4 Red Flags You're Dealing With An Emotionally Immature Person

A kind reminder to all Psych2goers that this video is not intended to discriminate nor label people. It is only to inform and educate. It also intends to help those who could be struggling with it and those who are dealing with a person who struggles with emotional immaturity.

#maturity #relationship

Timestamps
1). Impulsivity 0:43
2). Less self-reflection 1:49
3). Bullying 2:38
4). Selective caring 3:21

Writer: Mirzi and Brie Villanueva
Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Drew Baillie
Animator: Amy Arendolff
Production Assistant: Thomas Kang
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[ecwskier]

Me watching this to figure out if I’m the immature person

[neontheory]

We need a video on people who are emotionally imnature, but very smart, they can manipulate you, but never emotionally reflect and get better.

[LuckyLki]

i just got yelled at by an emotionally immature person as a response to me calmly stating my feelings. this video was recommended to me as soon as i came home, and this video just came out hours ago. i really needed to hear this today.

[Reecetrex]

Not all impulsive people are spoiled brats, you will definitely find a kind person with impulsive qualities due to ADHD and/or other reasons, just putting it out there

[Masayu_Kamigano]

Absolutely my mother.
Me as a toddler who still remembers how my dad and mom divorced decided: “Oh, let’s see if mom lies!”
She told me: “You can know when you’re older”

[GodammitNappa]

My emotionally immature parents made me the same. Took till i was 28 to see it and learning to grow up this late is rough

[aniE]

Sounds like you're talking about my mom. The sad part is that she's 73.

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Impulsivity 0:43
2). Less self-reflection 1:49
3). Emotional regulation 2:08
4). Bullying 2:38
5). Selective caring 3:21

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. I missed hearing your voice Drew Baillie. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[wendyvazquez]

I really needed this, I was feeling sad about a situation I just had with a mate and this gave some relief, I shouldn't blame myself for the actions of others.

[GratiaVOD]

All I can say is that youtube's algorithm keeps showing me the Psych2Go videos about sex and relationships; to the point where I became worried that was all you were posting. My fiancée and I broke up and I decided to move on and be single. I am happy to see that most of your most recent videos weren't the ones youtube recommended, but I am also sad they aren't recommending your other content.

Thank you for all that you do!

[ErdemtugsC]

Time stamps:
0:00 intro

0:44 1. IMPULSIVITY

1:49 2. Less Self-Reflection

2:38 3. BULLYING

3:22 4. SELECTIVE CARING

4:05 outro?



Look like I’m late from being on top

[JoelDJohnson]

In some cases, because of my ADD, I am emotionally immature, and I'm trying to tell my brain, "Develop, please!"

[sofienasiha]

Giving the example of Veruca was awesome. Never realised it till this video talked about it.
I wana see more videos on psychoanalysis of characters such as Veruca in Charlie and the chocolate factory

[Rick]

1:58 I simply love the references in your videos 😂

[NU-BLUD]

I've dealt with adults like this also, I love the way you incorporated Wily Wonka reference

[Celeste-jhlj]

I spent my whole childhood trying to be mature and was often praised on my maturity. But I learned when i got older i wasnt as mature as I thought i was. Its something im working on but it also surprised me the amount of grown adults who acted like children over the stupidest shit like parking spots. I often find myself trying to avoid acting like certain people instead of having role models to follow.
However I also have ADHD which might be where the impulsivity and emotional disregulation comes in but im handling that pretty well. I was able to keep myself from having a meltdown when i was feeling super overwhelmed the other day

[raykuang]

Technically, this one is probably related to one of the listed items like “less self-reflection or bullying”, but I feel like projecting is a big one. I’d describe projecting as someone that always blames other people for most misfortunes they encounter, even though at the end of the day, it’s them in the wrong in a lot of these said situations because they always seem to rub people the wrong way and have that “my world view is 100% correct, how can I be the bad guy here?!”-mentality.

[maryamshaaban]

I'd like to add a few more: not answering questions or being aggressively defensive when faced with evidence.
Having the emotional spotlight at all times.
Eg. A: You did that thing
B(sarcastically): Oh yeah right, sure.


A: I have evidence of you doing this thing repeatedly
B: I'm honestly done talking to you, I don't have to respond to you, i don't have the energy, you always stir up problems, etc.

B: you left this thing in a dirty spot, that's why I threw it with the garbage.
A: what dirty spot?
B(sarcastically): idk.


A: hey, you dropped your coffe on my floor. I slipped on my way in, you should've cleaned it.
B: I didn't, stop accusing me.
A: you're the only one who drinks coffe in this household, you said you were going to take something from my room, I saw you walking in with the mug.
B: you're right. I'm also the one who dropped your juice last week and walked in the room with dirty boots (all things A did and took responsibility of) I just always dirty up your room and poor you has to clean after me all the time.

A: I can't help you cook today, I have a headache.
B: yeah? Well I had a headache yesterday too buy I got up and did some chores.
A. I already did some work today and my headache is not going away even after medication.
B: oh poor you. So you're human and I'm not? You get to rest while having a headache and I don't?


A: I'm sorry I didn't respond to your messages, I lost my pet and was in a bad place.
B: well I lost a dear person last year too, I had it worse. It was a person not an animal.


A: I'm honestly depressed, I need to check with a therapists.
B: why would you be depressed? If anyone os allowed to be depressed then it should be me, I've had this and that happen. (Most of the time, A had far worse things happen but B would always exaggerate to seem like the strong survivor while A is just being whiney and irresponsible)

[Nola]

You can' t communicate, you run away, don' t take accountability and won' t sincerly apologize especially after wronging someone and it' s even worse when they know how you felt and still didn' t seem to give a s@#t.

[longtravel]

I would love to see a video discussing how to handle being in a relationship with an immature person, and more to the point a relationship that can't just be ended on a whim.