Should You CHANGE for Your Partner? | Matthew Hussey

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[arkitektlt]

Great speech, great conversation, greatest ever about the topic. I keep asking my self too these question. Thanks for having reminded them too again. Best!

[baijalneha]

If it is a bad habit that you have accepted as a “bad habit” then there is a change that’s needed for one’s own good. You don’t change for your partner to be happy, you change because you choose to make that change so you can be happy. Sometimes your partner can help you realize it not because they are not happy with you but because they see something wrong and yes it should not be forced upon but as a choice.

[Yumi]

Our act of love is effortlessly sincere and effective when it stems from a deeper understanding of the situation and how we can mutually benefit from serving each other, driven by our shared pursuit of astuteness.

[FrancisAAfful]

I think your partner should want the change themselves. Accepting yourself is the first step to change, if you accept this bad side of you and then desire to change thats when your partner can influence you to change.
However if you believe there is nothing wrong with you, you won't even change

[Xtine]

Be the kind of person that deserves the kind of person you want to be with…

[jackdeniston]

The only real point of being in a relationshipis to change. But, you have to listen. Ladies.

[emgee]

If someone wants us to change something in ourselves, ask yourself - is it to benefit them or you? If it benefits yourself, you probably will. If it benefits both of you, you probably will. But, if it really only benrfits them, you probably won't. At least not really, not permanently.
You might try to fake it but it won't last. Ultimately, self interest wins.

[fishstickbio]

Depends …if tat person repeats the same negative patters or not …it is all very personal ….but I graduated from FORENSIC psychiatry/ psychology and I recommend men should study too as they would understand how men are and think …..and stop judging women when they do not want to be with any man …..

[paulablanche]

For me the answer is defenitly NO. If somebody is constantly trying to change everything from you is because he or she doesn't love you. He is probably in love with an imaginary person he has on his mind, but not you. Maybe you work together sexualy perfectly well, but that is not love. For me it is a mayor reason to finish the relationship.