Still Not Ready To Commit To My Girlfriend

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[sunshinexoxo]

He doesn't love her but loves the comfort she gives. Leave him, girl.

[ModernSouthernBelle]

Please dump her. I would feel absolutely horrified if a man felt this way about me. If you don’t think she’s the one by now then it’s a no.

[seaportsthename]

my ex was like this. i waited for 4 years… got tired of waiting on being “worthy” of marriage. finally left and i’m much happier.

[paulBIOgeek]

This dude is immature. First "overwhelmed" with working. He's in a band (oh, the irony). Now, he's stringing along a girl with his immaturity. He can't commit to anything.

[ruraljuror]

Don't be a place holder. He'll take your child bearing years and marry someone else that he really wants.

[MeloFloww]

He doesn’t love her, he loves the idea of her being around.

She should leave. Brother is wasting everyone’s time.

[mclauren]

Girlfriend, if you are reading this take heed: Do not let your BOYFRIEND keep you from meeting your HUSBAND. Leave him and move on.

[Girlgonewise]

She should have never moved in with this man and allow him to string her along for 4 years. He’s getting all the benefits of a wife without having to be married. He loves her company but he doesn’t love her. He’s the type that will leave a long term relationship and be married to someone else within a year. She’s a place holder.

[laurenecarter]

After 4 years you know if you want to marry someone. Let her go, man. It's cruel.

[danigirl]

Wasted four years of her life. Let her go find someone who is serious and give her the commitment she deserves.

[waybogus]

Never spend more than a year of your life with someone if marriage isn't on the table. Too many people do exactly this and it ends dreadfully every single time.

[kcourtney]

Lol! I’ve seen situations like this before
he doesn’t want to marry her, if they break up he’ll meet someone new and propose to them within the year. Happens all the time.

[Shay-ygnm]

After 4yrs if you don't know she's the one then she ain't the one! Let her go find someone worth her time

[thecrackedcocoon]

If women are so bad why even be with one? Just stay away from them and you should be fine.

[BlendedBarbieDoll]

Ladies don’t let your boyfriend get in the way of you meeting your husband.

[liveslisa]

There is an old saying, "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free? His girlfriend needs to wise up and dump him. The sooner the better.

[coconutwater]

Men like this run through multiple women their entire lives. He *may* cave and decide to get married in his 40s when his health starts failing or he has ED, balding, and isn’t appealing to women anymore. Regardless, I hope this lady leaves him yesterday and finds a mature man.

[winnie]

He literally said he would rather ride the new relationship high with multiple women than stay with one. No judgment, just be honest and let her go.

[JustineCarissa]

The girlfriend was willing to accept him even with diagnosis and she was all in. This guy should realize how lucky he is. I like how Dr. John said it’s about choosing to be together or not.

[stormstargazer]

He’s blaming “mommy” because he’s too immature to commit. Pathetic.