How To Stop Being So Sensitive To Criticism

Do you ever feel like you can't take anybody saying anything negative or criticizing of you? Does it make you feel sad or angry and vengeful?

In today's video, I talk about how to be more receptive to criticism and ways to fight your bad feelings toward it!

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[Blindfold-Me]

thank you for this ❤. due to my childhood all criticism sounds like insults and i take it as i’m a failure and i’m horrible. this helped bring logic back into perspective

[larachrw]

Well, I'm working at a store, I'm pretty new there... And some co- workers complain about the fact that I'm too slow etc. I'm sure it's not even meant badly...but that one really hit me. I always feel quite small towards to people older than me... And then I feel like I'm dumb. And I feel uncomfortable the whole damn time long... Just because I feel like they think that about me the whole time...

[portlandrestaurants]

Thanks so much. That technique of sorting criticism later really helps get over the ridiculous criticism I have gotten that I was just stuck on. I guess a part of me didn't agree but just hearing my inner voice say that allowed me to let it go

[eureka]

When criticism hits me too hard I tend to curl in like you and have a full blown identity crisis. ("Should I change myself?" type of deal.) and sadness

[pandamonium]

Wife comes home early from work everyday because she’s dizzy, her tummy hurts, you name it—she has it.

She told me she was home today because she’s dizzy. I asked why didn’t she tell me and she said because she didn’t want me to get mad or whatever. I said: “Don’t worry, I’m used to it by now. Just tell me what I should bring home after I’m done with working.”

She got mad. 🤦🏾‍♂️. Whatever…I couldn’t care less.

[nectarzetlian]

I told my sister I have pain in my hand so she said not to be like my mom was dependent, so she told me to lose weight and I have lost 30 lbs and still working on her. So I got really offended and I was edgy to her. I did not criticise her but I am crying about it right now. Sorry, thank you so much for this video.

[gideonamankwah]

For me, I don't listen to criticism and just ignore it. We could help someone without criticism but by providing feedback. Criticism is an attack and judgment while feedback is advice that helps someone improve. As the bible says, we shouldn't criticize, condemn, and complain. EX: If someone criticizes you for getting a 3.9 GPA by saying you are lazy, pointless, and you don't work hard, don't listen to the criticism because it is wrong, invalid, and not really honest. Here is feedback. EX: I know you are trying your best in school, but I still think you need to work on your study habits, and time management, and get help when you need it. Hope you understand and agree with where I am coming from. Even if we want to help someone, we cant force people to listen to our thoughts because at the end of the day, it is their life and they have the right to make the decision even if we don't respect, and dont accept the decision itself.

[brendamoosa]

Thank you so much, I need this advise❤

[annaehs]

I needed this video so bad! I've always wanted to be a strong no bs woman like you and I swear to you I will bebin the next 365 days 💯 💪 👌

[melaniejones]

Help, please!!! YouTube keeps unsubcribing me from my favorite channels. I constantly have to check and see if I'm still subscribed. Yesterday, I was watching Alexa's thriftmas with Katrina, and I noticed I'd been unsubscribed. Today, I'm watching this video, I checked the subscribe section, and YouTube unsubscribed me AGAIN!!!! This happens on the regular with all of my faves. I went to Google for answers, and apparently, customers can only subscribe to 2, 000 channels. If this is the case, why doesn't YouTube allow us to choose which ones we want to unsubscribe from? How is this fair to the content creators we love and want to support. Does anyone have any answers? Your help is TRULY appreciated.

[jasminesams]

all of your videos thus far have been very helpful