Are you dating someone with an avoidant attachment style?

[andrepalomaro]

Asshole is not a qualitative psychological category 😂

[thedrasc]

Yes this is spot on because im an avoidant. The difference is although i keep myself at a distance because getting too close means a higher potential for disappointment, I dont deliberately reject affection and emotional vulnerability when its offered/given

[ML-dilt]

"It can be hard to tell"... because if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's probably a duck.

[lindsay]

i thought mine was an avoidant, but maybe he's an asshole. Ouch.

[nicholasdavidson]

Many people are looking for guidance from a good speaker and an intelligent, informed influencer like you.
It is unfortunate, however, that many would try to choose from these two and not be informed or educated that someone their dealing with is neither.

[charliebotzman]

What if my ex was a mix of both.

Really thought my ex was avoidant. In the beginning of the relationship, He would try to reassure, make me feel special, gave GREAT gifts!

After two years it felt like he wasn’t even trying to do the work anymore. And as much as I love(d) him, I had to let him go.

[bratbalal]

Cool word, so much suits to those devils

[ashleykathryn]

So basically I'm dating an asshole 😢

[gobot]

This is rly helpful and interesting. Is it possible for the same person to be avoidant in one relationship and anxious in another? Thx!

[Skeijeindi]

Can you make a video to break free from trauma bonding😢

[Eyedocsri]

Whaaaa. Jeff you nailed it. This is soo much needed for all those DA bashing community. DAs have their own cute unconventional way of connecting

[GryLzrEye]

My ex dont sound like the avoidant. Why am i still watching shit like

[bunniewood]

I thought mine was a DA but he was actually a diagnosed NPD. Both so similar!

[mike]

Not sure I'd feel comfortable with this therapist. 😢

[nuez]

Why not speaking out narcissist. It's not good to talk around things or to make them sound prettier as they are. That's the definition of a narcissist coming from a person with 2 narcissistic parents and 10 years experience in detecting them

[FuchsiaSquare]

Aren’t “Avoidants” Narcissists? I feel they kinda go hand-in-hand. 🫤