Emotionally Abusive Narcissists Will Lose Their Minds If You Do This #npd #narcissism

[kathleenkathleen]

That works for a short time but once they realize that that button doesn't work when they push it, they begin to try new stuff. They never just stop. They try new more creative ways to get you worked up. It is crazy. I wouldn't believe it of I didn't experience it firsthand.

[Dee-Dee]

It took me a long time to learn this, but as soon as I did, I regained my power...my self.

[incognito]

I seriously need counseling for narc abuse. I can't believe how much they have destroyed me...

[shirlspark_stardust]

Leaving them and going no contact is what drives them crazy 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[aleeshasarr]

It’s true. I remember when I stopped reacting. They literally went crazy and started throwing things at me. They wanted me to be sad and angry.

[sheallwhimsical]

The power of indifference or apathy is mandatory when dealing with a NARC!

[IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS]

The problem is once you’ve emotionally reacted to them long enough, they’ll keep upping the ante once you stop reacting… I know mine never gave up no matter how long I went without reacting. I knew jack about narcissism when I was with my ex-husband years ago. And I thought it was weird that the healthier I became emotionally the crazier he acted. I came to realize that he wanted fights or tears. And with a cold shoulder he wanted to make me suffer. Absolutely ridiculous that I stayed so long.

[bonnieromick]

Shutting off my Empath valve. Got it in my brain now doing it

[TS-iqrg]

I believe who ever is suffering from the hands of a narcissist needs to he very careful about this. Once you stop reacting to their abuse and they realise it they will find other way and sometimes they even become more dangerous. My ex assaulted me with a knife the moment he realised i stopped reacting to his attacks. Be very careful

[Lightboltmotivationofficial]

They want an emotional reaction so they can use it against you and further destruct you into experiencing more harm and suffering.

[salliegallegos]

Right. Don’t react whatsoever; walk away and go no contact. Shedding them and all of their toxic mannerisms is the only way. If you run into them, ignore them and walk away.

[Lightboltmotivationofficial]

They humiliate you, shame you, target you, in attempt to control you and get everyone against you. While they accuse you of their traitorous actions and behaviours and traits. Then feed of off your energy to try and exhaust you and exploit you further into your doom. Never let that happen. Anyone who humiliates, shames or belittles you is threatened by your light and doesn’t want to see you succeed.

[Morpheus]

You're amazing. My wife has messed with my head for so long that I'm losing myself.
Thank you!

[thekeys]

Thank you for reminding me! This is so important. They come to elicit and feed. Cut off the supply and they will go look somewhere else for awhile. But, they will be back to try again and again looking to feed. They are emotional energy vampires.

[shahadah]

So true. I am looking forward to avoiding my entire Narcissist family this holiday. They will know nothing about me any more.

[patriciavlemes]

Perfect as usual! you are straight to the point! Love your videos!

[Samuraistar]

Your words are so reassuring. Especially after what I've been through

[ayishaablake]

This is absolutely true I just tried this the other day and showed no emotion and ignored him. This fool went crazy for hours, screaming to get my attention pushing the bed and grabbing the pillows. I found the secret Kryptonite

[kalgishah]

No second chance for people. One is enough. Don’t save your relationship. Distance or Disregard or Move on ❤

[yocomment]

When you ignore them and dont react they come after you with hate, they will make your life triple difficult.