3 Tactics Narcissists Use to Isolate Their Victims

In this video, we dive into three specific ways narcissists isolate their victims from family, friends, and other sources of support. Isolation is a powerful tool that allows narcissists to control and manipulate, often without their victims realizing it. By gradually cutting off connections, creating distrust, and instilling self-doubt, narcissists make it harder for victims to seek help or see the situation clearly.

Learn the subtle tactics narcissists use to keep you dependent, confused, and alone—and discover steps you can take to recognize these behaviors and reconnect with the support network you deserve. If you’re recovering from narcissistic abuse, understanding these isolation tactics is an essential part of healing and regaining your independence. Subscribe for more insights on reclaiming your strength, setting boundaries, and overcoming manipulation.

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[johnnellterrelllyric]

Sounds like my mother! She isolates me from any family member who makes me happy but makes sure she still maintains these relationships for herself

[nooneisalwaysright]

This has happened to me so many times, I can't even explain. First, I was talking about mushrooms, and then a funny video on mushrooms popped up on a comedy channel i subscribed to. Then, I mentioned bed rotting, and a video on that came up on another channel. I was singing a song, and the same song appeared in the shorts of yet another channel. Just yesterday, I was talking to a friend about this frog story, and now it’s showing up too. This can't be a coincidence. This kind of thing has happened to me countless times before. Our phones are definitely tracking us to provide more relatable content, but I didn’t realize it was this extensive.

[skybengal]

Wow. So true. I’d like to think I’m intelligent however she was so subtle with it the penny never dropped until I stumbled on these narc videos. I thought she had my back and was looking out for me until I realised my support network of family and friends was being decimated !! I caught on and put a stop to it when she became unhappy me visiting my son. By then the damage was done !!

[tsmanu]

9:33 The four things that you mentioned - Pure Gold.

1.⁠ ⁠Self trust - Even when someone don’t validate you
2.⁠ ⁠⁠Capacity to have guilt come up in your body - Without an urge to suppress it
3.⁠ ⁠⁠Ability to stay grounded and comfortable - Even when some one else is uncomfortable around you
4.⁠ ⁠⁠Ability to have two perspectives - Can have difference of opinion and still be okay with it. No urge to join the other to make them feel better.

You always hits the right spot in the most concise manner. 😍🥰🙏. Thanks a lot for your time and efforts to this community.

[dyeags]

This is spot on! I’ve lived this for the last 34 years. CRAZY accurate. Thanks for making it make sense!!!!😢

[YoutubesFromWayback]

I have been in 2+ years homeless, and isolation, ousted from the family and our community.
I still work, have my drivers lic., have a vehicle i need to fix (accident in the snow-living in my car @ the time.)
Father sold the family home of 42 years( he has another house) just so Me, my Brother and our Nephew (deceased Sister's only Son) have nowhere to go.
He and his Allies want us all dead, no joke, no lie. We already lost our Mother, youngest Brother, and Sister to this. Our Father used Cops, Courts and the Conservatorship system to destroy his first family with ease.
He's a truly evil person I believe 100%.
Sometimes I can't believe it's real.

[GregMacDougall-mn]

Thank You for all your dedication and hard work.
You're our inspiration to recover from criminal abuse. ''Narcissist Suck!''.

[yuu_miran]

Thank you for your videos. Even though there are alot if coaches and psychologists, theres sth calming and very informative about your channel. Its thanks to your videos about covert narcissists that i realized my closest relatives were covert narcissists. If not i think id be greatly suffering now more than before. But with this information and God’s mercy I no longer care about their antics anymore.

[Mattheus]

My ex-wife would tell me things such as “you know your family doesn’t really care about you and they’re messed up, the people at church don’t care about you either. I am the only one that really cares about you… and I just want you to get the help that you need…”

“ if you go there anymore and talk to them, you’re not loving and supporting your wife. You’re not being a good husband.”

