling I need to be alone and understand what love is

[jansimpson]

And at age 6 I had a friend 2 doors away with a German Shepherd who would bark and rush out whenever I came anywhere near the yard and I would have to start talking to it from the time I left my yard and hope that it would decide I was ok and not attack me. It did finally attack the mailman and bit him and had to be put down…. This call was so amazing - I cried and I don’t cry…

[passionliving]

If having a stray dog take her bread can create so much ripple, imagine abuse of all kinds and what that can do along with many other things that go wrong from birth forward. Thank you both for that incredible share.

[passionliving]

This was mind-blowing for me. That's something that is not even remotely seemingly connected to love as a trauma and childhood, could create a disconnect throughout a lifetime... Wow I'm stunned. I just wanted to give her a big hug.
It's amazing anyone can survive some of the things that go on in childhood due to the results left in the child and adult

[Mailika]

This is EXACTLY what i needed to listen to. I finally told myself out loud without judgement that" i do not know how to love anyone completely unconditionally all love or attachment i feel even towards my own kids Is ego based and selfish. I feel my heart is super glued closed..and I've been sitting with it and acknowledging it for s whole year but still distract myself and not wanting to feel and go deeper. I'm totally scared of myself and feelings. At least I'm now seeing it, is better than just go on with my cycles...but it hurts so d*mn much and im TERRIFIED of the world and life and my own inner world.
"My name Is Aliis and i do not know how to love anyone, including myself" I have selfish egoistic attachments to all people including my little kids and other close people and sometimes i feel disgusted and so angry with myself that I hurt myself and other people with my behavior. But now i see it, but o don't know the root cause or how to get through this "

[kirstysmith]

I have only been introduced to Kyle by a friend a couple of month s ago . I have been on a journey dropping suitcases for 2 years since 2020 changed my life. This hit me harder than anything . One year ago I had to give up my 2 dogs as I lost my job and home due to covid and had to take on working away from home .This was the hardest thing ever. I had to give away the only true thing that has only ever shown ME " love" in my entire life. I didn't even realise the blockage I have in accepting and wanting love from that in my current place lead me right back to being abandoned as a child all over again. I have pushed aside that loss grabbed my phone at that pain. This has helped me feel that inner child pain and Unpack that suitcase. ...Thankyou Kyle, Thankyou to my friend .Thankyou to my beautiful pooches for showing me what accepting love can feel like .Thankyou to myself for becoming more awake everyday ❤️❤️❤️ love to everyone on a journey 💝

[NothingByHalves]

Four minutes in and I already know the answer as to why this is in front of me.
Perfect timing, great plan. Thanks, Kyle 🙏💫💕

[patriciavalese]

Can’t believe this but I’ve been living with this for quite a few years. I just figured I was hurt pretty bad in my relationships that I just quit - no more, no more romantic love from the day my last love was over. I’m 70, had some great love in my life but it seemed to always end. Felt so afraid, vulnerable so I just stopped. Today I’m surrounded by my family’s love, friends & my precious animal’s unconditional love. But I know I stop there! Inside the barriers are up & no one gets through. I feel so pathetic about all this

[BarbieFriends]

Yes, I relate to the “I don’t have a love for me, anyone else or can receive love” in the sense that I just don’t have that LOVING FEELING anyone that I once did and the hard part of this for me is now I have a daughter of my own and she’s not getting the best of me that I once gave.

[annesblogselvhjlpsvideoer]

once again spot on - a dog bit me when I was a little Girl - but noone belived me 😔 and I just now saw the direct connection to the essues in my life now - thank you so so much 🙏❤️ sending love

[peacequeen]

All my childhood pain that has led to adult pain is all coming to the surface for me at light speed since Christmas Eve. It's been 50 years in the making. It is immobilizing. It is very heavy. I am so grateful for these one on one's showing me what to do with these bricks! Thank you all.

[savanna]

Yes!!! I am watching the replay- I relate to Paula. Thank you for this AMAZING conversation. I love kyle too!! I love how curious. gentle, wise, and loving he is. I want to be in the hot seat or I want to work one on one with Kyle. Everything he talks about resonates with me. You can tell he has embodied this work. He also has this imcredible ability to be with others and hold space for them. The universe is telling me join the everything pass! 💞💞💞

[SandySongJoy]

Thus was so powerful. Thank you Paula! Truly an example of, I am you & you are me, we are we. Allowed myself to feel, feel heard. Feel what I felt as baby when tragedy took me from my family of origin. Honoring myself for my growth & my continued controlling behavior. We are all teachers/all students- when the student is ready the teacher appears. 💝🔷💝🙏

[blaroym]

Thank you so much Paola. This was so beautiful and I'm so excited for this new series of Hot Seat with Kyle !!! 💞🔥💖

[lynnlaumann]

Seriously, is there anyone who can't relate? So grateful for this!

[toddbuckman]

What a gift this conversation is- for all. I cried a suitcase or two out as well. Being a space for the one afraid to be seen as a quitter.
How deep is that particular collective pain? The one who wants an end to suffering yet is afraid to look weak or afraid- and will just keep suffering.

What really hit home in the most endearing way was your comment about the ego- leading us to our core wound by creating problems around it. The idea that even ego wants to heal. That feels so healing…

Thank you again, Kyle.

[hashighosh]

You are free waves, everywhere and in each of us. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[Teez]

Kyle! Please do more of these. I listened to this last night and today in my meditation I heard your voice asking the questions and it helped me to release something stuck inside me. I realized that my abandonment issues were in battle with my worth. I cried it out and realized I’m terrified of goodbyes even at the cost of my worth. My worth and love of myself is battling this feeling. I’m picking my worth. ❤️ thank you