Why Your Ex Acts Interested, Then Disappears

Why Your Ex Acts Interested, Then Disappears

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Things are going well, your interactions were so good but all of a sudden, your ex disappears. To being hopeful that you've figured out how to get your ex back, it feels like you're back to square one, wondering what just happened?!

In this video, Clay talks about what your ex is thinking or experiencing when they do this. There's a good chance that your ex is experiencing a positive pullback. They might be confused of the situation. They are probably considering getting back together with you because your emotional connection is so good BUT getting back together with you means explaining to family and friends why you're back together again, etc. They might be wondering if what you're showing is your true self and not just trying to win them back.

Watch the episode 'til the end as Clay Andrews also shared how to best react when this happens!

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This is an internet video, and it should be obvious, but this video and other videos on this channel should not be taken as a substitute for the evaluation of a psychologist, therapist, counselor, etc. This video and other videos on this channel are intended for informational uses only, and only reflect the personal opinions of the creator. The creator of this video is not responsible for your actions or choices or the consequences of your actions or choices.

[randoff]

I saw my ex working at subway the other day

So I stopped in and had her make me a sandwich, for old times sake.

[davidc]

Why ever let them get back together with you if they are showing signs of interest one minute and then not the next, as it is cruel to give them hope and disappear and playing on their heartstrings and emotions it's like they are always calling the shots.

[lebo_shozi]

The way he is acting confuses me like I don’t know whether he still loves me or not, or if he ever loved me . We do talk but it’s not the same anymore . He doesn’t say anything about us getting back together so nje I don’t know . I think maybe I should give him space but at the same time I want him to know that I’ll always love him

[dnpaker]

We sleeping together again.. She got in her feelings.. Now she pulling a way. Why?

[cwigg]

Man…I needed to see this. Perfect timing. She started reaching out and things seemed to be going well, too well. We met up at the lake, which was her suggestion. That was 10 days ago, and haven’t heard from her since. Not even on my birthday, which surprised me. I was in no contact, and did not reach out to her on her birthday, so I’m thinking she’s just returning the snub. I’m hoping the silence is confusion on her part. For her to have shown so many positive signs getting closer to me, and then to disappear is maddening, but this video helped me to understand what may be going on in her head. Thanks Clay.

[TuneMechanic]

My ex has been viewing my stories on social media almost on the daily, then just stopped, a bit confused about the situation

[anthonym]

I have had this same behaviour. But I just ignore it now even if we did get back together in future I don’t think it would feel the same to much water under the bridge now

[wesleyvdzee]

She has a hard time and find it difficult we connected .so she cut off again but i get her so i see her again

[grace]

my ex lost feelings for me when we were together bc i was super clingy and he felt like he was suffocated and had no space. he came back 10 months later saying he misses me. over text he was so lovey. then we hang out and he felt weird. i was not clingy with him at all. i respected his space and wasn't all over him or anything. he told me he felt weird and hasn't talked to me much since. the next day i tried texting him asking if everything is ok and he was like ehhh kind of but then stopped responding. haven't heard from him in like 5 days now. he is avoidant and i dont want him to think i am clingy so i unforunately cant use the parking garage method or it will cause him to pull away more. just waiting for him to come back again.. maybe he was scared seeing how much i have changed and gotten my life together. thanks for the video!

[tracyrooster]

They were testing ur availability to them nothing more

[millirocs]

Hello, I’m wondering how do we deal with exes who have low self esteem? What can we do when they are feeling not enough for us?

[ivydune]

I have no idea why he's doing this. I don't ask him to do it he does it because he wants. He texts, I answer nicely, he disappears; he texts, I reply nicely, he disappears...I texted him friendly, he replied, faded and disappeared. He came back weeks later, all emotional, I replied nicely, not acknowledging the emotional part, he disappeared...I sent him a funny text...he saw it and didn't reply...I'm tired. To me, it means he will not come back. I lost

[wyteman]

I’m so here for this! This video was the video I needed to watch this morning.

[anonymous]

Hey clay, Went 2 months no contact then she reached out asking all these questions about me and then said she misses me and my kids. I messaged back 5 hours later saying hope shes well and to be honest i miss her too, and that maybe we could catch up sometime. She then said that would be cool 🥰. Then later that night i said hey hope you had a good day, hey are you free 1 night this weekend to catch up? That was 3 days ago. Just tonight i got a text from her saying, sorry im busy this weekend! Hope you had a good day :). Im not messaging back unless i hear from her first! And it will have to be something substantial!! I feel like she was checking in on me to see if im still available!? Is this the right thing to do or should i reach out?!

[williamdolan]

Mine acted interested and then disappeared and her reasoning is she said her love for me just isn’t there. But she does care? Starting to think after nearly a year I am wasting my time!

[jonwatts]

This is a little more of a question about the same issue, but what about the pull away/disappearance after THEY ask you if you've thought about getting back together, and you tell them you're open to the possibility?

[SAMEntalhealth]

After a month of no contact, my ex messaged me on all of my social media accounts, and texted me, do you miss me and your best friend? Which led me to think she may have been feeling emotional, we were together for six years and best friends. We never were disloyal, I do want to be with her, it's been like a month in a couple days and we do kind of small talk I guess, but the other night she was really emotional and called me the next day twice and I was busy so I couldn't talk. Now I really would like to talk to her and reconnect with her

[jazmyne]

I was in NO for 3 months and my ex and I finally started texting. Eventually he told me he missed me and we decided to meet up. When we met up we talked about everything, he apologized, told me he missed me and that he didn’t like his life without me in it. He said he was willing to work to get me back. Things felt right and we also had sex. The next day we texted a bit and he told me “we should probably ease back into this instead of just rushing”. I told him I agreed and that I wasn’t rushing. I have not heard from him and it’s been 4 days. I’m confused and so hurt. What do I do?

[sarahphillips]

What if he came back, promised everything about wanting to start again, go and see a therapist to help. But then back off and start seeing someone else? X

[marcalamara]

Going through this right now. Blowing hot and cold, can't tell if she's shit testing or inner conflicted. I feel I've regressed to riding the dragon