Emotional Stages for the DUMPER In a Rebound Relationship

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Emotional Stages for the Dumper In a Rebound Relationship:

1. Relief:

- Initial Freedom: Right after the breakup, dumpers often feel a sense
of relief and freedom.

- Euphoria: This relief can sometimes lead to a euphoric feeling,
as they look forward to new possibilities and experiences.

2. Guilt and Regret:

- Guilt: Despite initiating the breakup, dumpers often experience guilt over hurting their ex-partner and causing emotional pain.

- Regret: They might start questioning their decision, especially if they see their ex-partner moving on or if they encounter difficulties in their new relationship.

3. Loneliness:

- Missing the Old Relationship: After the initial relief, dumpers might start missing the familiarity and comfort of their previous relationship.

- Emotional Void: They may experience a sense of emptiness and loneliness, leading them to seek out new companionship quickly.

4. Distraction and Avoidance:

- Seeking Distractions: To avoid dealing with feelings of guilt, regret, and loneliness, dumpers often look for distractions, as new relationships.

- Avoiding Self-Reflection: By focusing on a new partner, they can avoid reflecting on their role in the breakup and the underlying issues that led to it.

5. Validation Seeking:

- Need for Affirmation: Dumpers may seek validation from new partners to reassure themselves of their desirability and worthiness.

- Boosting Self-Esteem: Positive attention from a new partner can help boost their self-esteem and counter any doubts they have about their attractiveness or relationship skills.

6. Realization:

- Acknowledging Issues: Over time, dumpers may start to acknowledge the issues in their previous relationship and their own contributions to the breakup.
Which can lead them to want to reconciliation with their ex.






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I love what you said, once this person breaks up with you and then start to get physical with someone else, this person is now DIRTY! I don’t want him back. This is the ultimate betrayal…

brendahstarr
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6 years together and he has a new gf after 3 weeks. Couldn’t even breakup in person it was through a text and he said “he’s happy.” In gonna be 31 single w no kids and he’s happy in another relationship. This is an unbearable pain.

cathrynhaggerty
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I saw the breakup coming but I was blind with the love I had for her

shekujakoh
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I trusted him and entrusted my innocence, my laugh and my soul unto him, he disrespected and took me for granted 😢

bambilekha
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It happened to me. 6 years in, helped her with her career, took her children in like they was mines, and in one week she threw it away like it meant nothing. After I moved out, she moved him in the next day. From what people tell me that they stay in arguments. That shows that rebound relationships never work. But her jumping into a fast relationship wasnt pain for me, it was a relief to know that she wasnt the one for me.

dr.unitylove
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I noticed when I step back and watch my and others break ups when they end by betrayal I see the patterns he is discussing and this person will go on and on in this same pattern.I have seen it over and over again

unclejay
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I’m never going back, I understand that he is not emotionally available and he’s damage will no longer take my energy . I will
Heal

anacfonseca
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I hope my ex returns to me from her rebound. She was my first actual love, and if you know anything about men, we never forget our first love. If she doesn't come back I'm staying single forever because it's unfair for a woman to marry me while i still love my ex. Even if she's okay with it, my integrity just wouldn't let me. I'm praying to god everyday she returns. 💔

leexmass
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Im only starting to feel the ease of the pain in my heart after 5 months. I didnt see the breakups comming . We wrte 08 years together .he was the most beautiful kind giving generous man i ever knew. .we has a pure soul connection .
I still have lots of love for him but the heartache is easing
I see a lot of my own contribution during these monts of reflection ❤ ❤❤

marytierney
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Are you latino too? Dude has the best advice on breakups on YT. Salute hermano.

stylewithaltitude
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It’s not easy to move on, it’s so painful on my side to be a dumpee. All I want is to be heal and forget about him.

jennylomboy
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Found your video and book on healing, thank you very much.

IvanSladoja-tjcx
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i prey and hope you are right in everything you saying, curse holy shit it hurt when you still love them, and they jump into a new relationship.. rebound or not, you can never be 100% sure i feel like.. but thanks for your wisdom friend. :)

Zulaz
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Thank you for this valuable information!!👍🏾

rayclark
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After careful consideration, l have decided to follow your advice to not focus on getting my ex back, but instead concentrate on moving on and completely healing. Could you please do a video on healing. Thanks for all your work.

IvanSladoja-tjcx
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I have yo agree I thought the pain in my heart would never heal, I lost a half stone in weight could not sleep .eat or think
It's possible to die of a broken heart . You have to heal and build your self confidence

marytierney
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He moved on after a month. I still haven’t moved on and it’s been over 2.5 months.

alliecat
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Thank you so much for this information. It’s a big help from you Coach Paz.

jennylomboy
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Caught my ex cheating. He lied until i had a photo. Then he told me he had been dating her for 2 years. 😱

askquestions
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I was in a relaionship for 5 years, he lied and said he just wanted space and move out. Then cllicked and got him to admit he was in a relaionship and cheating. He loved bombed me. Told me he loved me, then broke up. Begging to be friends. I was in shock. I lost 2 half stone in a month and a half. I am in no contact .he is 40 and he went with a 25 year old. My heart was broken. Still messages me now, asking how i am.do these age gap relationships last?

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