Physical Attraction: Should I end a relationship for lack of it?

[whathuh]

1. Attraction has no relevance to a deity or religion, so it doesn't matter how much you consult with a religion about your lack of attraction, the body knows what it's physically attracted to.
2. If you're not physically attracted, don't superficially lead them on and waste their time. Just be friends with them.
3. If you're not physically attracted to them from the initial encounter via social media, and afterwards in person, you'll never be physically attracted to them.
4. Physical Attraction doesn't grow over time, unless that individual alters their physical appearance to one that suits your type.
5. At times, you'll confuse being attracted to their personality as being attracted to them physically, and your body will eventually remind you that you aren't physically attracted.
6. You can end up really confusing that individual and hurting their feelings if you try to string them along while knowing you aren't physically attracted to them. It's not fair to them.
7. If you aren't physically attracted to them, then just admit it and be upfront and honest about it.

[richardsuero]

Unfortunately people tend to downplay physical attraction. Like it or not, the initial physical attraction will be the gateway to any future interaction. Trust me I know, I'm an unattractive guy.

[seanskeete]

Get out of this relationship now. Physical attraction is not enough to build or sustain a relationship but when it's not there, you are asking for some serious trouble, if physical attraction is important to you. Based on what she shared, I think she should get out now

[Rachellesmusic]

I have to be attractive to the guy and like his personality. I believe God has a man I'm been praying for.

[nancyvallejo]

My opinion based on my life is this... you ether find something good that you like or you stay alone and die alone period don’t complicate your life. You will marry someone that you just don’t fully love or are not atractivo to then you will end up with so much regret just like me. Don’t expect perfectness cuz that don’t exist but if I could go back in my life I would of die alone instead of dealing everyday with a person you just don’t like no matter how good they are. It’s not easy to be alone but is a lot easier then living in regret if your just not happy with who u are with for whatever reason. You ether get something good enough or stay alone.

[kreeortelia]

There are guys that are such unattractive for me that I feel cringe when I imagine kissing with them - this means for me that there is no way to go into relationship, this will not work. But when I feel ok about kissing them, and having sexual relationship with them, but they are not super physically attractive (but of course they have great personality!) I think it comes with time that you find what exactly you like in partner's appearance and what's not, but you still accept those negatives. :) maybe this can help anyone with this dilemma.

[zeesays]

you cant marry someone who turns you off physically or should i say i wouldnt. For me looks are important and think for your kids especially if you have daughters they deserve a fighting chance

[navisnow]

This really hurt my feelings, I've bin struggling with my relationship, I'm madly in love but the physical atraction isn't there. It's bin about a year and I'm trying to get my significant other to stop some bad habits and also work on their health to better their overall health and physical look to be the best she can be. I hope I'm enough motivation for her to change I'm not planning on leaving but I do want to see change.

[freeyourdreama]

Yes. Because as soon as you meet someone attractive there you’re not gonna be faithful to them it’s just who wants to be with someone that’s not attractive I certainly don’t want anyone to be with me if they’re not attracted to me

[annacanta]

I am in this situation right now. Thank you for this advice.

[goldie]

I don't really need 6 feet +, 6 abbs, perfect facial features etc. I just want someone I am sexually attracted to. SIMPLE

[dimpleparmar_]

No one is perfect and tbh you need to compromise at least something because everyone has flaws. The thing is if you're willing to compromise a bit in sexual attraction and everything else is just fine then go for it. The compromise also could be in some other traits of him like caring, kindness, possessiveness etc. If you're comfortable and you don't mind certain flaws(pyshicaly or personality) in a person then stay.

[allisong.]

Sometimes I think he’s insanely hot and other times I think he looks gross. What is wrong with me? 🤣

[truthseeker]

This is why marriage can feel pointless sometimes smh. Women always lying about being attracted to their guy. Meanwhile the guy thinks that everything is good smh.

[HH-fmbt]

Great video and so eloquently put. Thank you so much for sharing, you have yourself a new subscriber :)

[begrateful]

What if it is a one sided relationship and the man says that one day u will love me, i will give u enough love? The girl is kinda forced

[rachel]

The men I like never like me the ones that do I don’t pay attention to because of physical attraction

[zeldas_lullaby]

I just have to say that I love your voice. :)

[thefishboyy]

Thank you for including God into it!!!❤❤

[thirtymiles]

What if you fear to leave the guy then remains single your whole entire life 🤔