5 strange habits of a narcissist.

[jmgood]

They are the hero or victim in any discussion

[donnaroman]

They sneak into your personal stuff and snoop incessantly

[janebrown]

You cannot make them wrong. You just cannot. AND they never apologise. Just cannot say Sorry.

[brendaleverick]

They do talk in circles, don't they?

[theresahenderson]

My sister was an outright shapeshifter. It was strange to watch her shift from her public to private persona, even her voice change.

[deboralopess]

Sadly we don’t realise what we are dealing with till it starts hurting in another level

[sophiefurtado]

A narcissist only answers with “word salad”

[debraethan]

Sounds exactly like 2 major narcissists in my life. (Neither I'm around anymore.) Exactly!

[thraciangrapes]

I'm married to one of these. He's nuts. I'm just a hostage.

[GJCHSMM]

Like trying to nail jello to the wall

Hate questions....questions are their kryptonite

[Notavailableatthistime]

My ex narc was fascinated by that polygamist Cody Brown. He would joke about wanting multiple wives. Was very triangulating for me wondering who the other wives would be.

6 months free of him. 🎉

[essiegilliam]

Shape shifters is a perfect description

[ldsmike]

"Takes phone to bathroom."

Me: Watching this while in the bathroom.

[g.johnson]

An ex friend would cater to ppl of status and treat ppl who deemed beneath her like crap. She would also shapeshift and mirror whatever group she was in…

[pikachu]

I think the phrase your looking for instead of chameleon or shapeshifter is "two faced"

[IfUonlyKnew-eh]

*More like 500 strange behaviors.. but they definitely demonstrate 5-10 solid ones on a daily basis don’t they… Always the same B.S. -They answer a question with a question to turn the tables… I’ve never heard truer words before!*

[maimyabaebaby]

Somebody already said word salad. Another thing is if you had stopped dating someone and started dating them again. It's like they're a completely different person because they changed for everyone that they were around in between. It's like they don't have an identity of their own

[sarahgomez]

This is so true!! Especially appearing one way in front of others but the opposite towards their own loved ones. Power over others, never a straight answer, obsessive, manipulative

[lindawheeler]

nailed it. word salids. follow all cash, they want all money

[AstraLydia]

Narcissist is in Cluster B [dramatic cluster; antisocial, narcissist, histrionic and borderline] - there is so many layers to this, so remember to walk with empathy. When you judge a person, be aware, bc you judge yourself in the same way. As human we are capable of what other human can do, we aren't locked down by anything, other than our beliefs. So let it be as close to the truth as possible for growth and good health.
As anything else, it's a consistent pattern. Narcs gives me shivers, and psychopaths cold sweat.

As a borderline [being on the border between reality and psychosis], we can have same expression, sometimes, as the narc - but we have high empathy, and a consciousness of our extreme actions [at least after]. We have a wish for 'togethetness', but don't always know how to express it, or ourselves, the right way.

Bc when you have a "personality disorder", you've had traumas. Take a breath, it's okay to be human.
take responsibility, throw the shame away and accept your place in the world.
You're not stuck there forever, but how can you move the right direction, if you don't know where you are on the map?