The #1 Thing Narcissists FEAR The Most And Don't Want YOU To Know! - Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse

In this video, I share the thing Narcissists fear most and what they don't want you to know so you can overcome their abuse.

[RICHARDGRANNON]

What's the #1 thing you took away from this?

[IsaiahJesus]

"No one can throw a bigger tantrum than a narcissist who's losing control of someone else's mind." Higher Perspective

[riasb]

Here is a list of what Abusers/Narcissists usually do to their targets :

- Insults their target very often. Then lie when confronted about it, or say it was a joke.
- When confronted with their behaviour, they pretend to be innocent and play the victim.
- Everything is always your fault, even when it's obviously not.
- They always have a justification for every bad thing they do. They think they're always right.
- Very controlling, they tell you how to live, but they can live any way they want. Very hypocritical.
- They accuse you of what they're doing to you (RED FLAG!), it's called Projection.
- Portraying themselves as angels outside, when they are actually demons with their family and especially their target.
- They want you to fail while pretending to want you to succeed (they're very convincing).
- They never say they are sorry for hurting you (RED FLAG!).
-Poison your favourite activities, they don't want you to be happy or to get pleasure. They also poison other useful activities like important skills which will help you in the future. They DO NOT want you to have skills, they want you to be as weak as possible. They don't teach you anything.
- Subtly lead a smear campaign against their target, so they isolate it and make sure they don't get help.
-When you want to leave the relationship with a narcissist, they beg you to stay with them and cry crocodile tears. They are the best actors.
- Sometimes nice, sometimes cruel. You never know where you stand with them. Target will be walking on eggshells.
- They pretend to be "victims", and they blame the target for their own behaviour.
- They are incredibly arrogant and sadistic. They see the target as weak, and deserving to suffer.
- They think they are models to be followed.
- They are spiritually dead although they might loudly profess some kind of Spiritual Belief.

[GLDn]

"Keep your karma clean." 100%. It's a narrow path but the only way.

[Hangfire]

Feel sorry for the narcissist... they will never live a life of stability without chaos, drama and pain. They will go from one relationship to the next, never finding true happiness... ever.

[DRUCO]

I am starting my escape now. Wish me luck.

[KC-pwnn]

The narcissist can't stand it when you're happy. Start singing and they'll have a meltdown.

[lisakinney]

So accurate it brought me to tears. Living with a person like this really is hell. I’ve been there for 30 years. Can hardly remember what I used to be like anymore.

[DonTwanX]

I have been feeling guilty for going no contact. But this video taught me that I’m escaping the narcissistic family of origin, not abandoning them. Freedman!

[democratictotalitariansoci]

whoever has betrayed your trust twice shouldn't be trusted ever again.

[vesnalukic]

This is legit. I felt like I was raising a toddler half the time..and the other half like I was being punished by my mom all over again.

[jatall]

This presentation is phenomenal!!! Anyone who has catered to a narcissist for years can literally fully, wholly comprehend and CONFIRM everything in this video. What a brilliant precise breakdown of the dynamics when dealing with a true narcissist. Healing and moving on… is by far your most powerful move… especially if you don’t be bitter or vengeful about it all .., just quietly and completely shut the door of their access to you.. mind, body, and spirit…

[roberthayes]

This is the clearest diagnosis of the root cause of narcissist behaviour I've seen, abandonment

[tinaulrich]

So true. They are never interested in being equal.

[rhoz]

Richard….this was perfect. The perfect analysis. Wow. It’s mind blowing for a woman like myself to hear this utter and blatant truth when I lived struggling to make my marriage work for 35 years!! About two months ago, out of curiosity, I opened a video on narcissism and sat with my mouth hanging open. It was all about MY life. Then I knew there was nothing I could do, which had been obvious always.
I’m still there but have been healing and completely changing the way I react to him. Little by little getting myself ready to tell him I can’t live with him any longer. Too bad I didn’t discover this before I gave him half my life.
I will be the one to continue paying. Harder for a woman to live alone. He could fix and repair anything…except the marriage.
Plus my family and everyone else thinks he is Mr. Wonderful. Nobody will understand.
Scarey at this time in life and also no children.
Richard…you are smart, eloquent, spot on, and hilarious. Thanks for helping by sharing this knowledge

[brittanychapman]

I just left after 7 years. It’s been emotional hell. Therapy has changed my life

[Chopsyochops]

As the saying goes ‘the best revenge is success’. It’s p’ssed my Narc mum off no end lol. She wanted me to fail so she could be above me. She tried to destroy me. So I chose to succeed and now she hates me. She always hated me. It’s very satisfying to be successful as an individual person outside of her torment. But most importantly it’s liberating to no longer be addicted to chasing the love I now know would never have received. It was all an illusion, a carrot on a stick. I’m free of her now. It’s such a relief.

[inpursuitofhappiness]

OMG!!! So true about having to be their child/slave and thier parent/master. The cognitive disonance caused by that almost drove me insane. So good to be out!

[DarkLightHuntress]

This video is gold. The narcissist craves control over others above all else and not having it is terrifying for them

[jendjoyce]

I had a foster mother who I can honestly say is a true narcissist. Her biggest fear is someone who isn't afraid of her. Wow! This hits hard.