5 Weird Eating Habits of a Narcissist

Book Your Seat: Workshop on Heal After Surviving a Narcissistic Parent

chapters
00:00 introduction

01:03 Important Disclaimer

01:50 1.They behave Animalistically when eating

04:37 2.Some narcissists experience delurgasm

07:04 3.Some Narcissists eat meticulously as if seeking perfection

08:57 4.They control you using food !

11:34 5.Force eating in a group like you're a part of cult

13:35 Workshop Announcement !

[alienfrommarss]

My mom shoved an ice cream bar in my little sisters mouth, almost choking her because she didnt want to eat it after she had already given it to her. She was crying, gagging and only stopped when I screamed "youre going to kill her!". I was 5 years old but thats a memory that will forever be a part of our childhood. No child should ever experience the wrath and control of a narcissist.

[jennelleschulzeck]

Yes, I remember my 4 year old daughter excitedly offering her dad a lick of her ice cream in a cone she just got. But he bit the whole top off in one bite and left hardly any in the cone. She was so hurt and cried and cried. I asked him why? He said, oh she didn't need it all. (cold) I secretly bought her another one later when he wasn't around. She never offered again. This was just the early days of the start of troubles. I never knew about narcissism then.

[ElizabethMiravalle]

OMG! I am now 71 yrs old - my poor brother has been dead for four years - we were compaions in a life controlled by two narcissistic parents. I never knew until I watched this - that there were other people out there who suffered the same physical and mental/emotional abuse we did. I feel as if a burden has been taken out of my hands.Thank you- and thank all of you for letting me know I truely am not alone - and the suffering was not because there was something wrong with me.

[annajustice]

Sitting at the dinner table...the back of a hand smacks a child out of her chair and on to the floor. The heavy metal chair is knocked over as well from the force of the blow. NO warning at all!!
She looks in the direction of the blow to see her father say..'stop chewing so loud.'
>> I WAS SIX!!
Now, many years later, NO contact, and perfect peace.

[natoshawithanO]

That story of your dad shoving food In Your mouth, then hitting you, is heartbreaking. You never deserved anything like that 😔

[SurvivorOfChildhoodTrauma]

I'm so sorry this happened to you!

My stepfather punched me in the face so hard, he flipped my chair backwards, he then kneeled over me, sitting on my stomach and beat me til I was unconscious.

I woke long after it was dark, the table was clear, everyone had left to do their own thing, the chair was back upright at the table ...

I dizzily struggled to sit up, confused, disoriented, hurting from head to toe... I got up to my feet, stumbled to my room, threw up and passed out again. I don't remember much more.

I was 8 ... I didn't want to eat pickled pigs feet ... Something they already knew I would throw up after being forced to eat (which I was also forced to eat my vomit as well), but they didn't care. Both my mom and stepdad were narcissistically abusive. I'd like to say this was a one time event, but sadly... No... My entire childhood was full of physical/sexual abuse, torture and narcissistic abuse.

I wish that I could help others, I wish my voice could be heard and my story told too. Maybe, one day... 😢

Be blessed. ❤

[lorrainetownsend]

My ex-husband used numbers 3, 4 and 5 techniques while eating a meal. He watched how large my bites of food were, commented in my portions, etc. And I was always slim and fit, after having 3 children together. He judged my speech and grammar (I'm college educated) The control made meals as a family uncomfortable and sad - and he never cooked. I did. 9 years free! 😊

[PaintWithWheat]

Thank you for sharing, Danish! Its so very true. My ex ate like a pig with his hands and ate tons. While pregnant I got two scoops of ice cream in a waffle cone. He said he never saw anyone eat so much in his life. I wish I could have said, "Get a mirror!", but I knew I would pay the price. He is long gone now so I win.

[SunshinesART]

Many of my traumas happened at the dinner table when I was young. I still have flashbacks from them when I eat at a table. I made sure my own children enjoyed dinner time, and I took away that control my parents had over me. It helped me heal. We laughed, we talked, and enjoyed our food. If my children didn’t like a certain food, I didn’t demand they eat it, or make them sit for hours at the table until they ate it. Or send them to bed with no food, or lock them out the house because they didn’t eat something I cooked. Wow, this video was eye opening for me.

[justjen]

I have had food smashed and smeared into my face more times than I'd like to remember from a narcissistic EX husband.
No contact 1 year 3 months and 8 days. I even divorced him with NO CONTACT. I left many family heirlooms behind, but I never once laid eyes on him since, after escaping him and his abuse. Thank you Danish.❤

[machinegurlll]

my grandparents raised me. grandpa made dinner so miserable that we all just ate in separate rooms with a tv tray watching our own show. Sad stuff to grow up with

[Vickiluv]

It’s goes beyond greed, cause they get no joy or satisfaction from food or anything they’re just dumping it into their empty soul

[gabrielafonseca]

After our divorce my ex told a mutual friend that he was sorry for me because he made me get used to fancy restaurants that I would no longer be able to afford. Like watching him pigging out and getting drunk was such a treat. And now he can't even afford rent, a car or clothes

[Sorchia]

My mum was the #3 to the extreme. We had to dress for dinner, be at the formal dining table at exactly 6:15 or we did not get dinner. No speaking at the table, EVER. Only adults spoke. We could not leave anything on our plate, had to ask to be excused from the table, the list is endless. If we didn’t use the proper fork or made a slurp sound while eating soup, we were excused from the table and to go straight to bed. We all had a food stash she never knew about. We were raised as if the Queen was going to show up at any time. Every morning at 6am we were weighed because “no one respects a fat person!”! Absolutely mental.

[kelly]

I suffer from anorexia due to stuff like this and worse. I am currently in counseling and dealing with all the toxicity associated with food. This is excruciating for me, but iam pushing forward and proud of myself. Thank you for posting this video and bringing to light the suffering many people have with childhood traumas. Many blessings to all, and may we all experience peace and love in our lives. 🙏🏻💞

[misunderstood]

My heart goes out to everyone who has been through this and i hope we can all heal from the abuse. Ive had similar experiences

[sadderandwiser]

Yes they control. They love to control everything and everyone. Food is an excellent example.

[alainaaugust]

1. Eating like an animal. Does throwing ketchup count? 2. Delurgasm. Constantly, culminating in nationwide shared fantasy. 3. Fast food burgers and fries for everyone, clap, clap! Everything is a show. On a national stage. 4. More control. 5. Group control. . . . And then you ask what we’ve been victims of. That would be some form of 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. And 6, 7, 8, 9-100. And on another note, you are great proof of the fact that one might be horribly abused as a child and yet make themselves into a wonderful person sharing beneficence and compassion with many. Blessings.

[NancyFoster-ci]

My father was - I have now learned - what would be called a Malignant Narcissist. Much of his Dinnertime behavior was in deed inappropriate and my mother never even suggested he change. Alot of what he did away from the table was also unacceptable, and for some reason was mainly aimed at me, his Daughter, rather than at his wife or sons. To this day I don't understand why, and I am now seventy. Thanks for your channel. Nancy

[jkk]

I'm so sorry your father did the things he did to you. I'm glad you have risen above that abuse. You help alot of people now. Thank you ❤