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Hi there :) My name is Renee Amberg and I’ve been vlogging here for the last 5+ years on YouTube. All stemming from my beginning Law of Attraction days, to the big NYC, & then finding myself settling into this new journey of life as a mom to two and living out my dream life with my beautiful family & partner. Thank you for being here with us. We love you xx

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00:00 my personal struggles
09:18 health stuff
14:29 transparency
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[jomearac]

I have seen no downfall, I have seen a wonderful person go through a few tough years. I have watched you for years Renee and will watch ifvyou post a littlecor a lot. Hold onto this great man. You are grieving. Please allow yourself grace. It is not the best time to make any huge life decisions in the middke of grief

[kathywest]

Renee and Z it is so important to not only go to counseling together but separately. My husband and I lost our two month old son years ago. It’s important to know that men and woman grieve differently. You can not work together without working separately as well. As a woman going through the grief along with hormone changes and the fact as woman we feel like our child was supposed to be safe with us are usually different than the feelings that men have because they are so statical and protectors both need to be heard separately to go through that part of it. Because couples don’t always rationally see the other side which art both valid the drift apart. As a couple getting the guidance you need will allow you to make logical decisions when you are healthy enough to do so. Sending prayers and love surrounding you both. ❤

[maireadwarner]

I really admire the transparency in this video Renee, but also please don't feel pressure to share things with us if you don't want to! From the outside it's clear you've had such a difficult time and been going through so much - when things feel low it's easy for everything to feel that way. In the context of your whole life I hope this is a small chapter and a tough bump in the road that leads you back onto the positive and happy path you deserve. Sending lots of love x

[brookeblair]

It’s really refreshing to see such transparency. Thank you for being so vulnerable and honest. Life is hard and it does no one good to pretend like everything is fine. I’m really rooting for you guys! The fact that you’re willing to put in the work is amazing ❤

[LALAE]

You all don’t have to have transparency with anyone but each other. You both suffered a loss and deserve the time and space to heal.
Shame on anyone commenting where you “should” be.
Life has its ups and down, all this can make you both stronger as a couple and individually. Praying for you guys. ❤️🙏🏼

[christie]

Also, go to hormone specialist (not a regular doctor) and get your hormones checked. I was struggling to much with depression and anxiety after I had my son 4 years ago. I just got tested recently and my critical hormones were completely out of whack and that was one of the huge reasons I felt depressed and anxious and all over the place with no motivation, nothing I did otherwise helped. I started bio identical hormones and I’m feeling so much better. Having children can really cause hormones to stay unbalanced. Unfortunately it’s not talked about as it should be in this time, and women go their whole life thinking how they feel is how they are supposed to feel. I highly recommend just a blood test to see where u are(and maybe u have already, but I just wanted to let u know my story)

[sandrar]

I also wanted to add, that during grief and during the first 3 years of having a kid, relationships struggle. It is just not the same it was before no matter how much you try to make it look like before. Accept it and don't make any rush decisions during this difficult time! But don't ever think what others may think about your life or your decisions. At the end of the day, you have to be happy, and those who are happy with you are standing by you no matter what! Sending much love to your way 😘

[aldiva]

I have never watched a video that had so many words but didn’t really tell me anything. I have watched you for a while and if you don’t want to share then don’t but then don’t get on here and be all vague. Don’t make a phoned in video…just my opinion. I will go away now. Thanks.

[jamierenae]

You should feel so proud of yourself because you’ve been through so much & I’m sure there is much more that you haven’t been able to share but you are so strong! Truly, impressively strong & brave for sharing as much as you do❤

[HeathersJourney]

Sending prayers for clarity and peace. Truth is things went fast and intense with y’all met; pregnant not too long later, car accident; bab6 in nicu, move twice. Give yourself space to heal, space for honesty within yourself you don’t have to have it all figured out. You keep mentioning wanting to feel at home. That’ll come from within when you align more. Take tine to heal and listen.

[KristenRivera]

Couples counseling is seriously incredible! Every couple goes through hard times and loss can put a lot of pressure on everything. Continue to lean on each other ❤

[amberrsilva]

I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH FOR THIS. Thank you. Social media doesn't show this until it's toxic and and ending. And you guys are a BEAUTIFUL example for all long term couples. I appreciate Zander in being participating in being open and vulnerable with us as Renee's youtube family. Thank you Thank you Thank you

[TiaWeston]

Proud of you for pushing through and finding out what works for you! Always rooting for you! 🙏🏼

[mowgleeeee]

what the two of you sat down and did was truly vulnerable and extremely brave. thanks for the realness, its really refreshing. sending you love, strength and healing ❤ results come when excuses leave.

[TTrain]

Zander seems like a good man Renee. As long as he is the same way behind the scenes as he is on camera you should fight to save the relationship. Good men are rare and the dating pool is horrible. You should be coming together and leaning into each other not pulling apart. Make God the center of your relationship and work it out no matter what, that’s what marriage is. Living separately part of the time is not ever going to work. I think if you stick it out and make God the center of your relationship things will improve. You have to be committed. Happiness comes and goes and is a fleeting emotion, you can’t base staying together on that, you just have to be committed. Contentment and meaning will come with that. Stand on commitment, not on feelings. Praying for you both, with God nothing is impossible

[catherinen]

I had two big events this year, aside from getting pregnant for the first time after two years of trying to conceive. I had a miscarriage at the end of March and I was laid off at the beginning of May. My husband moved on after our pregnancy lost. I am still in it. It is incredibly lonely. No one is in charge of my happiness but me. I try to look at all the wonderful things I have and plan for things to look forward to.

[Punksimmons]

Z is so sweet and supportive and he obviously loves you dearly. We love you too!! Sending you so much love and support.

[ciiiwaaa]

Girlie, you’re one of my favourites! I love all your content, and really feel for you.
Put up whatever you feel like, whenever. And I think you’ll for sure come out great at the end. If it’s not good yet, it’s not the end - as cheesy as it sounds I totally believe it 🫶🏻🤍

[kellyjohnston]

I really admire the transparency & honesty in this video. Renee and Z it is so important to not only go to counseling together but separately as well. Every couple goes through hard times & loss can put a lot of pressure on everything but leaning into one another as well as friends & family can make so much difference. From what I observe Z seems like a wonderful partner, Dad and person. For him to come on to the video and discuss something so personal with your followers I have to give him kudo's for. You dont owe your followers anything, we will be here. Make sure you take care of yourselves, Bryson & each other. Love to you both! 💜

[Maya-lbvg]

To see a couple trying to understand each other better, understand we change as time moves and allow it, hold space for the other’s needs and emotions and look into your own wants and faults, is incredible. I am so moved to see two people so willing to bravely navigate this openly, instead of closing up and giving up on closeness.
You are brave Renee, your heart and values guide you, and I feel you allow yourself to find the place you want to be in through these hardships. You are going through this so gracefully.❤