Why narcissists keep coming back and leaving | Dear Mental Healness Call in Series

why #narcissists keep coming back and leaving over and over again. why does the narcissist keep sending mixed signals

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[Skyfoxx]

So basically, when it comes to narcissists, it’s “ok for me to do something to you BUT it’s not ok for you to do something to me or back to me”.

[xyaeiounn]

I've found, with an avoidant, that anyone on earth is good ENOUGH, but nobody will ever be ENOUGH.

[karrynlipsett]

Yes, be careful what you tolerate, you are showing ppl how they can treat you.

[nicholecornes]

Because they think your not going anywhere

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And being with them makes you feel like if you keep putting up with it, eventually all the suffering will have been for something. As if somehow, all the pain being worth something lessens it’s damage.

It’s a twisted world we choose to live with the narc. We isolate from friends and family because we are ashamed of our partner, and ourselves for allowing the behavior, but while in that world… we victimize ourselves.

It sounds harsh, but it’s true. That blind loyalty breeds false hope..

[omaraddas]

i expressed to my narcissist partner that i am hurt for belittling me, treating me wrong and not making me feel special (i stood up for myself) and he got soooo angry and ended the relationship with me, i feel with the narcissist it is always the same result and you will always end up hurt and discarded weather you put up or don't put up with their toxic behavior

[tmoney]

These videos couldn’t have come at a better time. It’s keeping me from feeling insane. A light in the darkness, if you will.

I’ve done nothing but try and help my Narc/alcoholic father for years cause he has no license and I got nothing from it except more damage than before. My grandpa (his father) still backs him up endlessly. I feel like an imposter lately.

I’m just grateful that my uncle has my back.

[confusedwhynot]

To keep control and mess with your mind.

[kathymonteiro]

When my ex-narc and I went for counseling (at his suggestion .. sigh), he committed to 6 sessions, which also surprised me. Of course that never happened, he bailed after two sessions. He just didn't show up. Our counselor told me, while I sat there confounded that he didn't show, "Cast not pearl before swine". He saw from just 2 sessions that this relationship was beyond my understanding and that there would never be any emotional reciprocity. I didn't like what he said, but I also had to face the ugly truth. It was a squander of love and devotion.

[crystalball]

I used to ask him why he gave me everything? I’d say you give me the world, all of my needs & wants. I never understood why? But at the same time, he’s done the worst things a wife could ever experience.

[cathyh]

Some narcissists like to brag to their 'friends' about how many women they have on the go at the same time, so their mixed signals are part of the manipulation for that. A female narc might do some version of this too but for the warped feeling of being wanted but would not likely get a favorable reaction from bragging to her friends about it.

[christalbrown]

Stand your ground. Maintain your boundaries... love you!😊❤🎉

[cherijb]

My narc ex tried it. After 7 years of ghosting me tried coming back. I ignored every text & call. He told me I was being rude. I let him run his course for a week, then responded via text letting him know that I am no longer the same idiot girl he ghosted. Broke down his Narcissistic BS. Then blocked him on everything again. I took my control back & then discarded him. Sent him to hell hole he crawled out of ❤

[michaelmich]

The new supply is always temporary, they most of the time cant or wont accept the narcs attention and validations

[dgvfsa]

Love this format. Short and to the point questions, then a break before you respond. Great idea. You're driving the narrative. 🗣🗣🗣

[MeCynthiaAnn]

WATCHED YOUR VIDEOS ALL DAY TODAY and SHARED them.
They are so awesome and funny too.
God bless you and thank you for these.
From JANESVILLE, WI

[talithamarko]

Again thank you. I really need to just listen and keep him gone. Wish it was easier.

[rachelcoloradomykidz]

Just so effing Sad and Just SUCKS 😔😢 Tfs 🙏🏻❤

[tabathaterry]

Wow this was really good. Lee you are my favorite narcissist

[bornalibkalitathecolourofl]

You are saving many peoples lives brother ! Thanks a lot... from India ❤❤❤