You Can Change Your Personality | Nathan Hudson | TEDxKids@SMU

[sarcasticdemon]

I wanna be more confident, outgoing, hardworking, tough, and bossy.. but not in a bad way.

[SHRoy-eiky]

Saving you the trouble.
Notes:
1.Take small steps to change your personality. (04:28)

2. Fake it till you make it. (06:49)
i) Extroversion: Invite people for lunch.
ii) Conscientiousness: Organize your room.
iii) Emotional Stability: Write down what you're grateful for each day/ Journal.

3. Plan small goals for each week to change your personality. (08:35)
R: Realistic
A: Actionable
P: Persistent

[izzietomo]

Let’s be honest. We all searched for this

[annamariereverie]

I used to be nice, sweet, and kind when I was younger. Now, I'm mean, rude, and I hate myself. So, I'm trying to be kinder and more thoughtful in regards to people.

[lozzy]

Is anyone here because you hate how everyone sees you no? Okay just me

[woolypuffin]

I am socially awkward and silent. I would like to be more out there and get new friends 😔

[timbarba]

My anxiety is preventing me from acting.

[A.A.S]

As much as i tried to change my personality, I successfully did some progress but I always doubt myself. I be like “maybe I’m too comfortable talking to this person because we have chemistry or because I’m anxious about something else” ...etc. I will always find an excuse for my progress because I didn’t know that it’s actually possible to change my personality! Now I can’t believe i came across this! This is exactly what I wanted to know I wanted to know that it’s possible and it’s not gonna happen so fast and you can get stuck in the process but you’ll eventually reach you goals!! Now i will continue trying my best and i will absolutely try the “fake it till you make it”. This handsome guy is gonna change my life! My self esteem went slightly higher just by knowing this. I’m so thankful to him.

[Han___]

I wanna be more confident, outgoing, trustworthy, responsible, hardworking and knowledgeable

[soumil]

I want to build a very strong personality: self-assured, open minded, sanguine, charming.

[alisaschonfelder]

I just wanna be smart, well spoken, educated, chill, warm funny (In a good way) and a person people like to talk to because she's enjoyable! Just like Wentworth Miller

[darkdante]

I wanna be more laid back & extroverted

[_issavibe]

This is so true. In reality, we've already done this. If you ask yourself, is my personality now different than it used to be as a child? Did life's circumstances cause me to be something else to reduce the rejection I received and increase others acceptance of me? If you're like me, the answer is yes. And if your answer is yes, what did you do about it? You became something else, someone more "acceptable" based on your understanding of what WAS acceptable. You changed. We changed, which proves that we can change now. These tips work and with diligence, we will emerge as our more ideal selves, not restricted by the past and optimisticly hopeful for our future. Blessings, everyone!

[chrisseby]

I am just tired of everyone calling me shy overdramatic and moody and that I should be more like my brother so HERE I AM-

[breadondeckbreadonthefloor]

People actually see me as “super kind, extroverted, pure, smart, sentimental” but it’s too extreme, I want to be more honest, more to the point. I can control my emotions but I want to be more cold in a way, instead of a full bubbly person... for me it’s
I don’t want to be nicer, I want to be the true me, the me in my head.
Because someone might say, did I do this right and I say yeah, but inside I want to tell them no, you needed to do this and this. Maybe not too coldly but I don’t wanna sugar coat, the thing is I’ve always sugar coated things and it’s hard to stop

[slvsh]

I want to be more optimistic, even though I'm already an optimist. I want to be more on the extraverted side as right now I'm an ambivert but I have a lot of social anxieties. I want to be more selfless and rational with my emotions.

[whosnaija]

I feel like anxiety is really effecting my life in a negative way.

[tianajanae]

I want to be more outgoing and have a don’t care attitude 😂

[eunoia]

I wish I could shut up. I always end up telling everyone about my life and I don’t want to be like that.

[wiktoriak]

I wish to be more interested in myself only, stop caring about others, work much harder and find new hobbies