Key Phases For The DUMPER in a Monkey Branching Relationship

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Key Phases For The DUMPER in a Monkey Branching Relationship

1. Initial Attraction and Relationship Formation
- Initial Meetings
- Dating Phase
- Building Connection

2. Relationship Plateau and Emerging Issues
- Stability Phase
- Dissatisfaction
- Boredom or Discontent

3. Seeking External Validation and Connection
- Interest in Others
- Flirting
- Emotional Distance

4. Developing a New Relationship
- Secret Communication
- Emotional Investment
- Comparison

5. Emotional Withdrawal
- Detachment
- Reduced Interaction
- Justifying Behavior

6. Transition Phase
- Letting go of the current partner
- Breakup
- Full Transition

7. Immediate Post-Breakup: Relief and Adjustment
- Relief
- Anxiety
- Creating Distance
- Engaging in New Activities

8. Honeymoon Phase with the New Partner
- Excitement
- Hope
- Intense Bonding
- Optimism

9. Reality Sets In
- Realism
- Dissatisfaction
- Reevaluation
- Comparison Phase

10. Conflicted Feelings
- Confusion
- Guilt
- Reaching Out
- Introspection

11. Potential Reconnection with the Ex
- Nostalgia and Longing
- Uncertainty
- Contacting the Ex
- Evaluating Choices






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Everything this guy is saying is so accurate and literally explains my ex. Monkey branchers tend too date or downside with people that are of less value then their former partners. Physically at least and with people that don’t have much dating experience to see the red flags.

Phil-jt
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This is so true. Another aspect:: my FA had planned to keep me as a friend. He had not planned for my walking away without a tear or drama. NC forever for me. He was stuck with his new love, without me. It didn't go as planned. I have healed and moved on with my life. It took one year of inner and outer work, but I did it. I watch your videos in order to be sure I recognize the red flags. Never again!!!

Flufero
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Best coach out there. No BS. Helping me heal and seeing things for what they are!

kieran-rc
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I never knew about monkey branching until it happened to me I think more people need to be aware of this thanks for this video

quinntrejo
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I wouldn’t put a time frame for the honeymoon phase. Knowing my ex, he’ll go above and beyond to extend it to force-convince himself it’s working out and the grass is greener. The longer he drags the more painful his fall will be

RxTx
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25 years. 3 kids wonderful life. I thought wonderful wife. She hasn't been right after covid. Deep issues she never healed from childhood. I thought my unconditional love would conquer all. It didnt. When i found out she was unhappy i got needy and doubted myvalue. Blamed it all on me for taking her for granted and me being complacent. I tried so hard to be better. Spent thousands on mens courses which helped in alot of ways but didnt bring her back. She monkey branched and there is no changing that mindset once it starts. Shes left me with kids. Moved the next state over and wants to stay friends. No lawywrs. Gonna divorce just us and the process has started. Im still heartbroken a year after i realized we werent good and 6 months since she moved into an apartment in town.
I now have to get strong so i dont accept her broken self to come back and repeat history.
We had love then it turned into a lesson so i have to learn as hard as it is to hear.
Thanks for this content

dr.weirdbeard
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What a great analysis-
I won't bore anyone with my experience but I will say that anyone who can do this (MB) literally has no soul.
Are you out now with no children involved? No legal entanglements (marriage, mortgages loans) ?
If so, you need to get on your knees and thank the Almighty with your whole heart.
Confront, embrace and process the pain. Wear it like a badge of honor. No one will ever know but you how bad it hurts sometimes. And that's a good thing.
Do not accept their calls, texts or overtures of any kind.
Do not creep on their social media.
Get on your knees again. Thank him for what you have. And for what you don't.

robertanna
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‘Let’s be friends’ is their bucket of water on your fire for a romantic relationship.
If you’re interested in them,
they already know you are a friend.

mikyl-forh
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Ha! This is me and my ex to a T. Crazy how formulaic it is, but, yeah, it’s awful to experience. That guy really had me thinking for a long time that I was this awful person and that I did something to deserve it somehow. It was simply a decision he made. It hurt a lot, but he had no remorse, he just didn’t care and it baffled me so much. I get it now, I dodged a bullet, but man, I really did care for the guy. . .

Bopsterjazz
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One of the best I have seen on this topic, very detailed and nuanced breakdown of the subject matter and accurate info, and matches up with reality of what I have seen in my romantic/dating experience dealing with this stuff throughout life. I’m sure the channel will blow up and grow over time

Freudster
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Paz, it’s really great how good you explain all what happens in a breakup!!!

JurgenPfleiderer
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My ex got engaged after eight months dating the new guy. Just move on, people. It's not worth the pain holding on to them

killingjoke
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The worst thing is they always trash talk about you, mine for example was complaining in social media that I somehow didn't like how she dressed (never did) actually she always ask me what to wear and I suggested but apparently I was judging in her mind, is insane how they avoid the trust in order to avoid also the guilt of leaving a good relationship, and obvious she went back to her ex bf 1 year with me, saying I am the love of her life. Is insane, my first months it was driving me crazy. No, I realize she is just trying to deceive herself in order to avoid the pain of her decision

RobbZombie
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My ex went back and forth between me and another guy several times, since august. This guy doesn’t even know anything. She is now with him again for 3 months already, funny thing is, at the beginning of the month she unblocked me and started stalking my stories again, She does not even follow me. Several days ago even congratulated on my graduation. and she is still with that guy. So basically Paz explained what is happening there. She is again starting to do same things all over again, wishing for the different result, but relationship built on lies is doomed to fail.

aleksandras
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I love how you have the visual aides. Its a dope reference and I'm a visual learner.

DonaldMeyers-vc
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You speak so honestly. Love your videos and wise advice. Sometimes people do stay with the rebound person or someone they cheated on their spouse with. It may be rare like LeAnn Rimes who was said to have cheated on her husband with her co-star who was also married. They got married and are still together years later. We can only move on after being dumped and try not to compare or look back.

nancylove
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Honestly 100percent accurate.Even the months .Great analysis bro

travel.guide_tobaoni
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My ex wife I believed Monkey Branched.... Broke my darn heart and spirit. But, I'm also happy that I see what type of person I was with for 5

joshuamac
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Thanks, this video had a lot of key markers. Seeing that they are clearly a cluster really helps to not take it personally. Its natural to make your partner feel good, its just sad in this case it accelerates thier devaluation phase and makes them even more selfish.

robbo
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This is 100% correct. I recently took my ex back after two months. After she dated another guy. We re-connected and things were amazing. Two weeks later she walked through my door. Her face, the energy, everything was off. She started a fight that day out of nowhere from the past and was completely blind sided. Come to find out she went on a date with another guy the night before!l from a mutual friend. After the fight and asking her if she was talking to someone else she offered friendship and cut off emotional/physical contact between us. I declined her offer. Went no-contact and my mutual friend a week later that she continues to see the new guy.

matthewgarvin