How to make friends

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CALEB SIMPSON

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The most "boring" people often make better friends. Those who are on their phones the whole time when in your company, are rude.

london

Usually those fun people will only be with you in fun times.

kristinacassandravillanuev

Don’t know how to say this but I wouldn’t call this good advice lmao. Often the people who don’t talk much because they’re introverted and shy are the ones who are a joy to talk to. I say this as someone who’s very extroverted and goes up and talks to people easily. Someone who seems shy and quiet at first bc they‘re on their phone also has a whole rich inner life that could fit you much better than just whoever is the loudest about having fun.

bbuuttercupp

Me who sees quiet people and goes talk to them…

raesartworld

I think what he is trying to say: go to people who look the most present into what’s happening in the moment, for instance the ones who laugh, have fun, dance and are basically living in the present. I would say it is a pretty solid advice, especially if you are looking to get out of a rut, socially speaking. 😊

roxanacucu

Where I'm from the people who have the most fun are on drugs so idk

diamondgamebeats

Then I start having my introvert problems

syedshadman

When u realise no one will make friends with you because you're always on your phone

woofzynskier

it’s hard because at school everyone picks on me because i’m one of most scrawny freshman there is, i get shoved, punched sometimes, and people pour things on my head. I truly only have one friend and it is my math teacher. he is the only one who ask how is your day (besides my family) every day is the same for me at school.

rsqsltl

The most fulfilling thing about life is probably making new connections. I am an overthinker and l absolutely fascinated with meeting new people. Great people.

thebluebeyond

Guys, he's sharing HIS rule of thumb. Of courage if you're nothing like him you won't agree. Personally I always go for the outcasts. I can only bond with people who feel on the outside looking in. That's cool. It's all about your personality and lived experience.

metanoiate

I think introverts don't need advice, because there will always be an extrovert willing to adopt them 😂❤

gooseman

Meeting friends is all about comfort and connection. If you love nature and find joy there, connect with someone who shares that bliss. If you're at a club and find someone fun, don't hesitate to make friends. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses in friendship. Embrace the journey and open your heart; true friends can be found in the most unexpected places.

lokisan

I recently had to do this. Started a new job exactly a year ago and at my last job I interacted with 1 person 2 or 3 on lucky days. But now I’m forced to be more interactive because thats how the job is. And now I basically have 2 guys under me that im with almost all day, but theres 3 other guys that are senior there they all been there for about a decade. Anyways they were the hardest to build some sort of friendship or relationship with because they weren’t really interested and like to be to them selfs. But what i did was non stop everyday id make sure to say Goodmorning every single day nice a loud so they hear! I also maintain strong eye contact and i constantly ask them about themselves or things that are on the news or something new that I recently learned, but they would respond very dull and just not interested. And this continued for a good 5 months until i broke them all and they now are more comfortable talking to me everyday are convos are much more organic and im usually the center of a big convo with all the workers because i enjoy everyone getting along, i could keep going but now im rambling 😂😂😂

iimsoxo

I usually do the same, I find that it's easier to become friends with them because theyre usually more likely to talk back more and make having the conversations easier than someone who's more quiet and doesn't respond as much.

jansonciereszko