Why Forgiveness is Not Enough to Move Forward

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Forgiving someone you love is not enough, and without this extra step, the pain can keep coming back to hurt your relationships. Here's 3 things you can do for better forgiveness so you can heal completely and keep moving forward.

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It's hard to forgive. Even when time goes by. Truth is, I think we beIittle and disre spect people who hold agrudge. Reduce the probIem to _their_ probIem. And that's not fair. Time doesn't always heal the wou nd. It's unheaIthy, but it isn't unnatural. You probably don't remember me, but I once expressed mypain about a manager who made a fooI out of me for my mistakes at work. It was two years ago, but I still don't forgive her. Especially because, after I apoIogized, she patronizedme. Told me she wasn't trying to "give it to me, " she was trying to help me be successful. First, that contradicts the lecture that was clearly _to_ me, not _for_ me. Second, her comment implies I'm a big faiIure without her. I don't think I will forgve her. If she did me a big favor, I wouldnt thank her. And that's fair. Not only for her tactIessness, but for not apoIogizing. I call it balancing each other out.

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