5 Ways To Defeat a Narcissist without Fighting Them

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chapters
00:00 introduction

01:05 1.Become ice cold towards them

05:09 2.Remain decisive

07:10 3.Use their narcissistic traits against them

08:41 4.State facts always & do not chase winning

11:35 5.Know when to disengage

[narcabusecoach]

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[bonitajolie]

How do you defeat a narcissist without fighting them?
1. Leave
2. Get as far away as possible
3. GO NO CONTACT

I know not everyone can leave, but those who can, should RUN!!

[aflack]

Be aware that the covert narc will assume the position of victim. Don't fall for it. I'm in the habit of saying, "You're not a victim", and walking away.

[simonpegg]

1) Indifference
2) Strong boundaries
3) No-contact
4) Knowing when to butt in - calling them out.
5) Knowing when to back off - speak the truth and move on (physically and emotionally).

[dwaynedixon]

I learned from living with a narcissist that “Silence” is my greatest weapon because they “Narcissist” thrive off attention.

[bizzyb]

My go-to responses: "I am not going to get caught up in a circular argument with you, ", "You are entitled to your opinion, but I am not entitled to your opinion." and "You have every right to speak your mind, but I don't have to hear it." Then, I walk away-smiling to myself.😊

[michaelreed]

Excellent advice. I did these things ice cold without emotion. No argueing, no retaliation or name calling, if you get upset...be upset with yourself for allowing the narc to get under your skin

[Gymuser]

Its unbelievable the amount of work you have to do to just to live with a narcissist.

[aviricky]

Danish. You have been a saviour for plenty of those people who had no idea what they were going through or what led them to their diminished state of mind and body after a narc abuse for years.
We thank you. Keep on coming with the great work..👍

[PaidforinFull]

Defeating the Narc seems a lot like Thermal Nuclear War, “The only winning move is not to play”

[DianeLindenberger]

JUST GO NO CONTACT....THAT IS ALL YOU NEED TO DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOU.

[Isabela-yr]

Danish, you're exactly right. I actually did it without knowing the right tools to do it. He knows now that he can't defeat me. Every move he makes, I dose him with the right words. He knows now that he can't manipulate me. I can predict when he's in the mood to pick on me. His face turns black, and his eyes look like an owl. I asked him what's wrong with you? You look like an owl ready to prey. He was stunned and replied back, "What are you talking about? I told him to go to the mirror and check for yourself. His demeanor changed. Whatever he's thinking was aborted. I became a shrink. 😂

[JacK-qnzh]

From 6 years now in learning...No contact and No explaining yourself. Never answer their questions and move on!
PS...Never go back!

[kimmie]

After the narcissist I was with beat me, I left him as soon as he was busy away from the house. We lived in an area he was unfamiliar with. I answered one phone call from him one month later. He started out saying we could be friends then it went to, everything would have been fine if you hadn't made me beat you up, I told him wrong and hung up. Praise God I'm free.

[mariposa]

Don’t engage at all! Do not react! It works! Do not take offense and do not defend yourself! Thats right!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏
They will warp anything you say! Ice cold is right, as hard as it is.

[Pitchfrk_]

Imagine coming home after a long day’s work everyday and turning into an investigative journalist just to get evidence instead of getting massaged, eating and sleeping

[Mochi-fcuy]

Sir, i bow to you🙏. Being tossed around mentally in every possible way by the narc, having to deal with him for 20yrs, now i understand all the trauma i went thru, the questions i repeatedly asked myself, seeing the same pattern and not understanding what was going on, i was just soul, body and mind exhausted and gave up. Now through your videos i have peace of mind, clarity and answers. I now know how to handle myself so that i can still be there for the sake of my kids in this relationship but being more STRONG.I believe God made me find your videos.

[SouthpawPatty]

If only there had been youtube when I was married. It would have saved me so much time, effort and sadness. I spent decades wondering what was wrong with me. I couldn't be right no matter how I tried. I could never be good enough no matter how I tried. I honestly was emotionally and mentally dead for so many years. At least now I can understand what, or who, I was dealing with. At least I know now that none of it was my fault. I don't think I will ever completely heal or be able to forgive what he did to me. Thank you for these videos. They are so helpful for understanding wtf was happening in my life.

[lonewolfmgtow]

There’s one thing I’ve learned about narcissist over the years is that they’re overgrown children basically children in adult bodies real talk

[zaidarivas]

They are terrible. I have a narc sister. Damaged doesn’t begin to describe her crazy. I went no contact. Best thing I’ve ever done.