Getting Your Ex Back Is Simple, Actually...

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In this video, I break down why reconciling with your ex after a breakup is simpler than you think. We’ll cut through all the overwhelming advice and focus on three main elements of a relationship: emotional safety, intellectual intimacy, and goal synergy. By understanding these basics and focusing on self-improvement, you can build the right skills to genuinely reattract your ex-partner. Join me as I share the crucial steps you need to take for a successful reconciliation.

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Chapter Titles with Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction: The Overwhelming Search for Advice
00:13 The Simplicity of Reconciliation
01:14 Understanding Relationship Elements
01:43 The Five Simple Steps to Reconciliation
02:26 The Pitfalls of Overcomplicating
03:30 The Importance of Self-Improvement
04:16 Preparing for Reconnection
05:25 The Right Focus for True Change

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[BeUltranormal]

👋🏻👋🏻Hey everyone! Hope you enjoyed today's vid! Let me know your struggles on reconciling with your ex! 🚨🚨
- Chris

[rudy]

Recently broken up with. What makes your video different, is the search for personal reflection which ultimately leads to accountability. I was emotionally immature compared to her. And i dont want that again for her, or my next partner. Definitely going to really focus on a better me first, so I can be a better partner one day. Even though I would take her back in a heart beat, i wish her the best and know I didnt give my best to her. I need to grow a bit. Thanks for your point of view.

[jasonpgarceau]

Actually that’s the issue. She saw the relationship was good, that a strong bond was developing between us… then her avoidant dismissive side triggered and she slowly faded out to a point when ultimately she broke up convinced not feeling anything anymore for me

[bobmccarter]

Step 3 should have nothing to do with “getting your ex back”. It should be just a normal course of your life. That way, when step 4 never happens, you’ve already developed the self esteem to let go and move on. At least, that’s what I’m telling myself.

[dant]

After three months of no contact (I broke off the relationship after an abusive episode), my ex will not respond to a letter that I wrote. I didn’t reach out to reconcile but to check in and discuss with her what I have been working on interpersonally and to share new insights of what our relationship was.. what it meant to me and the intention to provide clarity. I understand that she may never respond and that letting go of an attachment is a part of my relationship maturity and development. My desire was to let go in love in with co-regulation and in a secure attachment approach.

[davidcastro]

what if the ex partner is an avoidant and you literally haven’t done anything bad besides trying to make it work and understanding them? im just gonna continue my life journey and its their loss because they convinced themselves that i wasnt right for them

[dnuwelj]

If your ex has broken up with you or left you, it means that they think leaving you is okay. Do you want to reconcile with a person that thinks that leaving you is okay? They are not worth your time. Move on and find someone that does value you. The only exception to this is if you have actually been seriously abusive (in any form) and you want to completely change.

[hqx]

This only works if two people want it. Sometimes they might be stuck on another ex and devalue you. Doesn’t work with people who abuse you and then dump you

[sweetchinmusic]

True playing at 0.75 speed is better than

[_thebigsteve]

Interesting and good to know. Not sure if mine deserves it but I'll keep these in mind in either case going forward. Thanks for being direct and not bullshitting the audience as so many do.

[ralfk]

Coach Corey Wayne got the right approach

[lucywood]

What about if they have cheated with someone new and moved away how to get them back

[bariadipen]

I would rather improve myself (which I was doing during relationship too) for the next deserving person. Why would I do anything for the person who left me?

[petridhskyriakos]

First of all, congratulations for profound knowledge & your accurate approaches!
One thing you should DEFINITELY change though: you're talking VERY fast.
Slow down & everything will be clearer.

[PraveenKanwarMagic]

Does this step for rekindle works when your partner broke ups with you for someone else ?

[rodotoole]

If your blocked everywhere over one year

[raymondjames]

Why in the world do you want someone back when they don't stupidity.
They left for a reason and stop crying

[Kilometer-]

That video is completely bullshit. It doesn't pay regards to any kind of personal emotional challenges or psychic issues one may have.

[soarindragon]

Why would you want to?
Blah blah blah blah blah. Don't recommend channel.

[whatthefitt]

What if my ex gf has been dating a guy for close to a year and she has blocked me on social media? We were supposed to come back together a year ago but some guy came out of nowhere just before we were supposed to meet and it went downhill.. tbh I did F up way before that while we were still together..