Why good men don’t marry girlfriends!

[toricole]

My husband, before we were dating called me his “future wife” when we were just talking. No clue till after we were married. We never lived together before marriage, but I would get up at 6am to go to his house and help with who would be my son (step son). I took over my stepson’s schooling responsibilities and meds, so my husband could work and go to school. I was told how I was setting women back by doing his laundry, and confused others by not living with him before marriage. Now I was and still am being his helper while still doing what convicted me by my faith. Stop caring what other women think you should and shouldn’t do in a relationship. Do what makes sense to improve your relationship.

[Ed]

His point is that he is already doing husband things without being married, whereas his gf says she doesn't want to do wife things when they are not married.
Never marry someone who demands it

[Scotty__]

If they don't do it now They won't do it after marriage

[joserozay]

"I'm already an husband I'm just not your husband, yet" I felt that sht 👑💪💯

[KingNirada]

People seem to have forgotten that dating is just the interview.

[chodge]

I actually went through this personally…Married her and she still the same😩😫

[reasy]

"I'm already a husband, I'm just not YOUR husband yet!" Yesss Jeremy! 💯

[newsdan]

Had this situation with my ex. Needless to say she left me for her ex and I've been thanking God ever since 😂

[savvydavvy]

Marriage is honor to the Most High God & security for both parties & children. Stop explaining your worth & seek the one who already knows it!!

[giftbags]

Interestingly enough, I was a girlfriend doing wife things, as that’s who I am instinctively and guess what? He took advantage of that and decided to have other “girlfriends/ wives” elesewhere. I’m glad to report I didn’t change myself and found a man who was ready for wifey material.. he recognised and made me his wife. Previous relationship caused me a lot of pain though and it was hard to trust.

[truthseeking]

I asked my baby mama when do her wifely duties begin? After the wedding? I work hard, bought us a new home, treated her daughter I didn’t make with her like my own and she still wouldn’t do right. She wouldn’t do shit for me even after I proposed and put that ring on her finger. She wanted a wedding but not the responsibilities that come with being a wife. After 8 months leading up to the wedding and seeing nothing from her I called it off. Within a couple months a woman came into my life and did everything a wife should do without me even asking because that’s just who she is…so I married her. I love her so much. We’re together and happy to this day and she never changed on me while my baby mama is bitter and getting used one guy after another looking for what she already had but didn’t see and that’s her fault. I told her this is what would happen. I guess she thought I didn’t know what I was talking about

[DripCaptain]

That's deep. "I'm already a husband, I'm just not your husband yet"

[tomfreakingford]

Needed this video this morning, got out of a relationship just like this after 6 years. Sometimes people don't realize what they have until it's gone, now lord please give me the strength not to go back to her.

[AJSchnell]

She definitely the type of girl to say
“My wedding was the best day of my life”
Not realizing she’s already perceiving their marriage going downhill. I’ve come to notice that women view marriage as a “special day” kind of like a birthday instead of a lifelong commitment towards a relationship. That day is supposed to be the start of something beautiful. Not the peak of it.

[ConnieLyles]

People make it so complicated. Your partner should put in the same level of effort that you are putting into the relationship. If one is working hard, the other one should feel motivated to work hard too. Marriage or not - it's a teamwork effort and not a school group project where one does all the work.

[avalerionbass]

You don't get married and THEN become wife material. You get married BECAUSE you're wife material. Clean it up ladies.

[nickolasburns]

I realized this before I married my fiancé. I realized there’s no circumstance that will change who she is at her core. And though I loved her, she did not meet me in a loving mindset. It was the most difficult choice I ever made to leave someone I cared so deeply about, but I knew it was the correct decision.

[landonm.]

This was very intriguing 🧐. He calling her out by basically saying, “He has to do husband duties for her for her to see a husband in him; but she can’t do wifey duties for him for him to see the wife in her?” WOW! 😮

[HUNTENT]

Notice how she mentioned what he does for her, never anything significant about his character/personality. She could literally fill in any other man who does the same thing, he isn't special to her.

[tamekawarren]

This was a great reversal because so many women are told not to give a man wife privileges. When the Bible clearly states a man that finds a wife finds a good thing and find favor with God