5 Weird Things a Narcissist Does When They Are Alone

Heal After Surviving Narcissistic Parent

[narcabusecoach]

Heal After Surviving Narcissistic Parent

[carparthero]

the narcisisst's life is all about pretending to be somebody or something that they are not.

what's always been fascinating to me, is just how obsessed narcissists are with what other people are doing. they are so nosy about others business, yet so secretive about their own.

cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

[Kimberley]

As soon as my husband was alone he'd watch hours and hours of porn. He doesn't see it as cheating. I told him over and over it would destroy our marriage and it did.

[JamesNGames]

My wife is currently facing some issues with her online behavior. She frequently adds random people as friends and engages in conversations where inappropriate photos are exchanged. Despite her denials, she spends hours taking and editing her own photos, creating short clips set to music. This behavior seems driven by the thrill of online interactions, enhanced by AI and filters.

To distance myself from this unhealthy situation, I am focusing on separating our property and belongings. Her family dynamics are also problematic, characterized by bullying and intrusive behavior, particularly from her niece. Observing this chaos is disheartening, but I hope to find peace and resolution once I am out of this family cycle of abuse.

[chitramarathe]

Every word u uttered just describing my ex narc husband

[deeptithakre]

My husband is all of this and much more....a habitual lair and a great manipulator too 😢

[dear.celeste]

#3 definitely. I thought my ex was just different but as I'm learning about narcissist, I'm seeing that his personality is exactly the same.

[Melva-Tjong]

Destroying people’s valuable things, I witnessed it with narcissists I know. Their insidious behaviour is absolutely evil. No word can describe it. I know some narcissists who admire themselves and have photos taken in the best possible way (paying professionals to do the hair, the makeup and professional photographer) when there is no special reason for it. This is just something they want to do on the weekend and get beautiful photos of themselves for Facebook or work directory. When I see their photos there is no resemblance of the person I meet on a daily basis.

[rosemadder]

Nailed it, as usual 👏🏻👏🏻 thanks for the validation. For reminding us we're not crazy, we're not at fault, we're justified. I had someone try to convince me of paranormal stuff too... Just ridiculous

[uytgvmg]

1. I discovered my mother talking badly about me when I wasn't around, portraying me as evil and playing the victim.

2. I completed college three months ago and haven't found a job yet. My mother accused me of not making good use of my education.

3. Despite sharing my career goals with my mother, she pressured me into marriage after my uncle suggested it to her.

4. I stood up for myself and explained my goals, gaining my father's support.

5. My mother’s behavior worsened, using abusive language and hurting street animals I fed. She created noise and chaos in the kitchen.

6. Despite the abuse, I remain determined to pursue my career, dreams, and goals.

I need help because I don't know how to handle this anymore. I’m trying my best, but her behavior is getting worse day by day

[jenniferwaidelich]

I know this is off-topic, but I like your shirt Danish!

[sushmitabhushan]

Happy that I discovered your channel and got to knw about narcissistic personality. Else their behaviour never make sense

[Shashi-qome]

Thanks a lot for such useful information. I was suffering trauma, embarrassment and humiliation. After the demise of my husband I shifted to my parents house. My sister for whom I have invested my entire life. She used me like a slave and I rendered my services in the hope that one day she will realize . But every time she insulted me. Although I am a government employee and financially independent. She poisoned my father and my father asked me to vacate his house. I procured my own house. Then also I served my parents. She never came forward to serve the parents. Rather she blamed me that I am serving them as I am responsible for their I'll health. Now she is poisoning my brother. I am finding myself alone in this universe. I have cut all the ties with my sister. She is poisoning all the relatives against me. I am torn up . Please help me in my recovery.

[rebeckacalkins]

This is exactly what my children's father did to me, leaving me cut off from my kids when I was the one who gave them my time, love and worked so hard to teach good habits so they didn't become like him themselves. Took everything from me, all of my family believed his lies so I've been isolated and fell in the trap of another narcissist. 15 yrs separated he still hasn't divorced me just to mess with my life.

[happygoluckyh.t.d.life.]

I found an old video tape of my ex husbands long after he moved, clearly it was left for me to find so I watched it. The first 4 hours were him off screen on a river bank sitting in a chair and two dogs are playing nearby, but the focus of the camera in on a house across the river. (wife #1). Then it cuts to what is an outdoor birthday party but it's not his but appears to be a party held for a women his gives quite a bit of attention too when ever someone enters, the rest of the time he is the focus point has he interacts with the other people. The cam shifted off him only once has it caught a negative reaction from someone else, never once did I see who was holding the cam and nor could I finish watching the entire tape. Instead I'm just so thankful he is gone from my life and that I was able to rebuild my life back despite the losses.

[ponnambadi]

This is what is happening in my life in daily basis

[ashokkumarsharma]

Yes u r ✅ I have experienced in to my wife & in laws which I couldn’t realised in 35-40 years, …u r perfectly 100%✅✅

[peggyerickson]

Boundaries are Critically important! If kids don't have limitations, they grow up to incompetent adults. Laws are in place for reasons

[maryyy_]

My ex was chatting with others, going out with others, obsessed over smoking weed with his mother on daily bases. He'd our plans and my day off just to go smoke weed with his mom and chat with other girls behind my back 😂

[charlie-girl]

Raising is what many women did alone, some narcs keep you forever in marriage that's the other side. Everybody makes mistake though, other use patterns. Horrible exhausting life. Doing stuff at home taking things out of your hands later they use it against you, oh I did it all alone I was the only one. I did things on my own as much as possible after a couple of times used against me. When a partner don't want counseling for making the marriage better than you absolutely know it's a narc want to stay toxic