Fearful Avoidant Attachment: Why It's So Hard to Set Boundaries In The Moment & What to Do

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Setting Boundaries to End Compulsive People-Pleasing & Create Authentic Connections

Want to know 5 things every fearful avoidant must realize about setting boundaries and building self-trust?
In this video, Thais Gibson shares 5 points that every fearful avoidant attachment style (disorganized attachment) must realize about setting healthy boundaries and building self-trust.

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00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:05 - Point #1: Assertiveness Versus Anger
00:01:35 - Point #2: Haven't Acknowledged Your True Feelings
00:02:33 - Point #3: More Attuned to Others’ Feelings
00:03:17 - Point #4: Limiting Beliefs Around Boundaries
00:03:57 - 7-Day Free Trial: Setting Boundaries Course
00:04:15 - Point #5: Lack Boundary Literacy
00:06:35 - Lifetime Promo
00:07:06 - Conclusion

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I’m Thais Gibson, welcome to my channel, and thank you for stopping by!

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[ivfel]

I realized I was afraid setting boundaries due to the backlash I will receive from relatives when I was a kid. When I expressed disapproval I often get neglected and rejection or they spread gossips trying to influence others to hate me. I finally notice that I have relatives with narcissistic personality. This is less impacting me as I got older as I can choose to walk away from that situation, but I notice that people pleasing tendencies tend to pop up sometimes.

[doublerainbow-]

You speak directly to my experience it gives me hope

[Lorij]

This happens to me a lot. Looks like I know my next course!

[lemonlimeluv]

I watched this and it gave me to confidence to set boundaries today. The situation happened days ago but I still took the initiative to speak up

[gutsandgrittv]

Get in your body. Wow that really hit me.

[ashwaqahmed]

Love your videos about FA 💜 They are helping me a lot.

[CommunistGangsterComputerGod]

your videos are a god send!!! fearful avoidant here and let me tell u it sucks!!!! 😂

[heatherpalmucci]

I have to take all your boundaries courses. Lack of strong boundaries is exhausting and frustrating me in all areas of my life. It always makes me fearful to engage with new people and activities.

[MzShonuff]

I’ve never been a trend person and these won’t change that but it highlights why I favor certain designers over others

[rikkiola]

I struggle with setting boundaries in the early phases, maybe dating stage, as it feels you each don't have enough invested to warrant being able to set expectations in the form of boundaries. Not sure if that makes sense

[K_-oxpq]

Love your videos, especially about FAs!🫶