Walk Away from Women to Restore Respect and Attraction | Mirror Her Emotions

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I’ve spent years talking to men about their relationship problems, and one thing keeps on coming up time and time again: if a girl is difficult, it’s not going to get any easier. It doesn’t matter if you sleep with her, it doesn’t matter if you get into a relationship with her, it’s still going to be difficult until you show her that you have the power to walk away on her and mean it.

Case Study: Fight Fire with Fire

When Neil met Gretchen outside her apartment, he could tell straight away that she was in a bad mood. As usual, whenever Gretchen was upset her face was the picture of misery.
“Are you okay?” Neil asked as he came up beside her.
“I’m fine,” Gretchen replied.
“Would you like to go for a walk?”
“Sure,” Gretchen said. As they walked to the park, Gretchen told Neil how she had done yoga a couple of days ago and would try pilates next week.
“That’s awesome,” Neil said. “You’re putting me to shame, you’re so healthy.”
“Why do you keep talking about my health?”
Neil looked confused. “I’m not.”
“You asked me how I’m feeling, now you’re telling me I’m healthy.”
“I only asked because you told me you weren’t feeling well the other day.”
“Don’t talk about my health,” Gretchen snapped.
Neil had seen Gretchen act this way before and he knew it didn’t bode well for the rest of the day. The last time Gretchen had acted this way, she had spent the whole day chewing him out. Neil didn’t want to experience a repeat of that all over again, so Neil did what he thought was best and told Gretchen he “didn’t mean anything by it, it was just a harmless comment.” Neil then proceeded to spend the next couple of hours trying to talk Gretchen into a state of happiness, but nothing he said or did seemed to lighten her mood or make her feel any better.

* * *

Six months later, Neil was gone and Gretchen was in a relationship with Sean.
One afternoon, while Gretchen and Sean were having coffee, Sean asked Gretchen if she was feeling better. Gretchen had been sick for a couple of days and Sean wanted to make sure she was okay.
“I’m fine,” Gretchen said, sipping her coffee.
“You sure?”
“I said I’m fine,” Gretchen snapped.
“Relax, I was just making sure you’re okay.”
“Well, don’t, it makes you sound stupid.”
Fortunately, Sean had seen this kind of behavior before. He got up from the table and flashed Gretchen a smile. “You’ll get the check, right?” And with that, he was gone. Sean knew there was nothing he could say to make Gretchen happy. And he knew she would spend the next couple of hours being rude and there was nothing he could do about it except mirror her emotions and withdraw from the situation. Actions, after all, speak louder than words.
As Sean walked out of the diner, Gretchen got up and followed him out the door. “Where are you going?” she yelled.
“I’ve got stuff to do.”
“Are you mad at me? I didn’t do anything.”
“See ya,” Sean said as he crossed the street. The way Sean saw it he was a busy guy. He had his own business, he loved to workout, and he had options with women. He didn’t have time to waste on women who were rude and disrespectful.

* * *

Gretchen didn’t contact Sean for the rest of the day, and Sean didn’t contact her either. It was a classic standoff. Gretchen, however, was bristling with anxiety. Will I ever see him again? Is this it? What was I thinking? Why did I have to get so upset over nothing? she thought.
Later that night, Gretchen checked her phone… still no message from Sean. Unable to contain her anxiety any longer, Gretchen typed out a message and sent it to Sean: “Hey, I’m sorry about before. Are you okay?”

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Chris Canwell
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It can really hurt walking away from a women but it will hurt much more if you don't.

agee
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Nothing scares a woman more than a confident man that has options

austinstruhar
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The most important thing to a female is attention. You take that away, you take away everything. Unfortunately, most females have a list of men, on social media, that will provide them attention. So they'll just move on from one man to the next. If men stopped providing endless attention just to get it in, this wouldn't be a problem...females would act right. Let's have higher standards gentlemen.

KnightstheEnd
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Gretchen's a bad girlfriend. Don't date a Gretchen.

osbonoam
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The strongest negotiation position is being able to walk away and mean it. -CCW

zvierne
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Always walk away to restore respect, it can not be gained by being respectful or reasoning.

salehibrahim
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No one got the check at the diner. These two should be arrested!

JeffVader
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If she calls you again or not. Walk away, never tolerate attitude and respect yourself always.

HAPPYPANDA
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Being in a relationship is so overrated. Get a Porsche instead.

jtstar
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When she starts acting out of nowhere, WALK AWAY!

bahaatamer
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When a relationship ends, we always think of the woman at her peak, looks-wise. Her most infectious laugh, affection. The best sex.

What you should remember: how she looks without makeup, any time she ever disrespected you (it’s always more than once), and the lack of sex—or worse— the disinterested sex. Remember: whatever status she had you gave to her and can give to someone better.

Keep your chins up, kings.

moviefan
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Get rich even be scared to pull off this trash everytime

scientistsupremeL
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Walking away from someone isn’t a difficult thing to do if you don’t accept someone disrespecting you. Those who accept someone disrespecting them have self esteem issues.

KA-rpuh
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Attention is your coin in a relationship with women, so you should always use it wisely. Don't give attention when the women does not deserve it.

Prk
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Hi Chris, i wanted to say thanks for the quality content you put out. My girlfriend and I were shopping the other week and she said "you don't have to follow me around everywhere I go". From the look on her face, she was seeing how I'd respond to it. So I turned around and walked away and she called my name. Before I knew it she ran up behind me hugging me from behind. It does work.

Men remember that you are the prize. Have the strength to walk away and not look back.

shayb
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Never let woman be rude, disrespectful and toxic. If she makes you feel uncomfortable and upset - just left her with all this shit.

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I walked away from women some time ago.
Nothing against them at all, I think they're wonderful, but I don't get the strategies and mindgames that go into relationships.
I've no time for the dramas or infidelities.
I sometimes receive smiles from women and that's always nice, but for me that's as far as it goes.
I'm single for life, I'll live alone, sleep alone and die alone.
I'm happy with that.

euanelliott
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Don’t try to amuse her just amuse yourself. It’s better to be happy than spending your own happiness for an attractive girl or anybody

nicksoloroblox
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Remember!!...when you walk away, you're going somewhere better! Walking away is an improvement and a reinforcement of your value. This is what will make YOU feel happier, stronger and ready for an appreciative woman.

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Gretchen is testing every guy she meets to see if he’ll stay. She has abandonment issues

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