“I’m worried I will never find love…” | Jordan Peterson #shorts

Jordan Peterson provides tips on how to find love, how to put yourself out there and overcome fear of rejection.

⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ This short is extracted from What’s the Most Effective Way of Overcoming Self-Deception? | Q&A 06-17-2021 | Jordan B. Peterson. #shorts

🔴 This channel is not run by Dr. Peterson or his team.

[Greg-omhb]

“I don’t understand why half the world is crying, when the other half is crying, too.”
—Janis Joplin

[michaelszabo]

I love this so much. You can hear him talking to you just like a father would tell his child. It’s in the care of his voice that you can rest assured there is good out there and that person for you is not an absent abnormality but rather a necessity created just for you. Your someone is out there, don’t stop looking but also don’t stop being your best you because that’s who they’ve got their eye out for.

[SwastikSwarupDas]

Man I wish my dad talked to me like this. Literally my depression would be cured.

[ShowzUp]

“Maybe that’ll be good enough...” I think that line was so underrated..

[soumickmostofa]

I kinda teared up ngl
His eyes was thinnking of his wife and he was recalling some of his own memories. MAN.. I felt it

[Ana-rbws]

Thanks again, Internet Dad. I was waiting expectantly to hear some really realistic, downright pessimistic thing that we’d probably missed the boat, but JP goes around and says something completely realistic, but not at all pessimistic thing that just says that, yes life sucks, but do the right things anyways. And sometimes life will surprise you.

[hollysmith]

And make sure that person is a life partner you can tolerate. Remember looks change, money comes and goes. But if you can't stand the person you wake-up next to each day. You're not just wasting your time but their's.

[IyokuUnlimited]

“Do what you can to be attractive to the people you want to be attracted to you” is incredible advice. I’ve had so many friends either believing they had to settle for less than they desired, or accusing those perceived out of their league as being shallow for not overlooking their (often fixable) flaws.

You can do better! Focus on personal development to become the type of person you and others can be proud of - not only do you deserve better, but your future potential partner deserves it as well.

[michaelcalles]

This guy is always sincere and well informed.

[wzupppp]

Fear of rejection is what holds most people from getting the person they want. Everyone has been rejected at least once and it can be traumatizing

[DvornyashkaDiaries]

I like how he is trying so hard to not sound romantic 🤣

[ajessm]

Don't recommend looking for "love" online. There will be scores of people there, not always with the best of motives. Some guys just looking for sex. A better way is to enrol in a live class in a subject that interests you. That way if you meet someone, he/she is there to learn, you can also see them face to face and not behind a screen.
You share a common interest, they are not there from ulterior motives and at the end of the day, whether you find a love interest or not, you will have learnt something and increased your knowledge base. A win-win scenario I would say.

[LittleBoxXx]

Dating sites are the worst places to find "love", especially for a guy. I recommend NOT searching for love, either online of offline. The best way to find someone is through your personal journey, meaning its best for you to focus on your career, hobbies, be a good person, and eventually you will have people attracted to you.

[f.o.c]

A wise man once said “who by worrying can add one cubit to his stature” “sufficient for the day is its own trouble”. He ask for your faith in him! You would be surprised what He could do for you’re worries! Add that to your message JP for the recipe of a perfect solution! Though it’s easier said than done

[rhodacampbell]

I watch a lot of these clips. This one stands out as being just the right gentle, sweet response. Very compassionate and nice to see where there is so many harsh clips on these short videos.

[joeyfigueroa]

The simplicity of this is amazing. Just be you, try, you WILL fail, move forward and keep trying and you will succeed.

[ohdear]

"You don't get what you don't aim at.
You might get what you do aim at.
And your aim might get better as you aim, as well."
JP

[vaishnavnegi]

Rather than trying to find love, try to nurture it with people you know. Love is developed over long periods of time. People often misattribute attraction for love. Attraction is ephemeral, love is resilient. It can endures a lot before it actually fades.

[wethole]

"Maybe that'll be good enough."

I've been trying all that for twelve years now ... it's definitely not good enough.

[Lesley.h]

That’s beautiful. I love how you simply explain things that everyone can understand. We hope….