3 Odd Things Only Narcissists Do #npd #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic

[sbubb]

Oh my gosh, they just do not shut up. It's all about them. I've learned now that the best thing for me was to go no contact. I had to put the phone down to walk away from the babble, came back and she was still talking. Then when the babbling was done on her part, she would just say, " ok I'm gonna go now, talk to you later " and hang up. Narcissists do not apologize for anything and smash your character. Fam is the worst. glad I said enough and separated myself from them all. Found my inner peace again and no one will ever take that from me, ever !!

[daugustushenry]

So all I can say is THANK YOU. That song I was blind but now I CAN SEE... WOW 😢😢😢 THANK YOU JESUS for you are TRUTH THE WAY AND THE LIFE!

[heathersmith]

All 3. Especially the last one. Emotional "hangovers" for days while they act (sometimes within minutes) like they never said anything cruel.

[MrGearoid]

Danish, yet another brilliant video. I actually cannot believe how low my self-esteem was, to allow and even enable that devil to treat me so badly. I'm no longer even interested in trying to salvage or remediate my destroyed reputation. Just getting away is enough, forever.

[jesterstears]

Ohhh my gosh !! The endless conversations.. how good he drove his truck, where he went and when. Showing pictures of small roads he drove on … went on for hours, the accidents he had, or fellow drivers had, the sleepless nights …
when I, once, dared to say I was actually proud of my bonus for driving my coach without damaging it, fire came out of his eyes and he said “you are lazy “….
When he ghosted me for the second time and I told him I was out, he took a lawyer to get me out of the house. That was last June.
Yesterday I saw him and he waved at me with a smile like nothing happened, no need to say I didn’t respond and turned my head the other way

[margaritagarcia]

I related to:
Everytime I was sad 😭, It was like he was happy. I felt like he did not care about my feelings only to inflict more injury upon my injury.
I quickly figured it out that I had to be miserable for him to be happy.
I have left him and it has been the best choice of life.
Now I do not see or contact him.
If he comes over it is only for 5 minutes, then I gave to go or I am very blunt and answer the door with, " What!'.
I feel happier and less stressed out, without my controlling x- narcissist.
I have time for me and my own problems and adventures.
'It is better to be alone than with BAD company'. (Old Mexican saying). Dorotea Garcia, grandma, (deceased).

[rexbennett]

All of them. Yakkity, yak, and don't talk back. Lol. Sorry could not help myself. It is good to finally be able to laugh again.

[michelebadillo]

All three, one time he was going on and on about himself and I started to nod off because it was 3 in the morning. He became so angry and told me how selfish I was and couldn’t believe I was tired when he was having an issue and needed to talk!

[lyrasus]

Pretending that nothing happened, meanwhile I’m stuck ruminating with no resolve for the fact that he just screamed in my face called me names and stormed off – just because I asked a question he didn’t want to answer because it would mean he had to be accountable…

[rissabiagi]

The third is SO accurate. I was expected to make breakfast every morning for my ex. I learned the hard way that the morning after a night of verbal attacks, I was supposed to make breakfast and send him off to work just the same. Otherwise, it would just cause another night of misery.

[cindygould]

The worst was the "everything is normal" crap. When I stopped allowing him to devalue my feelings and our kids as well was when he would call me a bitch or I am overreacting, or whatever would deflect his behavior towards me. It was worse than dealing with a child because you can teach a child to be kind, unselfish, empathetic and honest. He is a hopeless case.

[effiemaccheyne]

Used to make my shopping list in my head while I was waiting for the lecture to be over. Well...I wasn't going to waist my time.

[Christinek]

They can have diarrhea of the mouth and, if you try to say something, they accuse you of interrupting when you're only trying to make sure you understand what they're saying. Also, I used to say to myself that I don't have a reset button because he acted like the abusiveness didn't happen. The projection, gaslighting and silent treatments are confusing. Ugh

[gogosylvia]

The third is what defined our "relationship". After a night (and it always happened at night) of accusations, word twisting, gaslighting, and raging, with me not being able to complete a sentence the entire time, he always wanted the next day to be a clean slate. Trying to resolve anything was "starting a fight" and "obsessing about the past", even if the past was 12 hours ago.

[chloefenton]

Putting you down and berating for the things they loved you for!
& act as if nothing has happened after a Big episode of abuse.

[pennywhistle]

Mother talked incessantly. If I tried to talk about anything, she would interrupt me and talk over me as though she couldn't hear me at all. By the time I was in school I just stopped talking unless she directly asked me something. I was allowed/required to compliment anything she has done.

[pennywhistle]

My mother was only happy if I was miserable. A friend witnessed my mother giving me a gift before I left on a trip. I was happy and excited about the trip. And 15 minutes after giving me a camera lens for the trip mother had me in tears. Can't be happy. Not allowed. Having a good friend was not allowed. My friend was horrified, but it was so normal for me that I can't remember what she did that day to hurt me so badly.

[kaycampbell]

#3 every single time! Rages, belittling, lies, grossly evil behavior.... then next time I see my sister, no apology or acknowledgement it ever happened. I was just a piece of dirt on the bottom of her shoe. Disgusting!

[chichibonita]

Especially that third one!!! Made me feel crazy!😫🤪

[dellacornerlotcreations]

So on point!! I experienced all 3 things regularly, the chatting, the compliments/ putdowns & the feeding on your pain from their verbal abuse. He always came back as if nothing was said and done the very next day. I spent a lot of time sending him back home. I can hear myself saying over & over please get off my property not today. I don’t want to hear it. He came to be told to leave. He reminded me of the task pumping gas for your car. He was always trying to make me be the fuel that he needed to survive. Poor fellow! Anyway thank you for sharing .