To Anyone Trying To Find Love

Okay, so you're single... stop thinking it is a bad thing! It is a beautiful time in your life to understand who you are, what you like and what type of love you are wishing to find.

I hope this video finds anyone that is trying to find love and let's them know that they are not alone. That they are not lesser than because they are single because people in relationship can be just as lonely.

#loveadvice #single #datingadvice

About Joey Kidney: Hi, my name is Joey and I have a pretty crazy life. I go through the ups and downs, just like anyone, but I share them with the world. Join me on my journey, let's make this life as amazing as it can be. Live to be happy and be happy to live!

If you're reading this far down, hello, you look nice today :)

[verified_pig]

I didn't mind being single for a while but when this "while" turned into ages I started feeling absolutely desperate...

[Mountainsever]

I always hated that “you need to love yourself first and then someone will love you” stuff. I WANT a wife. I WANT to be married someday. Sue me. I know who I am and what I want in life.

[tonybp]

When I turned 35 I decided I was no longer going to chase love. I was always being rejected and I thought I was forcing it and that it was a waste of time, money and energy. I remained hopeful that not forcing it was the solution. It wasn't. I'm 48 now and I've never known love. Right now I'm getting used to the idea that I will never find someone, never have a family of my own and will die alone. I try to enjoy life on my own but it's hard sometimes, it doesn't get easier, at least not for me. I find it astounding how easy it is for so many people to find somebody, if it doesn't work out it's on to the next partner, just like that. It must feel great to be loved and wanted.

[yasminebelghith]

Ever see how it's always the ones in happy relationships that tell you that love will happen to you, and that you should love yourself first before finding someone to love you. Ironically most of them are average people with good luck, who didn't love themselves before meeting their partner. There is no recipe, no instructions, no manual to finding love. However these same people will pretend to know the "real " way to find love, which let's be honest here, isn't necessarily true.

[fabmgff]

I hate the "you need to love yourself first" I DO. I know who I am, I love myself, I feel like I'm one of the most loving persons I know, LOVING MYSELF NEVER HELPED

[YasierSerranoCordova-pyty]

I feel horrible ive never been in a relationship idk what im doing wrong im tired of seeing all my friends in relationship and me just sitting in a corner alone.

[jezzgamezz]

Looking for a partner that shares the same/similar value as you is not shallow at all. I think that's a really important thing.

[YouTubeGalPal]

Finding love is like winning the lottery. You either get lucky or not. Case closed.

[cathylin]

Question: why am I single?
My answer:
1. most of the people that I meet in real life are not single, especially the decent ones
2. 80% of the attractive single men I met online or bars only care about sex, try to get you in bed on the first date, etc, which I find very disrespectful
3. The rest of the 20% I might either not attracted to or I see red flags
4. When I finally found someone who we are mutually interested in each other, I later on found out that they’re not available or they disappear all of a sudden. It feels like the universe is fucking with me.
In conclusion: looking for the one is like looking for a needle in the middle of ocean.
I have a very happy life and I love myself fully. I’m independent and am totally good being single. People told me that I’m an amazing person and don’t understand why I’m single. Well, I don’t understand either. The universe is finding all kinds of way to stop me from meeting someone.

[FearNvl]

So sad that all of us are here single and lonely 😢.

[manaphy]

One advice : List all the things that you would like to find in a partner and then try to achieve all this elements to become yourself this ideal partner, it's time for you to become the best version of yourself !

[calebbilodeau]

“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” ― Rumi

"You have within you more love than you could ever understand.” – Rumi

[lillythebrownie]

this is such a sweet reminder that being single is ok. ❤ i have never been in a relationship before and kinda always in the mood to "i would like to be with someone but i still need to be with myself only" 😂❤

[Philosophyoftruth_]

I’m 26. I have never had a boyfriend, so I don’t really see what I’m missing. Sometimes I think ‘you know it would be nice’, but if it’s not peaceful company - I don’t want it.

[pyhwypy]

I’ve read some of the comments and it pains to see how much people are hurting. And most aren’t asking for much but everyone just wants love in their life. But since we all want love and Love isn’t a person but an emotion felt from other humans the least one can do is make a friend off this comment section and if it grows to something more the better. But let’s cheer up one another. Don’t give up on love nor life.

[rolloxra]

I once heard the phrase “Love is like ghosts, everyone talks about it, but very few have seen it” and it’s so true, very few have the luck to find a good partner and not to talk about being in love with someone which mostly of the times is like a curse cause mostly of the times it won’t be reciprocated.

[MS-lqoq]

Being single is the most humiliating thing ever. I'm sick of it and I'm not spending the rest of my life alone on this rotten planet

[DebbieSanchez-wlwm]

To find true love isn't easy this days and time be going by real quick

[kirkwhite]

I'm 50, I've tried finding a long term relationship for 35 years, failed.

[Nevernormal]

Been single for 7yrs been cheated on, gaslighted, lied on, manipulated, abused you named it.

To answer your question I keep falling for unavailable people. Also, i am receiving love from my friends that is more stable than any relationship i been on. So honestly, I am in love with my friends at the end of the day