When Your Ex Thinks They Have Lost You

Discover the transformative power of absence in 'When Your Ex Thinks They Have Lost You.'

In this compelling video, we delve into the intricate dynamics of breakups and how the perception of loss can drastically shift the balance in your favor.

Understand the psychological principles at play when your ex starts to realize you might not be there waiting anymore.

This realization can often be the catalyst they need to reevaluate their decisions and potentially pave the way for reconciliation.

We'll guide you through the strategies to create this perception effectively, without resorting to manipulation or games.

Learn how to use space and silence as tools for healing and possibly rekindling your relationship.

Whether you're in the midst of a no-contact period or simply moving forward with your life, this video will provide you with insightful tips on how to become more attractive and valued in the eyes of your ex.

Join us as we explore the importance of focusing on personal growth and living your best life, and how these actions can make your ex question their decision to let you go.

'When Your Ex Thinks They Have Lost You' isn't just about getting your ex back; it's about rediscovering your worth and ensuring any future relationship is built on a foundation of mutual respect and genuine desire.

Don't miss out on this chance to turn the tables and possibly open the door to a new chapter with your ex.

[alesiaminner]

My ex reached out a week ago begging for forgiveness after he ended our engagement 3 years ago. I forgave him a while ago now he wants to see me ( I declined) he also asked I could be his friend (I declined) not interested in in having him be a part if my life again too much pain there I'm still doing the self work and won't all old feelings to diminish my progress. I wished him well!

[leewe]

Hear my story : My ex gf dumped me a month and a half ago, I applied no contact the next day, she reached out one week later to ask how I was, to which I said "fine thx", then she reached out again one week after to say the break up was difficult for her, then one week after she reached out to ask me to be friends, to which I said "no", then one week after she asked for her stuff back, I casually gave it back to her, we had a little chitchat, a coffee and I left, one week after she reached out again saying she wanted to meet and talk, I said "ok sure". Tonight we met and she told me she realized she had feelings and wanted back into the relationship, to which I said " we can try, slowly".
So now a new phase begin, my ex came back after dumping me, no contact works.

[camellia]

It is frustrating that they only seem to want you once you have gotten over them.

[Cross]

It doesn’t matter who you choose. They have to choose you back.

[losbanos]

Point 5.... I'm in no contact with my ex gf. She texted me a couple weeks ago out of the blue after a month of no texts....asking if I would shovel the snow out of her driveway. Then she said PLEASE. I ignored her. She wanted me to stay in her life but not be a partner. I continue to wait in no contact. She's showing signs of cracking. Stay strong folks. Your ex's silence is misleading. Many times they are hurting just as bad... especially if they really love you but are too spoiled to admit they messed up. Let them FEEL THE LOSS! Count your days...day by day, hour by hour....you are showing you have worth and they can feel that. Good luck!!

[itsxelina]

Listen to what Coach Lee says. Have patience, focus on yourself and heal. My ex reached out to me after 2 months of No Contact and we went on a date today. He apologized for everything and realized that I am the love of his life. We’re taking it slow. Let them see your place in their lives. If it was true love, they will miss you. Stay strong people!

[carriejaworski]

It has been two and a half weeks of no contact and it’s been hard. For 13 years I’ve been the one chasing, making the sacrifices, pouring my heart and soul into him, just for him to break things off with me. I had my moments but I know I was a good gf and not a day went by that he didn’t know how much I loved him. By the end I was resentful and had pulled away because I felt unappreciated and undervalued in the relationship but I never stopped loving him. I want him back and I know that what we have is special but I’m done chasing. He has always known that I would be there and this time he needs to feel what it’s like to truly lose me. It’s not meant to make him feel a negative way but without the grief I don’t think he’ll ever get it. It hurts like hell but it’s his turn to do the chasing and to earn my presence back.

[tommy_s]

I only wish everyone to find their love and for that to be reciprocating, don't let your love fade or be blurred by opinions of others, hold on to it and solve the problems by communicating

[jaydub]

It's interesting. But I don't want someone that broke my heart back. But no contact is helpful to get your house in order.

[mosesr]

Coach Lee thank you for putting the band-Aid back in my heart, so far 2 months of no contact put my ex keeps posting things look at me and my good life, , I really need to stop looking, lol

[vedled]

Coach Lee is the King...All of his guidance is spot on. Ex is making her moves to come back, trying to bait me into contacting her which is comical/frustrating. Liking all my FB posts all of a sudden, posting pictures of foods she would make me that I loved, posting pictures of her dog on a Sat night in the spot next to her on the couch so I know she's alone, etc. Staying strong and just watching the pressure build - And coming back to Coach Lee's videos when I feel a moment of weakness coming on. Coach, you should do more videos on things ex's will do to bait you into breaking no contact and whether you should (NO!!!). Thx!!

[onnaaaloll]

You bring me hope more and more every day coach lee, thank you.❤️

[marcelabonturi]

Every video I watch, I get even more brainwashed by coach Lee words & confidence . Tks for that coach ❤👏🏻

[ki]

Thank you coach lee for helping me in my depressive states❤.
I don't know what would have been my mental state without you
Thank you keep up the good work

[SimonsHamper]

You are a real life saver! I have watched your videos for a month of no contact and he finally reached out telling me he wants us to meet and that life is hard on him. You helped me push on one day at a time ❤

[fivebooks]

I got my ex back. Now I wish I had let her go. I found out 2 years later that she was cheating on me during that time. She lied to get back with me. I asked if there was somebody else and she said no. So I took her back. When a woman leaves a long term relationship there is always another guy she’s been cheating with before she leaves. Especially if she says I need space. I’ve never seen a case where there wasn’t. She needs space to pursue her new guy while keeping you on the back burner until she sees whether the new guy is gonna work out. She only comes back because he didn’t work out. You are the 2nd choice.

[Nismolover]

Coach lee, I feel like your videos don't account enough for when there is no talking at all, but it could happen. I'm not blocked and I reached out 37 days after the breakup, but she chose the breakup.

I broke her trust, and that's what got me here. I hope you make a video addressing this.

[StolkPhotography]

I won't go into the details, but.. you're absolutely right.

[lorenzo-il-magnifico]

Thanks for all the great content you put out. I got the Emergency kit, but would be great to have more video content regarding distance relationships, and no contact while at a distance.

[macmccollum]

You're on target with this topic. Great video.