BPD Toxic Relationship & Self-Inflicted Disability | Charlotte

Charlotte (diagnosed w/ Borderline Personality Disorder) opens up about an abusive relationship and the injury she inflicted on herself when the relationship ended.

**Includes some difficult content relating to relationship abuse and physical injury**

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[aleesmith]

Charlotte's ability to share her story in such an authentic way will help save many lives. I'm so thankful for her.

[amandaluxmoore]

I’m amazed at her level of self awareness. I have an emotionally abusive mother with zero awareness and zero capacity to take any responsibility. Probably doesn’t have BPD but strong narcissistic personality.

[cngelz]

stockholm syndrome 😢 i resonate with continuing to go back. i’m thankful i cut all lines of communication after the second go. i wish i stayed away after the first time. i now have Post Traumatic Stress on top of the BPD.

[Wade-wqzd]

So pleased to see Charlotte again. Honestly; I can't find a more authentic person to relate to, it gives me a lot of strength to hear her experiences and know that i'm not defective or broken or incompatible with the world. It's nice to know that i'm not alone, sometimes you feel that way when your bad stories are sometimes so wild - I used to often think to myself, like all the time, 'well other people don't seem to have these types of stories in their lives'. Keep with it Charlotte, without hearing what you've said in these interviews I think i'd still hate myself. I truly don't now, i've got baggage (like everyone) and my baggage is very large and dramatic, not bigger or smaller than anyone elses. I'm defo doing well in keeping it, erm... less dramatic in the recent months :P

[cjgeminitarot]

This clip frightens me tbh. I’ve self-harmed but never to the level where I lost body functionality. I’d like to think I wouldn’t get to that extreme, but it’s frightening that the capacity for self-harm can be so high even if you’re not trying to end your life. Even though I can’t relate to her specific injury, I can relate to the level of desperation.

I appreciate her honesty in talking about their friendship. Still, it confuses me that she can speak so openly about the raw details and yet actively chooses to keep this person in her life. Seems so at odds with her assertions that she wants to heal. Maybe that’s a split, idk. This clip was haunting. Thanks for sharing.

[Nando_lifts]

I am toxic too. Thank you, Charolotte, for that accountability. That is a quality to love.

[herbieshine]

This is heartbreaking to listen to but helps me to understand what may have been going on with my ex and why she behaved the way she did when I split up with her.

Best wishes and thanks to Charlotte for her openness and hopefully, she's finding a way to the "life worth living" that we're all searching for.

[ketch-]

I was in a relationship with a BPD woman about 25 years ago, listening to Charlotte reminds me so much of that tumultuous year with Melinda. I’m a co-dependent type and was clueless about what was going on. After everything we’d been through Melinda died in a tragic car accident after rolling into the icy Snake River in Idaho and drowned, on Valentine’s Day 1998. Be careful ❤

[tommylandbeach]

Fabulous, and long awaited return of the brave, lovely Charlotte. Thank God Charlotte is in therapy. I will be in love with a woman with Emotional Dis-regulation forever. She was a friend who I tried to help before I knew anything about this very serious disorder. Listening Charlotte has been very helpful to me . Thank you Charlotte and BorderlineNotes . Charlotte pls know our prayers go with you.

[pump]

As I go through my own healing journey, though I am not Borderline myself, seeing her heal really makes me feel— not hope for myself, but love for everyone. I mean I was a bumbling mess for awhile, long time. Charlotte is so gracious for telling her story, love her to DEATH!

[kool]

Yay!! A new Charlotte video!! These make my month!!! She inspires me so much as a mental health provider and also someone who has struggled/struggles with mental health. Wow, the power of a story!

[whitneyvise]

It's amazing that you survived that. I'm so glad you did, I hope that's not too selfish to say.

[belacaleb]

as for the bird in the interview. that was the call of a cat bird lol

BPD here. Thanks for this channel, I'm trying to learn about myself and this video was enlightening.

[realBkay]

I love Charlotte.
I hope she is doing well.

[Bewhoyouweremeanttobe]

Hi Charlotte. I’m so proud of you. I’m am a recovering alcoholic/addict of 17.5 years. I’m turning 60 in a month and have very recently been partially diagnosed with bpd and ptsd. This comes as no surprise to me at all and I welcome the certainty. I am living my life today without any interference from anything that changes me artificially right down to caffeine. It is at this point I feel more raw than ever before. This is my key to feeling everything and working with all the tools I have to become the man I was meant to be. I’ve lived alone for 9 years and have enjoyed my own company even during difficult times because those times are the real challenges.
I’m impressed with all the doctors and your friend Rebbie( sorry if I spelled it wrong) for taking an interest in you. Your honest is greatly appreciated.
Forgive me for been honest, but as one of the doctors or therapist had said in a later interview, it’s hard not to like you. You have an infectious warmth all around you. I will starting dialectical group therapy in a week and Im really looking forward. You are on my path. With love!

[Awesomes]

My mom was textbook bpd and injured herself. Her name was charlottes, too. She was a glorious disaster. If I could go back, I’d try to teach her to self soothe the way I’ve learned since contracting pasc long Covid.

[lotuslee]

charlotte seems like such a sweet person. i really feel for her. as someone with bpd, i desperately need and want to be loved, but as soon as someone tries to love me, i become totally emotionally ruined -- there's no good option and it makes life feel so desolate. it gives me some hope to see charlotte expressing these same feelings with such honesty and thoughtfulness.

[B]

Always looking forward to hearing from her. She's so real, so raw! I don't have BPD but I find it so educational to hear from her.

[soloman]

Thankful for all Charlotte's interviews. I wish I had known about Borderline years ago. Thank you for all you do here 🙏

[alpheuswoodley]

Thank you for your authentic self, and sharing your journey. From these past few minutes, it is obvious to everyone how exceptional you've Become.