How do you stop yourself from doing things you shouldn't? Ask a Psychopath

We all know someone with psychopathy.

But few know the truth about it. We’re helping change that… by helping you know the signs. Know about treatment options and resources. And know you’re not alone.

James Fallon is a professor of neuroscience at University of California at Irvine, and the author of the book The Psychopath Inside. He considers himself a "prosocial psychopath."

He joins us today on zoom to discuss what it is like to be psychopathic.

[IndianaJoe]

"Genetics loads the gun, personality aims it, and environment pulls the trigger."

~ Jim Clemente, FBI Profiler

[Yamikaiba]

I got a dopamine hit when he said, "I'm gonna manipulate MY-SELF." Genius!

[heyitslizzybee]

He's hands down my favorite psychopath. I think his talks could really help other psychopaths who are maybe struggling to resist doing harmful things and don't have as much self control.

[DavidTangman]

After watching these 7 mini-videos, I can't help but feel that this guy has attempted to play all of us viewers. I'd be interested in hearing what the people who have been hurt/damaged by him have to say.

[dark_teal]

I can tell that these conversations are useful to humanity. "Take what is useful and leave what is not"

[mariominayag]

I wholeheartedly believe these videos are good for people that are psychopaths to be able to understand and align in a way that will make their life in society successful. I'ts easier to come to understand people with this treats from things coming from their own minds than someone that is not a psychopath. Thanks you Psychopathyls.

[ij]

"What is better? To be born good, or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?"
- Paarthurnax, Skyrim

[plunderersparadise]

'its no fun, I sleep longer. It's exhausting to be nice person. I don't know how people do it. So, right now, I can't stand it'

[celine]

Interesting. I am not a psychopath but I have autism and adhd and I relate to the part of making it a challenge to be ”better”. In my case it’s more about being open and honest with myself though and not pretend to be a better person than I am, but I feel like making it a challenge sort of motivates me, because I do tend to like challenges, as long as I feel like I have a shot at it and the goal is clear. That’s why I do better giving myself challenges rather than accepting other peoples challenges, the challenges I’m given by others are often not concrete or clear enough to understand, or not things I’m naturally able to do.

[odonnelldenise]

His talk not only halpsother psychopaths but anyone who has an addiction or tendancy. Thank you. Good stuff. Subscribed 👍

[bungleification]

After watching all his videos, I’ve noticed he never gives a specific detailed example about how his condition has affected others. Im sure he would come across much more negativity if he did.

[josephstaton]

I see predatory behavior in other psychopaths as a sign of weakness.

[aliengrey]

Seen this man before. He never gives a straight answer. Is he dangerous? You’re damn right he

[jacobshorter]

… and there it is! 02:28 - 02:44 thought/fantasy > emotion/“buzz feeling” > prey drive/gaming mode > manipulation/stutter/verbose

[puddincakes]

Anybody else notice the clown picture only slightly hidden by the bookshelf? Haha yikes.

[craigsurette]

He basically is describing "masking" pro social"nice" behavior, in the same way an autistic person might try to "mask" small talk and other neurotypical social interactions.

[Pure_Imagination_]

I had a psychology professor tell me once that sometimes it’s good to have some pathology to be in successful positions.

[sirclarkmarz]

speaking for myself it takes a high degree of self awareness and discipline . and the ability to understand the consequences of your actions now and in the future .

[darthsadic]

The evil clown peaking through the book shells makes what he is saying take an interesting vibe.

[waywardpony]

I am not psychopath, but I have Asperger's disorder and I can relate to aspects of this. I believe in studying people individually, it's the way I interact with others safely. I form a word list and way of patterning my speech, to interact with people in certain ways they feel comfortable. I also form critiques of myself and others, and try to positively manipulate everyone towards a good place. It teels good for the environment and good for myself, creating a culture of kindness. Narcissistic? Possibly, but at least I try to use it for good. I also dislike people, but like individuals... and people are just composed of individuals I've yet to get to know. I struggle with relationships and startrc forming real trust and empathy in 8ky late 20s, early 30s.

Also, most everyone tends to yo enjoy spinning a yarn and having attention. Even if there's a dark aspect to it, having the insight yo black off if trusted others feel it is becoming unhealthy is very healthy and grounded.

As an aside, I can really, really, reslly relate to Dexter Morgan. Just minus the whole stalking and killing, I am a pacifist.