How to stop feeling sorry for yourself

[Thewizardliz]

My mom asked me to add:
If you are in an abusive relationship whether it’s emotional or physical make sure you find a way to leave. Ask for help, tell someone you trust, save money to get out… it does not get better if they abused you once they will do it again and worse the second time. It takes lots of courage to leave and start over but you have to be strong and have faith. It’s better to have some uncomfortable months or years than have the risk of someone taking your life. They do not change, they only get worse because they see that they can get away with it. If I could get anything back in my life, I would have left when I saw the early signs of abuse.
You will get trough this, situations like these create warriors. When you are brave enough to choose yourself, everything in life starts to open up for you.
Lots of love and blessings 🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️

[gregorymasters]

I am a man and i find men’s self help videos sometimes very toxic. So i watch your videos and its amazing how good you are with this. Your advice always helps. Its like listening to elder very wise sister for me. Very therapeutic. Thank you for this.

[SoVidushi]

I wanted to give liz a hug when she said she would trade her looks for a happy childhood. Liz you're a force to be reckoned with.

[marissagorjizadeh]

As an arm amputee when you said "You have arm privilege" I DIED🤣🤣🤣

[jadasugar]

“Life is not for the weak” wow, that really hit me.

[gloriakim]

"I would trade my beauty to not have mental scars"
This hit me to my core. I hear this and I feel this so deeply.

[sofiacardinali]

“The bad will never outweigh the good because my mindset is right”. so beautiful, thank you

[inarahshariff]

Words can't describe how much respect i have for this woman

[hrishetarajkumari]

I can't stop crying. I am dealing with so much high school drama that I don't even wanna deal with but listening to her say, "It happened, it happened, honey it's fine" was such a comfort. Thank you Liz. You mean a lot to me. I love you with all my heart. You're such an elder sister to me. Thank you.

[aniketchakravarty]

another male viewer from india, so im an 18 yr old boy struggling with crippling depression and constant physical and mental abuse from my parents. Honestly i was sick of most male self improvement youtubers telling me 'oh just hit the gym and meditate bro', cuz even by doing all of that, i never understood why i still used to break down in tears during night and had to cry myself to sleep until the mental pain was finally gone.
Going through all of the loneliness, abuse, confusion and self hatred alone i thought there was no point in having even a single ounce of hope for life anymore.
But then thanks to my cousin, she recommended me your channel and i noticed that im finally starting to feel better day by day as i keep watching your vids. i hope one day i'll finally leave my parents' place and see a totally new version of life.

Edit: So Its been a while since i'm on my healing journey and im here to acknowledge the fact that yes it still hurts a lot and its not an easy process at all. A lot of times you are going to find yourself reliving the whole traumatic scene in certain social situations and even end up crying with a combined feeling of frustration and extreme sudden hatred towards the abuser.
But always remember that since you were strong enough to survive the damage, you're well damn strong enough to survive the recovery too.
AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!

[lovemaine]

Out of all professional motivational speakers out there, you're the only one who really helps me a lot. Thank you, Queen!

[Wr-]

Your mom seems like a very strong, beautiful woman, that raised an amazing daughter. I‘d really love to see a video of you both together, if you want to

[kinggojo]

The pretty privilege point is so damn good because we as men were taught recently that women are living life on easy mode because they're pretty. When in reality you have women who get abused and cheated on but they are drop dead gorgeous. Also ones who suffer from depression and anxiety. Those things are not easy to deal with and I'm glad that I came across your channel to see a new/better side of things. Keep it up!

[mafer_mv]

5:55 - Focus on evolving yourself to get the privilege you want
12:08 - Self pity is a waste of time
12:48 - Self pity leads to more negative emotions
13:14 - Self pity prevents you from dealing with your emotions
13:56 - Self pity interferes with relationships
14:12 - Self pity is a habit that you can change
14:22 - Accept the situation for what it is and focus on what you have now
14:57 - Volunteer to a worthy cause
15:24 - Start something new and make it apart of your lifestyle
16:05 - Look for the positive in every situation
16:27 - Look at yourself from and outside perspective
17:01 - Ask yourself what advice would I give a loved one about this situation
17:05 - Treat yourself like someone you love deeply
17:47 - Remind yourself of the times you were able to overcome tough situations
18:25 - Make a list of people circumstances and situations that you love and are good
18:44 - Write down things you are grateful for in a journal
19:20 - Repeat to yourself what you are grateful for
20:07 - Ask other people what they are grateful for
20:26 - Teach your children to be grateful
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[Crumpledpages]

14:39 "It happened. It happened, honey it's fine. It happened. Okay." Thank you, Liz. That literally broke me. Every time I see one of her videos, there's a part of me that heals and feels emotions that were buried somewhere deep within.

[starlight]

This is the girl thats putting therapists out of business. Literally therapist of the century, love you liz x

[pennysmith]

“Life is not for the weak” 🥵 that floored me. Such an empowering msg. I will never ever forget this.

[nanukabeshkenadze]

when my 4 years old brother had cancer I realized that literally nothing matters in this life but being healthy, I was going to oncology clinic very often and seeing these little kids without hair and without any hope killed me, most of us don’t realize that we are very privileged and some people would do anything to be in our skin, we should be grateful because of that
P.s my brother beat cancer and now he is doing great❤️

[raealex]

After watching some of Liz’s videos, I wished I had a friend like her, after watching this video, I realized I want to be that friend for myself and those around me

[annamayumpacan]

“If i don’t talk about myself like that, who’s gonna talk about me like that” GURL!!