How To Get In Your Ex's Head

[sesenwingtips]

"... They don't deserve the details of your emotions." I needed to hear that. Thanks Coach Lee!

[HustleHearted]

When you feel like you are going through something painful in life all alone remember that there are millions of us just like you 💯

[rw]

If you listen to this man I can promise you that things will play out exactly like he says. It might not be in the timeline that you want but it will happen. When my ex started making movement towards me I was so done and over her I realized I never would want her back. Whether the person comes back to you or not, you will heal. And that's what coach Lee helps you do, heal and get your self-respect back.

[bakwoludovic]

This man’s videos are like martial art.
The more you’re into it, the more you forget about the pain.

[outroseok]

if I didn’t find coach lee’s channel I would literally be crying myself to sleep every night, his videos are so therapeutic.

[nicksamuel]

I'm not even desperate to get her back, I just love how comforting this man is lol

[maciekk]

Notes for the ones that have seen the video:

1. 0:17 - Give them the break up! (Don’t chase them. No contact, meaning you are not contacting them but you answer politely if they contact them)
2. Control the momentum ( when your ex starts to run away, stop chasing them, don’t look obsessed, the other way around, if they reach out, match their energy, don’t be over enthusiastic, show reserve when they ask about you missing them etc. )
3. 10:15 - don’t be angry, anger shows pain, people instinctively know that. Focus on the good in your life. Your ex is probably not a bad person, the breakup wasn’t to hurt you,
4. 13:32 - don’t fix it for them, they could try to bait you to ask to get back together, don’t! They messed it up, they should to do it. If they are not willing, they are not ready, they still have a lot of ego . Doesn’t mean you can’t ask the out for coffee if they keep reaching out etc. just don’t do the hard part for them )
5. 17:21 - don’t rush. It deals with attraction details, so if you are rushing you will act as they are much more attractive. Also if they ask to get back together, don’t just accept it straight away, say something like, I’m open to it but I want to take things one day at the time, it’s self respect and you should be cautious as they broke up with you before!

[stevedavetas]

Reality is that no one that puts us through this misery deserves our time ever again!

No contact works. My ex dumped me, kicked me out of our apartment, and found a new guy Instantly. I stopped talking to her, got shredded, and she’s called me 3 nights in a row crying and pleading to see me. I casually told her that when the moment is right, we’ll see each other soon enough. Wow I can’t believe this worked because it was so hard. Also, at this point I’m totally okay never getting back together so it’s like a win-win.

[Pinhigh]

Anybody reading this, please know that it does in fact get easier. I was with my girl for 16 years, she left me on Christmas Eve of all days. I was absolutely crushed in every way. Without a doubt it was the toughest time of my life. I used the opportunity to work on myself, I am able to say I’m extremely proud of the person I’ve become and I honestly don’t want her back. YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THIS. One day at a time guys, you’ve got this.

[GH-xqlp]

I'm currently on 60 days no contact after a ten year relationship where I got dumped and heartbroken. And its still hard everyday, and at times your videos were the only thing that kept me going. Every time I feel like I wanna contact her and feel bad, I watch one of your videos to get me back on track. I know that one day I will get completely over them, and they might contact me, even though its not today... Thanks Coach Lee ❤️

[Jarr]

No matter how much I wanted her back, I know it won't work anymore. I'm gonna enjoy my life with or without her

[starttakinnotez]

My ex cheated on me 4 days ago. I asked her if she would rather be with that person. She said yes. I said "okay thank you for telling me. I want you to be happy so go ahead and be with that person". Two days later she comes back telling me that person didn't want anything serious and that she seriously fucked up and is sorry. She is trying to make me her back up plan. Shit is hilarious. I told her I was done because it's the second time she has done something like this. I told her she probably has more than bi polar disorder and to go see a psychiatrist and a therapist that can help her with the consistent narcissistic tendencies she displays. She got upset and blocked me in hopes I would chase after her. I'm absolutely done. SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!

[ceemorales]

It has been almost half a year since my ex and I broke up, she dumped me brutally, blocked me on everything lol, but I saved my dignity and never chased her again. Thank you very much for your inspiring videos @Coach Lee, your emergency break up kit also helped me a lot. I am in much better situation now. Truly, no contact and the power of silence is the best medicine to heal ourselves. :)

[phishphood]

You gotta determine where that anger is coming from. Anger can be a response to hurt, but it can also be a response do having your dignity crushed. This is why reflecting and introspection is so key. If you realize that you’re livid because of how they belittled you or how they hurt you during the breakup, then it’s a good sign that you probably should stay far, far away. Let that anger fuel your initial recovery and push you to take care of yourself. If it’s just anger to cover up the sad, process it and let it fade.

[stevet]

My ex and I broke up 4 months ago. I started listening to coach Lee and his advise was right on. After 6 weeks of no contact. My ex contacted me to exchange belongings.
Upon on meeting, I walked in and gave her a huge kiss.
We've been happily together ever since.
Listen to coach Lee he knows what he's talking about.
Thanks so much Coach.

[vanilla]

Three weeks no contact I feel better, he breadcrumbed me and took me for granted. I deserve so much better than a guy playing these childish mind games and wanting his ego stroken.

[winfield]

He knows exactly what he’s talking about! Every point. For the person who instigated the breakup to think that someone should want to reach out or send gifts etc to get them back is so egotistical.after When they realize that you won’t do that, you instantly become more attractive & valuable in their eyes and they sink back down from their temporary pedestal. You can’t seem mad when they call, be cheerful and calm. That will eat them up inside, and will be more receptive to your demands moving forward. The power shifts.

[calosthabede]

2 years ago my fiance left me, I was watched one of your video, I stayed at no contact for 2 years I eventually moved on I find someone. Thanks coach Lee.

[lidyatheauditor]

My ex blocked me 3 weeks ago. This morning when I wake up, I saw a message from him. Thank you Coach Lee all the advices. You are super!