Top Things Narcissists Fear The Most. #shorts #narcissist #narcissism #npd #complexptsd #cptsd

When a narcissist tries to antagonize you for no reason or a silly reason, just say "really ?" and smile, go on ignoring their comments until they become real and constructive . This will leave them lost and speechless and let them know that you're not in the game now. You will walk away without getting upset . And you will begin to grow again.

[courtneyawalsh]

Truth. Honesty. Exposure. They hate that stuff.

[RondaSmithEmpress]

Grey rock the out of them and being indifferent to any of their NARC " I NEED your attention and energy" 🤡 foolishness KILLS me. Give no positive or negative attention to ANYTHING and keep your healed happiness with your peace!!! Stay strong empath warriors 🙏

[diananoonen]

Living like this is very hard- it affects your caring factor you naturally have.
Walk away if you can!

[skymeadow]

I'm too tired to give him supply, emotionally wrecked

[helenlee]

Absolutely, once I realized he was cheating, I started ignoring him, he got what he gave me 😊

[janiecepoush]

🙏🏻 These tips need to GO DEEP into OUR PSYCHE… Thanks! 💛🕊🍃

[ATebbs]

The narc ghosted me first and because of who I am (deep sense of loyalty) I took it as a sign that they were finished with me…so good to know I kicked them in the gut

[reneemoriconi]

My husband COULD NOT stand for me to ignore him when he was speaking to me and he didn't want or care about my opinion about ANYTHING. It would always be the opposite of whatever opinion I had. He thought I was part of the " peanut gallery " as he would put it. He was better than me, in his eyes. He wanted me to believe I was crazy and just one of his children. He also controlled and hovered over the finances. Even though we had a shared bank account, he would look at our online account after I went shopping and then ask me about it EVERY single time I came home or the next day. He would tell me where I shopped and how much I spent, even though I ready knew. it was always just for food or necessities..I shopped at the dollar stores, Walmart or thrift stores..thats it.. I was not free to spend ANY money without a lecture about it when I would come home or the next day..

[smurfmama]

Except if you stand up to them, then they will start to ignore you. Which is what you want.

[marilynrose]

Yup. My ex had a good supply from me until we started having kids. Our second was born with birth injuries and required a lot of care. By the time he was 4 months old, my ex told me he resented our son. It was the begining of the end.

[blessed]

They are called “dry druggies” . All the issues without being users of narcotics or alcohol

[nmj_]

I finally had to do it after 8 years of abuse and trauma. Finally I had to completely ignore and cut off all the contacts with all of them . Now I'm in the healing phase. So much of peace and joy in my life after I fully rejected them.

[rondakroth]

Wether you have been told before, you are beautiful 🥰. Thank you for what you are doing, I'm validated, my life is Worth something, me. Therapy for 30 years only the past 4 you've helped me tremendously!

[danajaye]

They get over it right quick because they ALWAYS have back up. Always.

[jessmason]

Oh boy, I know quite a few of them. They special.

[blix_xo]

Yup. 3-4 years wasted trying to be there for him. It's making sense the more I watch these type of videos that I see how he honestly held me in his life. I'm sad for myself right now because I didn't want to believe it and thats on me. It also made sense why he'd be so destructive...he was not getting what he wanted from others and he always told me life isn't easy that moment. Seeing this made me understand he was losing attention from his other supplies he supposedly told me he never had. Oh well their problem now with him, I got out of there.

[JohnSmith-wons]

I gave her that for 13 years, I guess it stopped her from feeling special.

[shashasayed]

Yes, I always go out with my one girlfriend. Everytime a guy would come and chat me up, she got mad and always try to get us out of the bar/ lounge/ restaurant etc. I had always felt that she wanted to sabotage any relationship I had.

[janelle_childoftheking]

For me finding out i have some narcassistic behavior this is really inciteful thank you ! One step at a to recovery in Jesus Name