Get Your Ex To Come Back To You After A Breakup

Want your ex to come to you after they broke up with you? Coach Lee explains how you can do that.

Breakups can be painful and challenging, leaving you longing for the connection you once had with your ex-partner. While there is no guarantee that every relationship can be revived or that your ex will come back to you, it is possible to create an opportunity for your ex to return if the circumstances are right. This video will provide you with some valuable insights and tips on how to let an ex come back to you after a breakup.

Winning back an ex after a breakup is a delicate and nuanced process. While there are no guarantees, implementing the strategies discussed in this article can help create an environment where your ex may consider returning to the relationship. Remember, the ultimate goal is not just to get your ex back but to build a healthier and stronger connection based on mutual understanding, respect, and personal growth.

Immediately following a breakup, it is crucial to implement the "no contact" rule. This means refraining from contacting your ex in any way whatsoever, allowing both parties to heal and gain perspective. It also creates an air of mystery around you and allows your ex to start missing you which they cannot do if you won't leave him or her alone.

Demonstrate personal growth by making positive changes in your life. This can include improving your physical well-being, updating your wardrobe, or pursuing new interests. These changes not only boost your self-esteem but also make you more appealing to your ex.

While it's tempting to reach out and try to rekindle the relationship, it's essential to give your ex the space they need. Respect their decision and allow them time to process their feelings. Constantly pursuing or pressuring them will push them further away.

Use the time apart to focus on yourself. Engage in activities that bring you joy, invest in personal growth, and cultivate self-confidence. Rediscover your passions, set new goals, and work towards becoming the best version of yourself. This self-improvement will not only benefit you but also make you more attractive to your ex and others.

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[m.alexander]

Coach LEE!! she came back ! 8 months no contact ! I took all of your advice and listened to you. Bought your breakup kit. Did no contact ... finally, told her I'm not friendzone material. Stayed polite and never bad mouthed her... SHE finally came back and asked If I'd consider trying again... we are happy and stronger!... to coach Lee's community, do NOT lose hope... even if they don't come back. I was ready to accept that and found my happiness again.. Thank you coach Lee

[javadhoseini]

My ex came back after 8 months of no contact even with all the mistakes I made during the breakup. stay strong guys!

[rajdeepkundu]

No contact
No stalking
No overthink
No dreamy sequence creation
No too much need to back them
No self blaming
No only see videos
Only work on yourself - Gain confidence you will have your own words, thus self respect will also increase and Now you are emotionally independent.

[tebampamonyane]

this man helped me get through a very difficult break up 😭3 years later i still come here for relationship advice

[detectivejimmymcnulty]

It’s tough because time is an ally with no contact, but the time seems to move so slow. It’s a catch 22 of sorts. I find myself going to bed 4 or 5 hours earlier than usual just to get to the next day

[danette]

The path towards moving on and getting them back is the same. Focusing on myself makes me happy

[theway-hadarekh]

You don’t deserve someone who comes back. You deserve someone who never leaves. You don’t deserve someone who loves you only when it is convenient for them. You deserve someone who loves you no matter what. You don’t deserve someone who treats you as their backup option. You deserve someone who makes you their only option.

[maureyspencer]

Just wanted to comeback and say his advice absolutely works. Especially the no contact rules. Time is your friend it really worked for me God Bless y’all I know it’s rough right now but focus on YOURSELF and let time do the work

[arr]

Even if they never return— just work on yourself and move forward. Trust the process and keep going.

[leratontsoane]

Mine came back he broke up with me in 2020 october and the whole of this year he been trying to want us back, problem is am no longer in love with him like before, i have found myself during his absence and i came to realise that i was the engine of that relationship, his input was weak enough to not hold it as he should as a man.Thank you coach

[joyhaave]

Nearly had a break-up over a foundational issue. Took Coach Lee’s advice by being calm and clear…and then quiet. After a hard week of no contact, my boyfriend reached out this morning to reconcile. These videos are such a critical resource for navigating modern day relationships!

[thatgirlruby]

wow "when they pick up the phone and see it's been 47 days..." yes, THAT resonated full blast!! Thank you Coach, your direct no nonsense approach is what's up!

[fudgemcmuffin]

Coach Lee, you are a legend.

It's been 8 days of no contact for me. Weve been broken up for nearly a month, but circumstances meant I've only been able to go NC for this long.

I was incredibly close to his family and yesterday his Mum text me to say that he is really struggling and even drove to our special place yesterday.

I'm a little frustrated, because I am already feeling so much stronger and that knowledge has set me back a bit.

But staying true to NC. We all deserve someone who would break down walls to be with us. Stay strong guys! You're all beautiful, wonderful people. Keep on keeping on.

[el_spectator]

I discovered Coach Lee after my last break up in the end of 2018. And I am here again. Stronger than last time!

[Rebel_Palm]

When i was going through the break up i found coach Lee and i started watching his videos. At the begining i didn't use his advice and I've made so many horrible mistakes but after some time i applied all that Coach Lee is talking about here on his YouTube. Guess what it works 100% . So if you came here and you suffer horribly trust Coach lessons . Life will amaze you.

[rickyanderson]

Coach Lee I can't thank you enough. I followed your breakup kit and all of your videos exactly as you said to do. After two weeks she was reaching out regularly. Shortly after she began making plans for us to do things together. We just spent the weekend together after 3 and a half weeks of following your guidelines and no contact. We had the most amazing night together last night and she just keeps pursuing me more and more. I really feel like I am getting my ex and my life back. Thank you so much again for all that you do and all of the effort you've put into creating your guides to save happy and healthy relationships that for whatever reason took a turn and otherwise would have ended.

[fuliviacannady]

Been through this...but went from NC to radio silence which technically I never was on social media. He's contacting you to get an ego stroke, an emotional high; to test to see where your head is at. You have to shut that down. This cycle will only make you feel less valued, anxious and confused. It's so disrespectful and devaluing. I'm not suggesting he doesn't feel regret or care about you. But the dynamic you have with him now is only serving him.

[tearthangel]

When Trust has been broken by deception and pathological lying then it needs to be earned and restored by showing transparency in all areas of broken trust

[Matthew-wywu]

It’s been since the beginning of April, she’s in a relationship with an abuser and while I feel a deep sense of compassion for her and the kids I am afraid it’s over.

[dmb]

I also want to say, these podcasts- videos have helped me tremendously ...I listen to them during my workouts and anytime I feel like breaking no contact even though I have no idea where my relationship is heading