5 Weird, Suspicious Phone Habits of Narcissists

5 Weird, Suspicious Phone Habits of Narcissists//Whether covert or grandiose narcissists, these toxic personalities are definitely difficult to deal with. By understanding their behavior, you can protect yourself from them. Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, shares five weird and suspicious phone habits of narcissists that you should be aware of.
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[sarakesten]

When you are having a conversation.. they allow other people to interrupt the conversation. Then they start a chat with the other person and make you wait until they are done.

[kennavarela]

I have 2 more to add. First is when they are doing something on their phone, and you move near them, they turn the phone to where you can't see it. Second is when you enter a room and they're on their phone, and they fumble it wildly!

[winnie]

Here’s an indicator: if you’re both in the same room and they text you photos, links, videos that they want you to see—so you look at them on YOUR phone, instead of you both looking at these things on their phone together.

[daktari]

Well, I don’t want my wife to know that I’m watching your videos. She sees a change in me because of your videos. Because I think they’re helpful…very helpful.

[warofsouls]

This behavior is not only narcissist, is the same behavior that any one who cheats🙅🏼‍♀️

[pallasathena]

I had always had the mindset to never ask to check anyones phone, that it would make a dent in the relationship to be insecure...
Now if I ever get into a relationship again, I will only be with someone who doesn't protect their phone.
I will never just give trust freely again.

[tammygarner]

Totally I git another one. They get mad if they are texting a lot and you ask them WHO they’re texting. They get all defensive & turn it around in you.

[michellesoriano]

Replacing names that they’re cheating with, with a fictitious name so you don’t suspect and won’t know who they’re talking to.

[pampell]

OMG....Rebecca is spot on! This s exactly what they do. They are literally attached to their phone and hide it from everyone.
Bizarre behavior. Never saw a "normal" person so incredible protective of their phones. My theory is that the phone has become part of their supply or connection to supply; so they are freakishly attached to that device.

[devglover]

Yes it's like their phone is another limb of their body. This feeds into the narcissist s overt need to gossip all the time. Gossip is a MAJOR type of SUPPLY for the narcissist.

[gmhtown]

I caught my wife of 22 years cheating almost two years ago. We’ve been together since we were sophomores in high school. She’s been the only love of my life. I caught her and 4 of these things were happening with her and her phone. I’m learning more and more about narcissistic behaviors. I’m also learning that her mother is a narcissist. I’m trying my best to forgive and reflect Christ. But the whole family is toxic as I’ve seen. It’s really sad and hard to deal with. I’m here for my girls right now. God help me.

[SarinaValentinaxo]

Another huge red flag is 2 factor authentication to secret folders, and also multiple phones.

[johnoleary]

5 out of 5 .My wife is suspicious about me texting her sister (who lives in a different country) So 4 weeks ago when we were out for a meal I opened my phone so she could have a look at all my messages and showed her how to retrieve deleted messages . then asked her to do the same. She went ballistic so much we had to leave before eating . I'm now living on my boat.

[trh]

I’m glad these aren’t the only behaviors to distinguish a narcissist. I do all of these 🤣🤣🤣 but I’m a victim of a narcissistic parent and ex-boyfriend, so I think this type of behavior is also true for those who suffered abuse from narcissism as well. Thanks for this video!

[christinac]

i don't think this is a narcissist behavior, i think it's more of a cheater/liar behavior.. I've dealt with all of these behaviors from previous partners.. smh we live in a world full of deceitful people. so sad ...

[pingechelon]

When the narcissist sibling calls I can hear him and his wife sharing the phone, whispering, etc. Even worse they both text using the same shared phone number but don't tell you who is texting. They got their jollies ambushing me for not guessing correctly. These are middle aged adults acting like children.

[CJ-hzuj]

All this, and then they want your passcodes and just want to look through your phone, pictures, whatever, as if they’re entitled.

[CarlosI]

To have two or several cellphones is another big red flag when we speak about narcissists. I saw in the bedroom of my ex a cheap cellphone on the floor and without battery. It seems like she sometimes, or maybe in a daily basis, turn on that phone to speak with another sources of supply. Possibly this other phone had another phone number.
Another one: often they receive calls from numbers that aren't in their contacts and say things like: "that should be a call from the bank" or “it's a call to sell me something".

[paulballard]

This was exactly my ex-wife. Everything you just described there is what a cheater does also. This is what a cheater does after they’ve cheated and got caught. They go to great lengths, trying to hide their adultery and lies. It was amazing to watch this woman go from somebody I trusted to somebody I didn’t even know anymore. The pure evil that came out of her towards me was shocking actually. For about a month I was trying to work it out with my ex-wife until I realized that it was a lost cause. Then I just let it all go and filed for divorce. Once somebody betrays you in that way, you can never trust them again, ever.

[dsmusicbird]

Can we talk about the ones that hung up constantly? Soon as I start getting emotional, or confronting him, or said the F word from him pushing me too far, as if he doesn't swear, allot of endless phone games. Very hurtful, traumatic too, abusive, controlling. Infuriating.