How to Beat a Narcissist at Their Own Game | Story time

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[narcabusecoach]

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[theartzscientist]

I believe to defeat a narc, you need to stop caring what they think. Be true to yourself and your feelings. Set boundaries!

[daynapeterson]

I had a raging female narcissist boss once. I ignored her rages and her door slams and kicking her trashcan. The more I ignored her, the more angry she became. One day she leaned over my desk and physically threatened me. I walked out and filed charges on her. Never said a word to her. She got 2 weeks suspension.

[simev]

"A cycle of trauma, drama, and chaos" is exactly what narcissists revel and excel at, like an expert puppeteer.

[allentempleton]

The only thing about not reacting is that it sometimes leads to escalation. Ignoring someone you don't live with is easy. If you live with a hard core narcissist it could get really bad. Yes they will get upset but their instinct is to attack you. A victim not reacting "properly " is totally unacceptable. To really make this work safely it's best to quietly escape. Permanently.

[justmemother]

💯👍 Remain calm, show no emotion and continue your day. It drives them over the edge. 😂

[lanovia]

"narcissist's accusations are confessions". SO TRUE!!!

[izawaniek]

It resonates with me so strongly. Narcisists surround themselves with enablers who turn a blind eye to their evil, manipulative actions and they will attack and persecute anybody who holds a mirror to show them what they are actially doing and how wrong it is. Our silence is powerful and it often speaks louder than words. Thank you Danish❤ God bless you❤

[kimberlyadams]

"Accusations are confessions." Beautifully said. I'm proud of you for the way you handled that cab driver.

[norcal]

💯 it's all about controlling your emotions, watching you, and gauging what you're thinking and feeling, for nothing more than their narcissistic sadistic pleasure.

[SunnyBeetle]

A narcissist an only control you if they can control how you feel and your reactions!!!… spot on!!!!❤️❤️❤️💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[oskarkamil]

Absolutely relatable. Each time you try to talk to them about some issue, they take everything as a personal attack and will become defensive and will try to double down and twist the worlds and make it about them

[deborahlloyd]

Danish, you are a most impressive warrior.

[chanteynk]

Thank you Danish for this Video. Just like the Bible says in 1. Peter 5:8 Be self-controlled and vigilant always, for your enemy the devil is always about, prowling like a roaring lion looking for ist prey.

[zorabujaroska]

If you are with a narcissist,   no trick helps.  You have to listen or else.  There were times when he imitated me, criticised, belittled, humilated, insulted, lied,   .... for hours, 4--5 hours,   for months.    He would sit across from me, and insult me in every way he could.  I could never think of so many insults, and for such a long time.   If I raised my head, he would say - oh, you're proud.   And I had to bend down my head again and listen.  I wasn't allowed to look at the TV.  Finally,   I would break down and cry and he still wouldn't stop.  I'm crying now because I remembered how I felt then.  God, have mercy on us, the victims

[zelanina]

It's dangerous to be quiet.
My ex and even my adult kid physically attacked me bc I was quiet. My kid was screaming at me that she hates when I am quiet.
I am so exhausted for many years.
My ex past away 4 years ago and I still deal with the flashes of abuse. And now I am with another abuser.
What the he'll is wrong with me. I just cannot believe it. BTW I grew up with nars parents too. I realized that I don't know what is normal.
Sir, last few months I am learning from you to understand about this evilness. Thank you for opening my eyes. God bless you 🙏 ❤

[Mara_]

"Accusations are confessions."💡💡💡You handled that well, Danish.

[TheBookOfNoel]

My last relationship with a narcissist, I told him we should start recording our conversations like a podcast [so he could hear his demonic-possessed tantrum outbursts], but at first he wanted to sound sane so he would change his tone when we were both recording, but eventually he couldn’t even keep THAT mask on 😭😂 I laugh about it now bc I’m safe.

[WackyWitchTV]

They LOVE when you lose your cool! It makes them validated in their sick minds!

[freedomofspeech]

That was a great example with the taxi driver. Indifference and silence has literally saved me from more narcissistic abuse. “you are nothing to the narc and when you no longer respond to them their is an energy shift in the dynamic of the relationship and now they experience being NOTHING to you.” This makes them feel annihilated. They attach themselves to you by your emotional response. Getting under your skin as the expression goes. Game over once you’ve achieve a high level of stoicism .