“ You’re selfish. You’re prideful. Your mind isn’t right. You’re a narcissist and you’re abusing me and abusers never change, so I have to protect myself from you. I don’t want our kids to grow up with an abuser….”

(when I try to say how I feel or that I’m being unfairly treated):

“ you think you feel that way, but it’s not real. You’re delusional and in your crazy world you think that’s how you feel but it’s not real. You’re just abusing me, you’re an emotional abuser…”

“You’re full of demons, cooperating with the devil…”

Then when she would use induced conversation or reactive abuse, and poke or criticize me and I would react, she would say things like “why are you so angry? Why are you so mean to me? Why do you mistreat me? I was just talking and you just yell at me and treat me bad ..”

And many more things which now I understand, but for many years, I was perplexed at what exactly to do and I just felt confused

Now I know it was dark, and manipulative, and controlling, to push me down and push me to lose my own self and my own mind

When I started writing these things down instead of just sucking it up, and then reading and watching and learning and talking to others, I realized holy crap. I’m not imagining any of this. It’s really bad and I have been holding out hope for good that never came and now I understand never can .

I realized that divorce was a tough situation, but in ways unknown to me I believe God brought me deliverance from a person who really never cared about me and who can’t

[donaldedwards]

I think one the sublte things is that they just dont ever seem interested in being around your friends and your family when they are out with you. You just start not do things with your friends and family. Next thing you you just stop draling with anyone. Then if left qnd hoover back many times. There since of embarrassment so you self isolate.

[pharxahghxst]

Happened to me without even knowing it 5yr marriage now Im trying to heal I drive trucks so I constantly have thoughts

[MamabearAsh]

Yeah, I'm isolated, and I hate it

[UrGranny-zcmz]

my mother, father and former foster did that.

[johnnellterrelllyric]

Last year, I was invited to a family meet house for thanksgiving. This side of the family I’ve never had opportunity to spend time with or get to know. So I was open to coming over for the holiday. Strangely but not surprising, my mom came over but rudely stayed in the car…..so my partner and I felt weird and couldn’t really enjoy or time staying over. After leaving my family member told my mother she enjoyed having me over and I wanted to stay longer but felt like I couldn’t. I haven’t seen or been able to talk to that family member again. Every time I ask my mother about getting in contact with her she says “oh I dont really talk to her anymore…oh she been really busy….of you don’t need to talk to her because she won’t have time.”

[joemiranda]

The Founder, the Coach practitioner that never answers any simple comments !!! Pure Narcissism Victoria Principal ????

[ekkamailax]

Envy plays a big role here especially when it comes to dating. A narcissistic father, who was socially awkward and didn't "get girls" when he was younger, feels envy when he sees his son getting dates. Same goes for a narc mother- if she never got the guy she wanted in high school, she burns with envy watching her 16 year old daughter attract those type of guys. These parents will act charming in front of other people, but behind closed doors, they will use these isolation tactics to sabotage your dating life. They can not stand the feeling of watching you attract the type of situations they always wanted but failed to attract.

[SerendipitousSynchronicity]

Ive been trying to get help.
My phones are contaminated with remote monitoring... i need a safe place.

[aristideshernandez]

I believe It's not just in relationships, but within the circles of families and relatives and communities, , it's a hard life when you have become a target of The Kingdom of satan..

[reettaelina]

It's like the whole history is written wrong😡

[joemiranda]

06:16 Haters never die, , they multiply ! They can even get groomed by the Empress's cabal evil tactics ! The best thing to do is keep away in peace and happiness ! 11:46 For the first time the battle is my sister, her husband vs aka the Anointed Chosen by God our Father Christ Jesus ! I have been bullied and abused of enough ! It was affecting my family home relationship with my W and only D !!l 😢❤🤗❤
I just felt inside you don't hold any grudges with me due to my stupidity, I apologize greatly ! 😇🙏🌎🤗❤