3 Occasions When A Narcissist Reveals Their True Self #narcissist

[rkl]

I fell ill and he raged about medical expenses, this led to our separation. Had to get sick to see his real self.

[Priyanav]

This is truee.. the are never there in times of severe needs . But they always fake they are always there for you and your family. They don't like to see you happy either. They are cruel demons.

[Infrared]

True. They say the right empathetic words but are mere children. You would not expect a 3-yr-old to care for a sick adult, so do not expect a narcissist to care for you beyond a few hours or days.

Mine flew to his condo in Florida for 3 weeks after I was in a bad car accident. When I felt stronger I deep cleaned his bedroom, dining room and kitchen.

Oh, did I mention he is a hoarder and does NOT like his things touched or moved? Oh bad me. Haha.

I finally went no contact but it took a long time to let go because I felt protective like a mom. Then I found out he has several mommies so now I'm FREE!

[naturalhealingmexico]

Never share with them what makes you happy, they do everything to ruin it, they love to see you down...

[kaycampbell]

Absolutely true. In my experience, when there was a death, a serious illness or some type of that was when my sister's behavior was the most vile. It happened EVERY SINGLE TIME! She always made a difficult situation almost unbearable. I used to wonder if I was losing my sanity because of some things she did. Believe me when I say I have seen the devil at work.

[elmarieduplessis]

So true, and they leave you feeling worthless and hurt 😔

[wandaandre]

They are not there for any body, even their own children’s basic needs.

[joys]

Absolutely 100 💯💥 I experienced everyone of these situations! They don't care about you at all!

[alexanderzex]

#5. When you say anything good about yourself or your life. They will get jealous and competitive with you even if you aren't tryna compete.

[jayshreeparmar]

My prayers and hugs to all in the comments section who are suffering the same.

[IzabelaWaniek-ix]

I agree. Yes, especially when you are sick. The narcisists abandon you instantly.

[pepperjonesugoChristian]

Note: Count on living as if alone in party with narcissists. It is true.

[reenabhartireena]

Absolutely right , I had face this situations

[ND-orso]

When it was my birthday my Covert Narcissistic husband didn't wish me a happy birthday the whole day or night even though I cooked for him and treated him very well as expected. Not once did he show appreciation.

[Jess-qbdh]

Yes three months after my father passed away I was locked in a garage… He ripped the clothes off of me and left me with no keys no phone no way to get out… That was two years ago. My birthday is coming up I’m on the other end of healing this year on my birthday this month I will not be thinking about him because I know what he was now. Go no contact get out stay out save yourself… Pray and watch any videos you can it will help you. I’m on the other end and now in a healthy relationship… He understands what I went through and is able to deal with it! I pray that all of you going through this will realize and understand.❤

[Janeintheok]

There's also a spiritual element to narcissism, they're actually evil.

[chrisg]

My mother when I went through sudden heart insufficiency while studying abroad. I had only turned 22. When I called her from the doctor’s office my mother blamed me for burdening her and for probably having done something stupid to get myself into this situation. I had to apologize for disturbing her peace and defend myself against her accusations. I was at the ICU, scared and feeling ashamed because if your own mother turns her back on you and you’re alone at the hospital and only some new friends care you feel that sth must certainly be wrong with you. When she called me a day later it was only to abuse me further.

[erikajentelson]

Oh how I wish I knew this so long ago.

[avantibarve]

It's very true...in crisis they leave u, they leave u alone they don't there with u physically, don't want to take any efforts but without taking efforts they just show fake care on msg just to that relationship don't slip from their hand ....but there r some emergencies when u want someone physically to support u being actually there for u...

[meowmeow]

Yes exactly, he was not there during sickness, during the passing away of my close ones and in over 12 years of relationship he has never been there with me for my bday or during any special occasion. He has not celebrated even 1 bday of mine with me. Every year during my bday he would say he is busy and that we will definitely celebrate next year. I would eagerly keep waiting for the next year and he would come up with a new excuse and this would annoy me. I would get angry and then he would tell me "you are so selfish, u are only worried about your bday, u don't care about my problems..."