How to deal with difficult people - 4 Magic Phrases to respond to almost any insult

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Questions that will be answered within this video:

• How do we tend to respond when face a difficult person or bully?
• What are some reasons people say or do hurtful things?
• What are some easy and effective ways to respond to negative people in almost ANY situations?

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[harshapincha]

when someone slips in a negative remark, I often pretend to not have heard them and ask them to repeat it. Either they shy away from the situation or attract judgement to their own negative remarks! Thank you for the impressive handling technique in this video!

[ranu]

Without being rude we can easily get rid of such people filled with so much negativity....

[learnwithaamir]

I don't think it will work with my foster parents, who are extremely rude, make you work hard for house chores, and look down upon you for everything in life (as if you were mistakenly born), their ego is extremely high for them to be ever wrong on anything, and they are highly educated (Ph.D). I went through this pain for over 20 years and as a child, I don't know how I survived it. Only remembering and trusting in the creator helped me through this difficult time period in my life. These people can't go to jail in our society but the ONE who created all beings is ever watchful for our actions. May the creator of heaven and earth watch over all who are patient with difficult people around them. Amīn.

[riteshpuri]

I really loved it when you said that people generally expect us to give a negative response. I have noticed that a lot but instead we should smile or be calm and ask “oh really, that’s interesting tell me more”😀🙏🏻

[taimurchoudhry.]

I can't stop smiling because you made a complex problem so simple. Reminds me of Peter Drucker.

[sashw]

Thank you so much for this! I am dealing with an extremely negative boss, and as of late I have been retaliating to her bullying. I am afraid that my behaviour might be considered rude/insubordination. I will definitely be using your method.

[dinkuaiims]

I really love this idea. I have been struggling for all my life with passive aggressive people who say something short but stingy, in a subtle way, but I don’t know should I call them out or just ignore as a “no biggie”. But that thought stays with me… why did she say that?… Why was I not able to defend myself…It is always hurtful in retrospect. I now know how to acknowledge and respond with assertiveness.

[himashreehazarika]

I often face this issue, it triggers my emotions, while at that moment I get confused what to say them back.
Thanks a lot to share this, I'll surely apply this next time.

[dr.elmerhartman]

Me: So you are married.
Her: That's interesting, what made you ask that?

[rachriri]

Ive always resorted to youtubers to find answers for such situations but its the first time I actually feel you taught me something and not vaguely said “take a breath in and out and you should be good” without any explanation - looking forward to more videos - wish you can do one about putting boundaries with people close to you

[Chronade]

This is a big topic, you're changing lives! Thank you for these magic phrases, they'll come in handy! Your videos are so exciting. When dealing with difficult people, I exercise empathic listening, before my Mental Health was in check, I was quick to get angry, quick to get bitter, but now i fight fire with water, if it is possible on my part, I make and  peace with everyone; I say things such as, "I see. I see." Thanks for making this video! Have a great weekend! :)

[John-wdbu]

Thank you, Shade Zahrai. This truly makes dealing with negative people and hard situations a breeze. Just having those questions in my mind is giving me peace. Asking is better than assuming or judging :)

[EzekJohnson]

Wow. Shade. You’re a great coach. I’ve heard the “that’s interesting...” communication technique taught a number of times but you added another level of genius and to it that has helped me understand it more. God bless you

[PiyushPragyan]

Thanks Shade for making my day.💓
The level of positivity that I can gain from your videos is insane.Perfect way to start my day.

[zubairso]

Will it work in a scenario where the manager goes, "You're fired!" Me: "That's interesting, what made you say that?" lol. Thanks for the amazing tips though.

[vijayam]

Let me be honest, the way you say it softly and a gleam your eye just calms me over and learn a new tip in a positive way! Thank you!

[kavitakanwar]

These are most generous way to respond politely in a humble way to limit the negativity to spread and affect us and anyone.Really good. Thank u so much.

[deraxsi]

Sometimes I’m staring at them, without saying anything, expect from them to thinking more. But today I learned another cool strategy. Many thanks Shade🙏

[parthahazarika]

That's interesting Shade.I'm grateful to you for this awareness video in terms of bringing a bold approach to face any challenging situations in day to day life.I definitely have a takeaway message which can be practiced daily

[pratikchakraborty]

I swear this is one video I absolutely needed. Thank you so much Shade.