Why “Interested” Exes Disappear And What To Do About It

Why “Interested” Exes Disappear And What To Do About It

Did you have a recent interaction with your ex that made it seem like they like are interested with you, wanting to get back together and all that but they disappeared so suddenly? What happened? What are they thinking? Most importantly, what can you do about it?

In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about Why “Interested” Exes Disappear And What To Do About It.

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[relaxationvault]

This just happened to me. My ex and I have been spit up for 3 months. At like the 1 and a half month mark she started reaching out to me then slowly we started going on dates. We had sex for the first time in three months 4 days ago, then the next day she talked about us rebuilding our relationship and the dream she has for our future. Yesterday I got a call from her asking if I was available for couple counseling, something I had recommended in the beginning of the relationship. And then suddenly she just started ignoring me on purpose. I know this because I asked her a question and she read it but never responded. I feel like if she really wanted to make the relationship work she would be putting in more of an effort as I have been. I feel at this point she is just playing games with me and telling me what I want to hear.

[Bluecloud]

hey clay! the situation with my ex and I is extremely confusing and I just feel I can’t find a clear answer anywhere. Long story short, I was the one at fault for the breakup (I shared a drunk kiss with another man and he found out) and my ex inevitably ended things with me. this happened about 2 months ago but my ex has remained in constant contact with me since. he texts me everyday almost all day, asks about my day and how i’m doing, what i’m up to, etc. he genuinely cares and puts in the effort to keep me in his life. we met for coffee last week (he initiated the meet up) and it was really great. he gave direct eye contact, body positioned towards me, smiled and laughed the entire time, kept inching towards me, just standard body language that indicates someone’s interested. at the end of coffee, he said it was great to see me and we should do it again sometime. He carries himself like he is interested but every time I bring the possibility of starting over up he completely shuts it down and says he is keeping in contact with me because i’m a “good friend.” he says he doesn’t see us being together in the future because he isn’t sure he can ever trust me. we were together for two years and shared A LOT of memories together so I just don’t know if he genuinely is done and JUST wants to remain friends or if he is still hurting from the circumstances of the breakup and wants to keep me close while he figures it out. he’s told me to “move on because i’m just going to hurt myself being stuck on him” but i’ve remained very serious in waiting and haven’t seen anyone despite his comments. is that just an emotional test or does he truly mean these things he is saying? sorry this is so long… I am just so confused! Any help would be appreciated… thanks!!

[Js-wddr]

I would rather be alone than to put up with people like that...lol

[SUZUKI]

I call them liars until proven not to be

[KH-fvvq]

You let go and move on with your life. No one is waiting around to save you. Be your own hero. That's how real life works.

[lindaalfonso]

How do you encourage when you're not a desperate or a manipulative person and don't want to come off that way. You don't want them to overthink it.

[johnnytretears]

Clay this is off topic but can u bring ur old introduction i like to hear that

[chilloften]

Hi clay, just FYI Sometimes your saying the videos will be linked but they are not.
Tfs

[MattyZ]

Hey Clay, I’m in this kind of situation currently. My broke up with me 5 months ago and we agreed to stay friends. Recently if I text her, most of the time she will respond and sometimes we can have great positive interactions together. Some of them are fun and silly where we’re laughing and teasing and they feel just like it was when we were together. And recently she even started opening up to me emotionally a bit. But we’ll have a great conversation like this and then next time I text her I might not get a response. (Idk if she’s busy or purposely not answering) It leaves me feeling stuck and that I can’t make progress. How do I go on from here? Do I just need to keep being consistent and hope that it’ll change? Or should I be doing something specific to make progress?