When She Pulls Away, Mirror Her to Restore Attraction

Any man who’s been in a serious relationship knows that women frequently pull away and create problems for no reason. When this happens, the man’s natural instinct is to wonder why his girlfriend or wife is acting this way. Sometimes there are legitimate reasons for a woman’s behavior; at other times, there’s no logical explanation except for a female predisposition towards emotional instability. Perhaps you’ve done something to upset her; perhaps she woke up on the wrong side of the bed, or perhaps she’s testing you to see how you’ll respond. Whatever the reason might be, the most important thing a woman wants to know is this: are you strong enough to handle her emotions or not?

If a woman’s acting moody or withdrawn, all the talking in the world won’t bring her back to a place of joy and happiness. Expressions of frustration and anger will only pour fuel on the situation as the woman comes to realize that she now has power over you and your emotions. In this situation, any attempt to placate a woman and soothe her will be met with sharp resistance. Instead, it’s always better to mirror a woman’s emotions to neutralize her power. When a woman pulls away from you, you must also pull away; when she grows distant and withdrawn, you too must become distant and withdrawn; and when she pushes you away by acting rude and disrespectful, simply withdraw your attention and refuse to empower her.

Imagine for a moment that a piece of string binds you to the woman you desire. Every time the string pulls tight, there’s sexual tension in the relationship. Similarly, when the string goes slack, tension dies and attraction fades. When attraction fades and there’s a loss of sexual interest, either you or the woman—preferably both—must pull away from each other to bring sexual tension back into the relationship.

When a woman pulls away or becomes emotionally distant, most men, in a desperate attempt to soothe their anxiety, try to close the distance, thus making the string go slack, killing all sexual tension and attraction in the process. Instead, when a woman pulls away, you must mirror her behavior and also pull away in response. This, once more, pulls the string tight, bringing sexual tension back into the relationship with force and vigor.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

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Chris Canwell

[Mattheus]

Attention is like oxygen for women. Once you figure that out, it's steady sailin' from that point forward.

[fernendo]

When she pulls away, pull away too. If she keeps pulling away, leave her.

[gasparsmusic]

Just always remember boys.. she should be worried every day about losing YOU. Not the other way around. You are the king, she should want to be a part of your journey. If she’s making you think x, y, Z or trying to do some immature shit, point and say, the doors over there 🚪. Don’t ever get emotional. Focus on yourself, your goals / passions and she will tag along.

[Stringer]

When she wants space, make her an astronaut. ✌🏿

[omarelsherif]

I swear this works everytime..I learned alot from that man..Be indifferent and focus on your purpose.

[Ihearttaylorswif]

#1 Rule when being with a woman. Control your emotions. Once you figure that out. It's a breeze.

[justlol]

A few months ago I lost me gf by chasing too much. I pulled away but it was too late, she had already lost all attraction for me. Listen to this video guys, if u don’t want to get hurt.

[janmeshsharma]

Chris speaks truth! It frequently happens with every man..how u handle urself is the key. Act needy and desperate and u'll lose up the girl...stay calm, composed and masculine, she'll be back to u even more attracted 😀
Thank you for the valuable content Chris

[mastahogweh]

Been together with my woman for almost 3 years… with all the arguments we’ve had…. Especially her walking away and being silent….. ive never felt in peace after I saw this challenge ever since when I was in highschool. I aways followed the “mirror her actions” technique…. It never fails and she always comes back sending me a paragraph and an i miss you text as I enjoy my day

[dinok.]

Always remember the quote from Heat:

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."

In this context, if she's giving you the wrong kind of heat: Sketchy behavior, drama, silent treatment, flakey..

Bounce.

[All_eyez_n_me_lp]

These women are so full of themselves that they really try their longest to hold out or get even more upset when you mirror. The silence just keeps going and going.

[Luigi-xghx]

You know, yesterday, a friend of mine, told me her girl asked him to leave their house. My friend felt so badly because he loves her, but, I recommended him to walk away from her and no contact till she reaches out to him. Thanks Chris.

[ozzozz-rz]

yup thats a relationship i learned that the hardest way, my current girlfriend when she does this, it gets me frustrated i get so hurt but i manage my feelings on my own and i disappear and act busy on purpose, until i see that " i miss u" coming from her.

example: right now she went to university she got an event, she did not tell me how she s going, i am disappearing for 3-4 hours focusing on work and distracting myself extremely to the point i might temporarily forget she exists.

[harshparmar]

U have completely changed me into an alpha guy, Chris . Thank u so much u r beast in this 😈💪🏻🙌🏻
Ur book "Atomic attraction" has transformed me completely Chris! It's so awesome. Love from India 💪🏻

[palindrome]

In the relationship stage it works. In the dating stage, once a woman pulls back, usually she’s gone forever. But it shouldn’t be your problem anyway. Her loss.

[dylandimingu]

If it wasnt for you Chriss i would be one of those Nice guys . Every advice you have given thus far is golden and it works all the time

[truenewsexposingtheblues.]

I just leave them pull away all the time.

[AndyKirtland]

Just leave and forget them because these women are clearly chatting to other men.

It’s vital to have self respect by getting to the point where you couldn’t careless. If she treats you like an option, then she is taking you for granted and doesn’t see you worthy enough. Women like this are more likely to cheat on you if you let them treat you like an option, especially when they become attracted to a so called chad who happens to be a jerk and she ends up getting hurt. Yet, it is forever the man’s fault and women can do no wrong.

So if you ain’t a woman’s one and only option, as well as a top priority, then mirror her actions and if ever she comes back don’t give away your power by being a yes man like you were waiting around for her. She has to earn your respect and love. Just tell her you ain’t sure this is right for you and wish her well. Depending whether she’s genuine or toxic, she’s either going to try and prove you wrong by her actions or she will no longer see you as one of many guys she just uses for attention and validation. Either way, you win since your a man with ambition, purpose and vision and knows his worth.

[pixel]

This works on men too. In business. Had a customer blow up on me through text. I acted indifferent and emotionless then made money off him 🤣🤣🤣

[johndalepardillo]

Chris, thank you for helping us men to be mentally and emotionally strong! I like the cartoons, btw. Please maker more videos.