how to VALIDATE YOURSELF | stop seeking external validation, grow your self worth and level up!

This is how you stop seeking male validation, chasing approval from others, people pleasing, feeling insecure and instead BECOME YOUR OWN VALIDATION. It's time you transform into your most confident self and stop caring about what others think.
This video is split into 6 chapters: causes of seeking external validation, seeking male validation, quit people pleasing and set boundaries, stop giving an F, become secure in yourself and grow your self worth, and finally how to validate yourself.

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My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men... to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.

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[twisted]

I'm a boy but I 100 percent agree on your take on male validation. Almost 100 percent of the time guys make fun of girls to lower their confidence in order to cause them to seek male validation. It's a sick and twisted game they like making women play. And sometimes, guys even make fun of other guys who don't have girlfriends. So the whole idea of male validation is just some sick game perpetuated by toxic masculinity. Keep being you, the world loves it xoxo <3

[thediariesofchi]

“Their validation of you isn’t even real! Other people are incapable of invalidating you because they don’t have all the facts!” That’s all I needed to hear!👏🏾😂I’m putting this on my wall

[DylanVanessa]

“Your brain should be too full with all your passions so that whatever negative thing someone has to say shouldn’t affect you” LOVE

[sakinaparmar]

“Men’s tastes are very questionable” i legit agree to it! 😂🙌🏻

[juliesydenham]

That urge to call someone after something triggers you is exactly what I went through before watching this video. I've only realised recently how badly I crave everyone else's validation and how it affects the way I view myself.

[miasimran]

You're the older sister every girl needs

[alexberea]

"Right people will respect your boundaries" it's my new path of my life 🥺

[Zammy_ler]

"The right people won't be disappointed when you set your bounderies, they will respect them" THANK YOU !!!

[AS-kfol]

33 year old here who has never struggled with this. Here is my secret:

I know deeply that the one thing in the entire universe that I have to myself is ME and my experience. I am all alone in my mind, heart and soul experiencing the world uniquely. Even trying to explain what I feel or how I think or what I experience will never allow someone to truly experience it the way I do. It the sole gift we all have been given, being truly alone to witness life in a completely unique way.

With that, every single thing about me has immense value to me. Like if you went out into the deepest of space and found an extremely amazing diamond that only exists once in the whole history of the universe. That's how I feel about myself. And that's how you should feel about yourself. I

[multistanner]

I am 15 and I literally cried on the fact how bitterly i think about myself and I m so grateful that I saw this video and realized it. I will definitely try to improve and be a better version of myself so thank you for this video it has helped me in a million ways and that itself speaks a lot about how great of a person u are and I just wanna acknowledge that

[viewer]

Teaching my mom self validation because she's always been a people pleaser and raised me to be like her...Let's break the cycle ✨

[jodieturnerx]

'Say to yourself what you are wishing others would say to you' that honestly sounds like a game-changer! Self-validation is so important when going through tough times.

[storm]

I’ve been single for over a year, doing shadow work, trauma group three nights a week, doing attachment trauma work, seeing a therapist, a coach, and staying completely sober. Yeah, sometimes it’s a slow moving needle but when it moves, Mountains in your life don’t just move…they disappear.

[doristailor]

My notes
1.
Goal is to merge your public and private self to stay authentic to yourself
You have to relieve believe that you are worthy/desirable/smart enough and that you deserve whatever you want to an extent, where other's reactions and opinions do not matter to you.

2.
Put YOURSELF on the pedestal, only YOU.
Say affirmations.
Remember just because other women receive more male attention does not take away your beauty.
Why do you even care about men?? They make questionable choices, have weird tastes and they are just unpredictable, you do not want people like them to validate you.
Figure out attachment issues and work on them.
Male detox.
You accepting and liking yourself is enough. You are imperfectly perfect with some weaknesses and insecurities (they don't make you less worthy.

3.
Stop doing things for others and bending backwards for people and spend time with yourself, be alone and enjoy your solitude.

4.

No one cares about others opinions. It's a momentary thing that will pass, because they will go home and focus on other things and life goes on. Life is so busy in itself that it's not worth overthinking and focusing on these temporary happenings.
Better yourself and invest in yourself.

So what if someone hates you? Not everyone is meant for you and even the richest and moust famous people have been rejected and hated in their lives, it's normal.

5.
Identity every positive thing about yourself, your personality, qualities, achievments etc. and list them.
Then list the negative ones and try to disprove them.
Experiment with yourself and what fits you the best.
Reject the past, always think of a new day as a new opportunity

6.
You are unique and only you know the real you.
Validate your feelings and empathise with yourself.

[DoritoHunter]

I really wish I had adopted this mentality before I started dating. I'm married now so the "no boys rule" doesn't apply, BUT I can still apply the need to receive validation from others in my life. This is excellent advice. Thank you! Please continue to do these videos!

[ananyakaushik]

You're super amazing
Your vocal energy
Your expressions
Your confidence
Your meaningful sentences
Your feminine energy
Girlie You're gorgeous
I just love your content
You inspire girls and women. You just radiate feminine energy thru ur videos

[rachnaluthra]

I am 49😬and learning to love myself. Thank you for your content. And I am excited for you to know this at your age. ❤

[th_Brother]

As a teen guy, changing some things like seeking male validation to female validation works almost the exact same. Thank you for your inspiring videos!

[sunnydeessa]

Yesterday at work I was feeling very very low bc the other people making me feel insecure. I started spiraling to a point that I was attracting it and making an ugly aura around myself. I came home crying, I was desperate and thinking ab if I really want to be in this world. Suddenly this video appears… thanks sister, thanks Universe ❤️

[smodels]

I’m in my later 20s and this helps so much. When I saw my reflection while I was walking into the bank and instead of looking disgusted I just owned it. The first time in my life ever. When I walked up to the teller I kept my head held high instead of down. I don’t think it was a coincidence I just clicked on this video.