I'm In a Relationship BUT...I'm Attracted to Someone Else!

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You're in a good relationship, but you're attracted to someone else. The fire you once had has cooled off and you're starting to notice someone else. What do you do? Is it okay to flirt? Isn't that innocent? Or maybe you're in a relationship and your needs aren't being met. Do you deserve to be happy? What should you do when you are strongly attracted to someone other than your significant other?
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[thebeatagp]

Hey BEAT fam! I'm BEHIND on responding to comments so PLEASE forgive me! Today we are dealing with a very practical and real issue. You're in a relationship but you start feeling someone else. What do you do? What has your experience been? What advice would you give? Leave some comments below! AND The BEAT is going live soon so stay tuned!

[limcofamilyvlog]

I also going through that situation, im attract to that person, bcoz of his spiritual life and he speak gently and have respect to each other. that time i find out that he also attract in me, 😩 ahh im very guilty to my husband every night i always pray and pray that God will take a away this feeling. praise GOD😇 answered prayer, my feeling for him is slowly disappear nothing is imposible to GOD😇♥

[johnlauland]

another great message brother. the struggle and temptation is real and too many times people play around with this. there are plenty of good looking girls at my work and I used to try to purposely avoid them cause I felt like I should never even acknowledge their presence. but I learned that there's no way we can possibly avoid the other half of the world for the rest of our lives and that God made us men visual creatures so its not sinful to acknowledge womens beauty. to deny that there's no other good looking females except for your wife would be lying right there. BUT WE MUST NOT LET OUR EYES WONDER IN AREAS WHERE THEY HAVE NO BUSINESS GOING. cause then we are led to list and fall. so when I am around these girls I don't just rudely ignore them but I am careful with how I speak and don't go to lunch or anything like that cause that would be stupid to do and just asking for trouble. also a little tip here to make them aware I mention my wife when I can in conversations so they know I'm married and off limits. you can be friendly without being flirty and with discipline you can control your eyes from roaming around where they shouldn't.

[Theparadoxdrumma]

I witnessed this last year. At the time I was single, but a girl who was in a relationship would constantly flirt with me, even in the presence of her s/o at times. That showed me just how disrespectful she was to her man and it broke my heart. I could never bear to stand for that behavior out of a Woman.

[eddierk]

no need to play with fire. yes finding someone else attractive is normal. but there is a difference between being attractive and desiring someone. I can find a girl very attractive while being with someone but me desiring her changes everything. it will lead to temptation. so if thats the case its best to run like you said and always set boundaries. if you dont respect your own boundaries no one would ever respect you.

[andrewcruz]

I feel like this is something thats such a deep down problem that goes on internally and no one really knows how to handle it properly . I think now's the time people should know how to combat it 👏

[anthonyrodriguez]

It's no coincidence that attractive woman will come my way during Rocky moment's in my marriage. And honestly I was tempted to be unfaithful. But then I had to remind myself that a one time fling isn't worth losing everything I've gained in my marriage

[jesus_is_kingforever]

Thanks again brother Allen. Got saved in 2019, married the father of my child. 2.5 years later, I am currently faced with being strongly attracted to a co-worker AND fellow brother in the Lord! I NEVER thought this could happen. Its the most embarrassing and shameful feeling. We are all wicked in the flesh. Now I know how serious to take this and to extinguish this (or at least prevent) this from becoming anything more harmful than what it already is. I confess to liking the inappropriate attention he gives me, (many compliments and strong eye contact) and believe there is mutual chemistry. I don't want to quit my job... and I told my husband everything. We have a strong marriage and are always honest with each other. If anyone reads this please send a prayer. thank you. Replies rooted in love are welcome.

[Abduux]

Don't flirt And Run
That's the best advice thank you 💙

[ifeawosika]

Make your current relationship fun again.

[tt]

Physical attraction isn’t the problem for me...it’s the personality. That’s the temptation and thankfully I have always been able to see that the grass isn’t greener majority of the time

[tux]

I was going to skip this one, but I'm glad I didn't. Great advice. I passed it on to all my children.

[tamtamdavis]

While this is not my situation as I am single, this is great teaching and information when I am blessed with my Boaz. Thank you Sir!!

[prinkwells]

Wow! I like the honesty in handling this topic Allen....""out there will always be people that seemingly are more beautiful, intelligent, your spouse....

[alexajb]

If I find myself attracted to someone els I just don't talk to and avoid that person.

[celiwemalindi]

Am just happy you gave practical advice instead of saying just pray the feelings away. Thats the only I have hearing for years as a christian to just pray everything away

[Purebeautyluv]

In such a situation, my advice is to avoid the person as much as is possible (like you mentioned) and whenever you do have to speak to him or her, stay on topic. In other words, say what you need to say and then leave. No need to be jovial and open. Of course, be polite but you don't have ask those common questions like, "Did anything interesting over the weekend?" It may sound harsh but not taking these steps is really opening the door to building a relationship with this person. That being said, great job Allen and God bless.

[helenalesleyx]

This is EXACTLY what i needed, thank you!

[cookieuc]

Great message. I dont who are the 30 people who disliked this video. This video is dead on. Everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other to find weeds!.

[anitamorrison]

Outstanding! You have unpacked why flirting does not bring God glory. Thank you.👍🏻