How To Not Let Criticism Get To You

We need to have a good and serious talk about how to deal with criticism because a lot of your are letting your critics make your choices for you, some or you are even letting them run your life and that's not okay. It needs to stop - now. Got it?
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[juliakristinamah]

Are you ready to stop letting your critics run your life? Give me a HECK YES if you are!

[unleashingpotential-psycho]

Never listen to criticism because most people who criticize don’t even know how to do what you want to do correctly.

[vanessalynn]

I’ve always struggled with people pleasing. It causes depression because there is no way to satisfy everyone’s needs. I’m learning that I am in control of my life and I’m not letting anyone hold me back. Thank you for this 💕

[derycktrahair]

"Throwing mud from the cheap seats"...that works. No one likes a heckler when you're up there doing your best. That phrase is a reminder of how cruel & mean some people can be. The joke = coming from "the CHEAP seats". That phrase is like an anti-venom against a snake bite. Knowing where it comes from is half the battle of getting over it. Thank you, I will use that phrase, but know that the word "mud" will be changed to something more colloquial. Thanks again and all the best.

[sassysandie]

Love your righteous anger and passion!! Thank you for this kick in the butt! I feel empowered by your words and encouragement!!

[CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom]

I feel critical people are not happy with their own life, so they like to act like a know it all. Many think they are helpful. The older I get, the less I share. Your content is excellent.

[TheEarthycrunchy]

Thank you for this. I need to live and it’s true, the only opinion that matters is my own and the people who genuinely love me. Even my own parents don’t need to be giving me judgements and opinions. Heck, I’m almost 50 and my dad seems to think he can criticize me into submission. No. Not any more.

[kavitadeva]

Thank God this is Not one of my issues. I have always followed my big dreams and never cared what others thought. Being a free spirit I believe helps this for me.

[francesmartel]

My family tended to be very critical of me in my childhood and teenage years, and it still affects me to this day. I really love your channel—it feels like you made your videos for me!

[sksbc]

This one hit me hard emotionally. I've always worried about what others think of me, especially family, and rather than just getting grip on it and moving forward, I tend to not take a chance in order to avoid their judgements. Thanks for waking me up, it looks like I've got some work to do. Life is only getting shorter, time to start living it. Excellent video.

[tammy]

Thank you, I needed to hear this. I need to hear this every day. I know it, but I need to practice it! HECK YES....I'm ready

[vincentssoul]

that's what codependency do.. especially hurts family people supposed to support and you got a criticism out from them,
your spoken true words makes tears in may eyes ..

[tommills]

The 4 Agreements is an awesome book...

[lindab]

I have a family member that has criticized me for as long as I can remember. Because I went away to college and left a small town I am a deserter and therefore thought I deserved all the insults I have come to realize that I was never in the wrong and I should be proud of myself . I am sad in the acceptance that I will never have this person’s respect, even though I tried for years to help her with her issues. It was never enough. And I know that now thanks to wonderful people like you that have helped me. Thank you for all you do. You are a guardian angel to me❤️

[louisevandiepen]

Thanks Julia, this means a lot to me. Respect to all. Do not judge people. Be positive and give compliments. If you have nothing uplifting to say, please keep it to yourself.

[laurafinger]

Julia, I really appreciate your professionalism in saying "Some of you" instead of "Laura." ;)

[jannakenschmucker]

This was exactly what I needed to hear today ! Thankyou so much !

[ShadowCatGambit]

I have a huge problem with this. I've always been emotionally sensitive, and struggled to understand people and why they rage at me, so I worked hard to be the most "democratic" about how a treat people, but in the end I only gave up myself and submitted to the world for emotional security and to feel like I was doing the right At least 6 times in my life, I've been yelled at visciously for reasons I didn't understand, and the fact that I didn't try to do something wrong, don't usually understand certain things, socially or otherwise and not knowing how to defend my own opinions causes me to believe that everyone else knows better (I need to learn to stop listening to confidence). I'd like to learn how to break the confidence of others, so that I know how to have confidence, but I'm too emotionally sensitive towards others to be comfortable doing that.

Also because I see people doing wrong all the time and getting away with it because they believe in themselves and close themselves off to learning from others, while their confidence makes others think and feel like what they stand up for is fine as well.

[AbdullahArRafi]

If someone is a snob and too judgmental, that person doesn't matter. His or her opinions don't matter if they're a destructive form of criticism. Thanks a ton for this!

[miriamoppenheim]

Really meaningful to me in my job as a teacher. There’s a lot of mud being thrown from the cheap seats and it was getting at me...thanks for the support!