5 Weird Things Only Narcissists Do #shorts #narcissism #toxicrelationships #rebeccazung

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[carpathianken]

1.They value the opinion of others over you.
2.They don't like it when you initiate sex.
3.They always create a massive upset around holiday time.
4.They look through your stuff when you're not around.
5.They treat you horribly & then act surprised when you leave.

[JamesThomas-zler]

Too quick this time, I can hardly keep up with the points 😂😂

[shandastitchinginidaho]

Little slower on the time you leave the reasons up please. Way too fast - I didn’t have time to read….

[LM-ipyw]

AMEN! Mine ditched me completely last Thanksgiving. Left me completely dolled up calling and calling him with no answer. Mind you both of our families were expecting us for the feasts. We had talked about it for 2 weeks! I don't have words. I ended up walking to my father's at 8pm to burn off some steam and see atleast one family member 😡😠😤
And the rest of the points are so true. I am still always surprised how these robots are identical in their sick patterns.. mind boggling..Like how did they all go to the same NARC academy?!?! 🤯😳😑🤢🤮🤬😵🥴😫😖💔💔💔

[Infrared]

I snooped and found my ex dated me & another woman relentlessly. I mean, there was a 3 month period in which there was only 1 day each month that he was not with one of us. (He accidentally left his day planner on the counter when I was house/kitty sitting for him).

On top of that he was actively trying to lure his ex gf back, had dating app aliases, 2 women in FL and possibly Chicago.

Calling snooping narcissistic depends on the circumstances. As a former reporter I call it good investigative journalism because my gut is always right.

Other than that, I'm getting so much from your videos!

[crystalcolland]

I didn't realize the creating BS around the holidays was a thing with narcissists. That explains a lot.

[Godisfirst]

AMEN! I LEFT! NO CONTACT! Silence really is your power.

[Kss]

Geez...my husband 100% makes me sick!!!

[Rachel-rvhk]

Omg! Look through your stuff when you’re not around 😮. This is so confirming for me ❤

[khalilahali]

Without a This fits to the DIDN'T understand what was going on.in this relationship til I started seeing a therapist n on my own! This is where I actually learned this behavior is thought something was wrong with I was shocked outta my ever loving I'm glad now bc that wS the only way I slowly let go but NEVER fell for.his tricks anymore and was outta his life work on healing emotionally etc and am a whole lot better and love me....for me! Thank you for your pray for "victims " of not knowing about the narcissistic behaviors of some.people

[joannediaz]

This makes sense why I hate the holidays now. My birthday is coming up and I don't want to celebrate at all.
Also initiating intimacy is a no although they claim to want me to but everytime I did I was shut down.

[embersuhnuhk]

All 5 of these red Flags occurred before our rushed wedding. And then occurred with much more frequency after our rushed marriage. The frequency accelerated over the 6 year marriage. It wasn't isolated to holiday sabotage. My birthdays sabotaged. Our daughters' birthdays sabotaged. Any special occasion that wasn't about my "wife" she would sabotage. Our marriage imploded when I insisted on marriage counseling.

[chocolate]

Omg! I just realized he does all five of these things and more 😔

[BugammaMomma]

Yes - treat you horrible then are surprised when you leave - ah ha ha

[HijadeDiosS.____..]

Amen been through that. or brithdays love to ruin those too.

[bayviewgarage]

They bait you with affection and or sex at first . Then when they think they got you locked in they refuse you sex or refuse to do what they did in the beginning. Stalk your social media pages . They won’t talk about their past relationships.

[mariannegriffin]

Oh Rebecca, you certainly stated the truth here, I dealt with all of these situations with a male narcissistic relationship (t) of almost 40 years, seems like my whole adult life, away from him but not totally free as he is still around in the vicinity of me having his flying monkeys keeping tabs, I am not letting him get to me, will be free at some point, thanks for your advice and videos

[BlazerGirl]

I thought I was alone in #2 because a lot of stories about other narcissists talk about how s3xually demanding they are, but not this side of them hating when you initiate it.

Is it just that they don’t like you having that confidence within yourself and any power in the relationship or? Can anyone explain this?

[BBB-rdqi]

Ok, I read really fast and this was too quick for me to read.

[lesliejeancamp]

amen...except they DON'T actually value the opinion of others. It's another way of yanking your chain.