WITHHOLDING: The Top 5 Ways Women DENY A Man's Needs

Withholding is the malicious, conscious denial of another's needs. Withholding in my marriage was one of the most wicked and vicious behaviors I had to see about myself as a woman and a wife. In this video, I share the top 5 ways women withhold from their husbands so that we can evolve as women and wives to be happy, loving, and kind.

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[martinf]

The loneliest I have ever been was laying beside the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and knowing I couldn’t touch her.

[velcroman]

If my wife was locked in a room for ONE HUNDRED YEARS and made to listen to all your videos over and over. When she was released from the room, She Wouldn’t - have - learnt - a - thing.

[KikiNation]

As a man, it honestly hurt to listen to this video . Because it describes my marriage perfectly.

[clarkkent]

This is how my wife treated me for 20 years and I was unhappy and neglected as a result. She decided the kids were more important than working on her marriage and she completely stopped trying. She quit wearing makeup and nice cloths around me, she stopped working out and gained 100 lbs, and the sex stopped about 10 years ago. She blamed me for everything that went wrong in the relationship and for not making her happy. I did everything I could including doing all the dishes every day, vacuuming the house, taking out the trash, feeding the dogs, putting away my laundry, making my lunches, doing all the yard work and house maintenance and cooking for myself at lease 2 days a week. I did all of this while working a full time job and running a side business which provided all the money we needed even though she chose to work. My money was "our" money but her money was "hers", if that sounds selfish and hypercritical that's because it is. Finally a few months ago she hit me with a divorce because she wasn't happy and didn't like the way I treated her. Now that I'm divorced I'm very happy and plan on living my best life, that doesn't include re-marrying, I'm done with women.

[michaelwheeler]

Now men are withholding things. Men are withholding dating, engagement rings and weddings.
Way to go ladies, you did this to yourself

[craigknight]

One of the worst feelings is being rejected by the person you love, provide for, and have children with. It’s awful.

[RaySmithWeb]

These are the private conversations that men have been having with each other for years, now being acknowledged by women. Thank you!

[Bukachimy]

This lady is so sincere that she's speaking to the point of tears. She's a rare gem.

[Tykillzem]

I never feel lonely when I'm alone, I feel lonely when someone I give everything to, holds back so much from me

[jameskrobar]

The irony here. My ex-wife left for a 4 day vacation when we were together. I wanted to surprise her while she was gone by remodeling our bathroom. I pulled a lot of strings with contractor friends and worked 15 hours each day to complete it in time for her return. I did a full remodel from floor to ceiling. It was beautiful. I was expecting fireworks, tears of joy, and some great bedroom time when she saw it, but instead she told me “how could you possibly think we need 2 sinks!” She was so mad. Still to this day I feel the sting from that. She never said thank you or showed any appreciation. She just complained more and more about the details. I’m so glad I left her and didn’t waste any more of my time trying to make her happy.

[Karl-notl]

Shared this video with my wife because I thought it was right on 100% and asked my wife to give it a listen. She made it about 15 seconds and then said she had to turn it off and wouldn’t listen to anymore. Then apparently she played it for her therapist and her therapist told her to turn it off after less than a minute. Needless to say this video has helped confirm for me a couple serious issues in my marriage. 1. My wife’s attitude towards my needs and concerns and 2. the influence of her feminist therapist on our relationship.

[bg]

I must tell you that there are wives that understand what this fine lady is explaining. My beautiful wife of 51 years understood all of this. She departed to be with the Lord 5 years ago. I am eager to join her there. One of the last things she said to me was “You’ve been the biggest blessing in my life.” I am so very thankful for having a Godly woman in my life.

[johnwhite]

You have described my wife of 20 years perfectly. It is a slow death.
It is intentional. And it is evil.

[darrall]

It doesn't matter what a woman learns, she'll do whatever she FEELS like doing whenever she FEELS like doing it.

[sungladeab]

I just realized that I treated my first husband this way and I am so sorry. Every woman needs to watch this and take responsibility.

[A_Well_Traveled_Man]

The fact that you hear this woman crying just trying to make it through this video shows the kind of love she has for her husband❤

[MartinEngelbrecht-eyrl]

I have never heard a woman be objective before. That's why I love this channel, a women who is objective. First time. No throwing stones. Looking at self. Truly amazing.

[JamesStaaks]

I had a woman who withheld all of these things and was devastated when she left me. Now I have a real woman who can’t get enough of me and is genuinely happy to be in my presence and it’s the same for me. I’ve never been happier. These woman ARE out there, just don’t settle for anything less. Stay strong my brothers.

[donfranklin]

This woman is spot-on every step of the way. I think loss of playfulness in sex might be the most crushing because it is the one thing that allows a marriage to be continually refreshed. It makes up for so many shortcomings.

[davidv.]

You just described the entire 20 years of my marriage. She started letting me know that sex was an inconvenience on our wedding night. I had to beg like a dog for a treat. It got worse from there. First year of our marriage we had sex 4 times, all after me begging sufficiently. Then it decreased from there. For the last 15 years of our marriage there was none and frankly it was so emasculating I quit asking. I owned a mid sized buisness and would sometimes have to work Saturdays if equipment broke down and I would help the staff since most of the machinery I designed (I'm and Engineer), and she would let me know about it. She would get upset if I even tried to be playful. She stopped rubbing my arm while we drove, stopped all touch, even bought me a back scratcher so she didn't have to rub my back if it itched. I cooked most of the meals after I got home from work and would usually have to stop at the store to shop on the way home so we could have a meal because she was to tired. She would clean up most nights afterwards but only if she wasn't "to tired". She quit working about 6 months into our marriage and never worked again. These were just some of the things that happened. Sadly she passed from cancer 2 years ago and I am now 66 years old and physically strong and healthy. However, the memory of having had to exist in this emptiness, frankly causes me, every time I think about going out again, to relive the pain of the years of emptiness and isolation in the same house as the person I am married to. It comes flooding back and I change my mind instantly. I wish I could find someone who would actually live as you describe in your videos. Better yet would be that my late wife could have seen the videos and changed. Keep up the great work, no one should live in an empty marriage where all you are is an ATM with legs.