What's Your Attachment Style?

We call fondly call each other "baby" when we enter a new relationship, but we are often completely unaware of how our own infant relationships to our parents can influence the way we trust romantic partners as adults. "Attachment parenting" has become a buzz word among new parents. But attachment as adults is rarely discussed

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[happygolucky]

I remember thinking to myself 35 years ago, that we were going to have a generation of sociopaths because so many kids were in child care and bonding was not occurring. I think this new Attachment theory stuff is the world recognition of what I predicted 35 years ago.

[mordhaumaster]

It's insane how few views these relationship videos have... i can't believe few subscribers Dr Wendy has as well. No wonder so many people are broken. They don't seek knowledge. Watching this and i feel like i'm realizing how simple it is to actually be happy in a relationship, but so difficult because of lack of knowledge and understanding everyone has.

[kent]

Thank you posting this video. As someone in the mental health field it is refreshing to find information that is responsibly, professionally and compassionately represented.

[MyTi]

I wish I found you 40 years ago. You’ve answered so many questions . I m very happy for you on your 1 year milestone. I love too that you talk about your relationship and really take your own advice. Love you and thank you 😊

[zoeieblanche]

This video is great. I got of lot of take aways that i wished i already learned a few years ago.

[gwho]

one of the best videos on all of youtube.

[cherielovemakeup]

This was great! I'm an MFT and have Johnson's book about EFT. This theory is great for couples and individuals.

[KidPrimeTv]

My problem is that i have no problem at all being vulnerable with men. I tell them (whom I'm dating) what I need, what's lacking, how I'm feeling or how something he's doing is making me feel and I always end up getting men who r distant and closed off.

[alllifematters]

I like therapy people... they shine a light

[Xoronthran]

Hi Wendy, do you think attachment style can unlawfully change after the first 12 months of life?  By unlawfully, I mean the Bowlby-Ainsworth supporters seems to say attachment style is stable after 12 months except if there are lawful changes through such things as negative life events (divorce, family death, serious illness, etc).  But the critics seem to say that genetics and peer relationships can change attachment unlawfully.  I don't really have a good understanding of the debate.

[gwho]

15:00

it's actually college students that can get therapy because of the school.

it's once you get out of college that it becomes so completely unaffordable.

[eastbaysf]

I think men are taught to not have any needs from a woman except for sex... I think that is a big issue. Men and women should both feel needed emotionally. We cant grow without love that is strong and forgiving and happy.

[toofore]

The producer has a bad habit of jumping in and cutting off people before they finish making an important point. She's clearly too inexperienced to be in that position.

[eastbaysf]

My husband shuts me out all the time.. then wonders why I am sad. I could record him doing this every night. Then when he needs to talk to me on the flip side I find myself not wanting to listen to him. ITs crazy .We are very rarely intimate. I feel "trapped" by his 3pm phone calls but get very sad when he doesn't call....nuts.