7 Signs An Avoidant TRULY Loves You!

7 Signs An Avoidant Loves You. In this video Coach Craig Kenneth and Coach Victoria discuss 7 signs that your avoidant partner loves and cares about you. While their behavior can look very confusing, these are signs that they might love you more than you realize. Deciding if a partner is meeting your emotional needs can take time, and everyone's needs are different.

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[flower_]

Coach Victoria has a beautiful voice, very feminine and gentle, I could listen to her all day long😊

[lukeb]

Why would a person even want to try and repair a relationship with somebody that's an avoidant and you have to try so hard just to have a relationship with them?

[brittneyharvey]

That “pressure” is very No man wants to feel pressured but an avoidant really doesn’t.

[alyssapeterson]

If I let you drive me places, it means that I like/trust you enough that I now longer feel the need to control my location nor do I feel that I need an "exit strategy."

[madyuritgarcia]

YES YES YES & YES I agree with all of them!! Space it's all we need a little space.

[aoao]

I really think that the last point is the one matter the most, apply for all the attachment styles, if they truly love you, they will willing to change, even the smallest changes, it show efforts and investment in the relationship!

[RizaVentura-ik]

My avoidant showed all these things and still cut out. He did not even verbalize its over he just backed off.

[SunShineLady-dr]

Sadly most of the time an avoidant is connected with an anxious. That is the challenge.

[vanesabarcenas]

Thank you for always putting things in perspective for us ❤!

[jeffmurphy]

Despite all my rage, I am still just a horse in a cage.

[azoz]

The bare minimum for them is LOVE? That's sad 😭

[AWAr]

Although I enjoy your video, why don't coaches discuss what can happen if they push us away till we can no longer take it and we start the breakup, separation, or divorce? If that's the case, how would this NC operate? My about to be an ex has severe avoidant attachment, he stopped having sex with me 12 years and pushed me away too hard till I couldn’t take it anymore, so I filed divorce. He was so anxious as soon as I checked all out. He started seeing therapist since December, once a week.

We just have 2.5 months physical separation and I am 1.5 months of no contact, but still using co parenting app for communication about the kids. My avoidant reached out every once in a while asking some silly questions.

For me, no contact is about healing, I don’t want to go back to where I was, it’s so lonely! But I wanted to give him a good lesson!

[sharonpenrod]

My hubby didn't realize that even a marriage could be renegotiated. Wow. I didn't realize all his fix it/ help stuff was his expression of love for me.

[brego]

This is all true. I've experienced this first hand. I wish I knew it then, but somehow I understood. Except making any changes. But maybe that's just how she felt about me. She continued to date other guys and rinsed and repeated. Something wrong there. Thanks again for another great video!

[dmitryisaev]

Thanks a lot for this very insightful episode! I have been guessing for all 6, 5 years if she loved me. Now I see that all signs, that you are mentioning here, make me conclude that she loved me. Even a break up announcement was kind of playful from her part, I didn’t do any typical mistakes when she said it to me. I have been in a NC for 1, 5 years now. We will see how it goes. One huge difference from then and now is that I am healed and feel much more confident. And…I understand avoidants much better. When I was watching you guys I have been virtually rewinding the tape of our interactions that took me aback. Thanks 😊

[carlfreiermuth]

avoidants make great friends but not partners.. unless you're avoidant too, you can enjoy ignoring each other lol

[Melissaw]

I think my ex partner of 6 months is avoidant. He broke up with me last month and has gone no contact. I am not sure if he is aware of it though but the signs are obvious.. 😕

[jpmo]

My fearful avoidant does love her place, her house. Unfortunately, I sold my house, got engaged, moved into her house, and were looking for a new house to buy. We ended up breaking up… in hindsight she was not going to move out of her house. Sad ending as she was lovable in so many ways.

[chriss]

It's just annoying/sad that every little thing has to feel forced for them... You wonder if they are even enjoying or if the relationship is a burden.