How to WIN at the Narcissist's Game

Are you always on the losing end when it comes to a narcissist? In this video, you'll discover ways to take control of the situation. From understanding their manipulative tactics to setting and enforcing boundaries, this video will help you learn how to outsmart a narcissist. Don't let them continue to hold power over you!

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If you have thoughts about harming yourself, get help right away by taking one of these actions:

Call 911 or your local emergency number immediately.
Call a suicide hotline number. In the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) In Canada: 1.833.456.4566
Call your mental health provider, doctor or other health care provider.
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0:00-1:13: Introduction
1:13-3:43: #1 Remove yourself from the game.
3:43-5:46: #2 Remain CALM
5:46-7:03: #3 Set and enforce clear boundaries
7:03-8:55: #4 Find points of agreement
8:55-10:11: #5 Don't take the bait
10:11: The need for control

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[corujariousa]

When the ties with a narcissist involve finances and kids, life can become hell for a long time. May the Universe look out for us.

[jamesyoung]

"A STRANGE GAME. THE ONLY WINNING MOVE IS NOT TO PLAY.. -- Wargames

The reason why most people get trapped with narcissists is because rational, reasonable people cannot conceive of anyone acting and behaving the way narcissists do.

The upcoming generation has much more awareness of how to recognize narcissism available. I pray they learn, as previous generations have not.

[lorraineradoli]

Ignoring them like they never existed is the best way to go. No contact no nothing, just forget them. Trying to reason out with them is like trying to squeeze water from a rock.

[NativeKahutaClub]

Narcissists often think others are narcissists 😂

[coolguy]

Your biggest enemy when deal with a narcissist is - your mental weakness. They have abused a simple human into a emotionally abused mental person. Rectify your senses and don’t react

[janetebonanno]

How many narcissists does it take to screw in a light bulb? None - they use gaslighting 😂😂😂😂

[EdfromCanada]

Excellent video.
1. Avoidance. Cut them off.
2. Robot. Don't repond.
3. Boundries.
4. Points of agreement.
5. Bait. Don't bite.

Very helpful.

[nickf]

Well, if there is one good thing about a narcissist, it is their predictability. Once you realize that, you have the upper hand.

[mysteryranchinternational]

The exhaustion of setting record straight, defending against false allegations, soul sucking effect of no give.

[DieselWeazel]

Be polite but DO NOT ENGAGE! The theme of my past weekend.

[Joseph_Omega]

I've learned that _PERPETUAL_ (and _RELENTLESS) TEASING_ often does the trick, and is rather easy. Teasing them _ESPECIALLY_ about their own narcissism (in its simplest form, _"mimicking"_ them) is particularly effective and rewarding.

[CarlosI]

I think that your worst enemy when you are dealing with a narcissist isn't always the narcissist itself but your belief that you're with a regular person, because you can spent a lot of time expecting finally a normal behavior. But when you realize who is that person, you know that you can't expect nothing reasonable and logic and then you are able to stay calm despite the narcissists tries to push your bottoms.
When you don't react to their tactics, they get even confused when that doesn't work anymore.

[janetebonanno]

Rule 1 - no contact. Works every time. In other words give them the last word for the last time. ♥️

[timwinfield]

Do NOT try to "win" at the games that a narcissit plays. The situation is toxic. Would you stand in a cloud of poisonous gas to prove a point? The best cure for this situation is to leave and stay away! You will not recover the fantasy love that she lured you in with and you will not fix her or ever measure up to her ever growing demands. Take a look at what this relationship is doing to YOU. If you stay, you're doing it to yourself and you need to look at your self worth issues and not let her define you. Take it from me brother, RUN!

[PureNRG]

I never wanted to outsmart her. I just wanted to put as much distance between her and I as I could.

[PTosetti]

I simply could not let her go with all of my life savings.

Needing to go to no contact, I decided to enforce that any communication would be through my lawyer. After that, she managed to turn my siblings and my mother against me for some time.

I wasn't able to talk straight to my family and things suddenly changed when the judge of the trial ruled that I was completely right and she had to refund me even before the first hearing (the power of raw numbers can be ruthless).

When I showed to my siblings the judge ruling (my mother passed away thinking that I'm an abusing man, sadly 💔), they started changing their minds... but I've lost forever 10 years of my life not engaging with flying monkeys, and no judge can give me back that.

Avoid them.

[Paviel]

My wife is the covert narcissist, and as a result, I have been going down hill in who I am; and I doubt myself severely. I believe this video will help. I am working on my poker face!

[franciscoramirezespanagarc]

My mother is a covert narcissist, the most difficult part has been to heal the toxic shame that makes me see myself through her eyes.

[twilighttime]

My issue was with a sister. Absolutely toxic. Sociopathic narcissist. The lies, projection, back stabbing & rumor mongering, stealing and playing the victim when confronted. Has a restraining order against her by her ex and child. The only peace of mind I've had in dealing with her is to cease any and all contact. Other family members have yet to learn the full extent of her behaviour. I think it comes from people not believing anyone could behave in such a way. The game can only be played when they keep people apart. When folk get together the lies get exposed as folk compare stories. So much of this video rings true. Run a mile I say.

[mrnelsonius]

The number one way to win, is to get them the hell out of your life no matter what it costs. It’s gonna cost you, because they are awful shameless conscience-less pain machines, but it’s still better than the long term costs of what they’ll do to you if you stick around. I’ve lived it, getting free is the only way. No contact ever again.